Welcome to the boards. I would go on the personal side and search by height. Don't know your definition of "really tall". I consider men who are only 6' to be "average and have dated a guy who is 6'4 and one who was 6'7 and I TOTALLY agree with you about that feeling of being small & weak.Wonder if there is a height fetish?
It also depends on how he carries himself. I'm 6'1 but when I'm trying to be friendly I tend to get down to someone else level. Maybe standing on the stair below them or leaning over an object. the flipside of that is if I want to intimidate someone I make sure my posture is straight and I tend to ride up on them. I can easily intimidate someone and make them worried just by getting a few inches from them and forcing them to have to look up at me. I do this women I'm in control with and it makes them very aware of who has power. So again not just about the height but if he knows how to use it.
@photofighter....I am going to I change my hair color to red.... I love a man who knows how to use his height to make women appreciate his power and control....plus I have a real thing for military men...If only you were 10 yrs older!
I can easily intimidate someone and make them worried just by getting a few inches from them and forcing them to have to look up at me. I do this women I'm in control with and it makes them very aware of who has power.
I didn't feel intimidated when my ex, who is 6'4" used to loom - I felt squishy :)