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large labia thoughts- Females only. - 12/22/2012 5:50:09 AM   
labiahunter84


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Status: offline 		Im not quite sure but, I thought at one point I had a way to spot a girl who was equipped if you will, with a large long hanging set of lablia. Over the years I found I was wrong. Its an obsession as when going down on a girl I wish for there to be more than enough to suck in and tease etc... Wondering if there is a way to spot it. Crazy I know. But woman from what I have seen either know too little about there bodies in that aspect and are too shy to vocalize it or become offended upon inquiring about it. Whats your take on this ?




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RE: large labia thoughts- Females only. - 12/22/2012 6:15:32 AM   
DarkSteven


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1. You don't get to specify who responds to you. I'm a man, and I'm doing it. See how that works?
2. Presentation. You gotta work on your presentation. The way you presented it is that women consist of nothing to you but pussies to eat. Let me suggest a rephrasing:

"I love to go down on women. I've found that my pleasure is increased if I'm eating out a woman with larger labia. Can anyone tell me if there is a correlation between those and anything else?"

3. Under the "better living through technology" heading, you're in luck. If you manage to bed a woman, use a pussy suction device. It'll temporarily make her lips bigger.

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RE: large labia thoughts- Females only. - 12/22/2012 7:01:36 AM   
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Status: offline 		If some guy approached me with only an interest in how long my labia lips are, I'm gonna roll my eyes and either walk away or delete and move on. That's just....weird.


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RE: large labia thoughts- Females only. - 12/22/2012 7:30:41 AM   
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RE: large labia thoughts- Females only. - 12/22/2012 8:06:30 AM   
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ORIGINAL: labiahunter84
But woman from what I have seen either know too little about there bodies in that aspect and are too shy to vocalize it or become
offended upon inquiring about it.

Scene 1 - Standing in line at the local grocery store.
LargeLabiaLover – “Hi pretty lady. That’s a lovely dress you’re wearing.
Do your labia lips hang low?”
Random woman slaps LargeLabiaLover. The customers cheer.

Scene 2 – Bus stop in anytown USA
LargeLabiaLover – “Excuse me miss, could you please tell me the time”?
Random woman – “It’s 2:45, and I have large labia lips”

Do you really see any of these conversations playing out anywhere other than your fantasies?
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ORIGINAL: labiahunter84
Whats your take on this ?

I think instead of focusing on your mad sucking skills, you should be working on your social skills.
I know my body quite well, from the size of my lips to the length of my little toe. Tell me why in the world you
think we should be sharing this information with a random stranger? As littlewonder stated, if your only interest
in me is the size of my packaging, then you aren't someone I would be sharing it with to begin with.

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RE: large labia thoughts- Females only. - 12/22/2012 9:01:06 AM   
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Status: offline 		Unlike dicks, I don't think that labias have thoughts, whatever their size.......thats my thought.  One of the differences between men and women.

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RE: large labia thoughts- Females only. - 12/22/2012 9:17:49 AM   
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RE: large labia thoughts- Females only. - 12/22/2012 10:54:05 AM   
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Status: offline 		Asking a woman if her labia are large or long is going to put her on the defensive.
To most of us females, our labia, pores, waist, feet, ears ... should be small.
Why? Because, be it right or wrong, we're used to a standard of beauty. That's just the way it is.
Asking if a part of her body is large or long is really asking, " Is it larger or longer than normal ? "
While we want to be different when it comes to our minds, drawing attention to a part of our bodies that might not fit within established standards will bring insecurity to rise.

That being said, there is still hope for your kink. Find ways to express your turn-on in a way that is welcoming to women with such a feature. Everyone wants to be accepted for who and what they are, in feature and characteristics.

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RE: large labia thoughts- Females only. - 12/22/2012 10:58:13 AM   
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ORIGINAL: FelineFae

Asking a woman if her labia are large or long is going to put her on the defensive.
To most of us females, our labia, pores, waist, feet, ears ... should be small.
Why? Because, be it right or wrong, we're used to a standard of beauty.


That's not why I'd be defensive. I'd be defensive because 1) I don't wish to be objectified over a part of my body and 2) because it's none of your goddamned business until I decide that you're someone that I wish to have sexual relations with and we actually have sex. Even then if you discuss with fanaticism, you'd be gone.


