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phxgydnar -> Harbored kinky fantasies for a long time - never acted them out - not sure how to proceed (12/22/2012 11:54:59 AM)

Hi there everyone,
I'm a hardworking small business owner who has harbored Dominant fantasies for years but has never acted them out.
I'm not sure how to find a similar woman as I've never acted out my fantasies before but a good friend of mine suggested this web site as a starter.

Any advice would be welcome. I seek a similar woman who has submissive fantasies, who is willing to learn together with me.



TieMeInKnottss -> RE: Harbored kinky fantasies for a long time - never acted them out - not sure how to proceed (12/22/2012 2:37:36 PM)

Welcome aboard. Ask questions, read some of the books on the recommended book list...take your time



phxgydnar -> RE: Harbored kinky fantasies for a long time - never acted them out - not sure how to proceed (12/22/2012 7:19:39 PM)

Thanks. I'll look for this 'recommended book list' and let you know what I find out.



TieMeInKnottss -> RE: Harbored kinky fantasies for a long time - never acted them out - not sure how to proceed (12/22/2012 7:29:47 PM)

http://www.collarchat.com/m_1726118/tm.htm

If that doesn't work it is located in the forum entitled "Alternative Lifestyles in The News"



tidbit5021 -> RE: Harbored kinky fantasies for a long time - never acted them out - not sure how to proceed (12/23/2012 12:12:59 AM)

Hi,

I find reading the message boards/forums to be quite helpful. You may want to find some local gatherings in your area as well. Those can usually be easily found on FetLife.




phxgydnar -> RE: Harbored kinky fantasies for a long time - never acted them out - not sure how to proceed (12/26/2012 9:17:13 AM)

I googled for fetlife and it seems to be the same (or similar?) to collarme. What's the difference to you? They seem the same to me, at this initial level anyway.



stef -> RE: Harbored kinky fantasies for a long time - never acted them out - not sure how to proceed (12/26/2012 9:22:09 AM)


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ORIGINAL: phxgydnar

I googled for fetlife and it seems to be the same (or similar?) to collarme. What's the difference to you? They seem the same to me, at this initial level anyway.

They're the same in as much as people use both of them and they're BDSM oriented. I think that's where the similarities end.

FL allows users to create their own forums so there are many dedicated to individual cities/towns which makes connecting with local folks a lot easier. Sadly, their forum interface is utterly atrocious so it comes at a cost.



kalikshama -> RE: Harbored kinky fantasies for a long time - never acted them out - not sure how to proceed (12/26/2012 10:24:16 AM)

Fet is great for finding local BDSM events. I vastly prefer CM's discussion board. While I have made friends from fet, it was not created as a hookup site. I've met many more play partners via CM.



Delilya -> RE: Harbored kinky fantasies for a long time - never acted them out - not sure how to proceed (12/26/2012 12:25:08 PM)

Best of luck in your journey



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