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RE: large labia thoughts- Females only. - 12/22/2012 11:10:08 AM   
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Status: offline 		that's a huge assumption that women don't know their own bodies. especially coming from a guy. don't forget that most guys think 6" is 8" so i think we've got the upper hand on that one.

women don't want to talk about it because it's none of your business.

as for your choice of title....i so knew a guy would post, and i'm glad they did. don't be so god damn arrogant as to think you have nothing to learn from the other guys here too.

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RE: large labia thoughts- Females only. - 12/22/2012 11:11:45 AM   
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Poor kitty kat.

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ORIGINAL: FelineFae

Asking a woman if her labia are large or long is going to put her on the defensive.
To most of us females, our labia, pores, waist, feet, ears ... should be small.
Why? Because, be it right or wrong, we're used to a standard of beauty. That's just the way it is.
Asking if a part of her body is large or long is really asking, " Is it larger or longer than normal ? "
While we want to be different when it comes to our minds, drawing attention to a part of our bodies that might not fit within established standards will bring insecurity to rise.

That being said, there is still hope for your kink. Find ways to express your turn-on in a way that is welcoming to women with such a feature. Everyone wants to be accepted for who and what they are, in feature and characteristics.



I agree with this statement up 'til the last paragraph. The OP does not appear to have the requisite social skills to pull that off (i.e. he comes across as a creep.)

Seriously OP, I'd work on that. Your nick screams red flag red flag red flag.



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RE: large labia thoughts- Females only. - 12/22/2012 11:19:50 AM   
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Status: offline 		i agree that there are many reasons why someone would get slapped if they emailed a woman with such an inquiry or asked such a thing in the super-market.
This topic just isn't going to be an acceptable " ice-breaker " for conversation with a stranger.

However, when it comes to a person's fetishes, the topic is going to come up at some point.
i believe the OP has made the first step to better comprehension. He's asked for help on a kink-friendly forum.
He's been given some excellent advice for DS and he's learning how and why different women will react.




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RE: large labia thoughts- Females only. - 12/22/2012 11:26:14 AM   
FelineFae


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Seriously OP, I'd work on that. Your nick screams red flag red flag red flag.



Lol. Just before i posted, i deleted my last sentence which was, " Personally, i'd advise the OP to change his screen-name. It's just off-putting, imho. "
i thought it might be mean.

quote:

I agree with this statement up 'til the last paragraph. The OP does not appear to have the requisite social skills to pull that off (i.e. he comes across as a creep.)



i'm trying to be nice today. i approached the topic in the mindset that 'everyone has to start somewhere' .

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RE: large labia thoughts- Females only. - 12/22/2012 11:37:20 AM   
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RE: large labia thoughts- Females only. - 12/22/2012 4:52:37 PM   
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RE: large labia thoughts- Females only. - 12/22/2012 4:56:41 PM   
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Status: offline 		Ahhh, don't sweat it. Just find a gal with little labia, put some rings in em, then start hanging weights. Be a do it yourself large labia sorta guy.
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RE: large labia thoughts- Females only. - 12/22/2012 6:43:04 PM   
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Status: offline 		Isaiah - your profile comes across as very one dimensional - as in - all you are interested in is a walking set of labial lips. And really, that would be a very uncommon fetish for women. Not many of us wish to be thought of as one piece of their body and nothing else. And before you say that you don't view women that way - your profile pretty much says otherwise.

Perhaps if you rewrote your profile to sound like a person- not a suckin mouth you might get more responses.

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RE: large labia thoughts- Females only. - 12/22/2012 6:44:20 PM   
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RE: large labia thoughts- Females only. - 12/22/2012 6:56:32 PM   
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Status: offline 		Just being from away from CM for a bit, I always have a laugh at some of these people.

The screen name is alone is hilarious.

OP, I do believe you can see who is "equipped" with such a thing. Just stare at women who have major camel toe and wear skin tight leggings and you can assess.

But, like men who shove their packages to one side in their jeans to make it look bigger, you may be disappointed.

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RE: large labia thoughts- Females only. - 12/22/2012 6:56:32 PM   
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Status: offline 		Ah - Aries - does the emeticon mean you think my comments are unwarranted, or on the money? Enquiring minds want to know.......................

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