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New Here - 11/30/2012 11:25:50 AM   
polygyny4me


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Hello all,

We have only been on here a couple of days and have already met some of the flakes and fakes, a very warm welcome indeed. We are a happily married couple, he dom, she sub, we are in search of a live in lifetime sub wife to join our little family. We are fairly normal, but we are 24/7, have kids and jobs, hobbies and interests. If anyone can guide us away from the fakes and flakes, we would certainly appreciate it. Nice to be here.
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RE: New Here - 11/30/2012 11:26:25 AM   
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Welcome to the Unicorn hunt.

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RE: New Here - 11/30/2012 12:09:44 PM   
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Yea and isn't it fun. Thanks for the welcome!

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RE: New Here - 11/30/2012 1:16:30 PM   
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Welcome folks. A bunch of twisted folk hang out on this side. You should fit right in.

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RE: New Here - 11/30/2012 3:39:56 PM   
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Hello and welcome to the hunt.

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RE: New Here - 12/1/2012 9:57:57 AM   
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Thanks Arc. So far a few conversations with people that are acting as duplicates (have more than one profile with different pics but playing the game) and a few that seemed real but real obnoxious. If there are any real people out there, hit us up, let's see what's in store.

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RE: New Here - 12/1/2012 10:06:45 AM   
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Nobody should need to guide you away from the "fakes" and "flakes". If you actually need that sort of help then I don't have a strong prognosis for your chances running a poly family. Here's some tips.

- If it's too good to be true, it probably is.
- Nobody in their right mind commits more than trivial obedience sight unseen.
- People with publicly available photos of models as their primary photo are probably not real (reverse google image search is your friend)
- People who present as "normal" are way more likely to be "real" than the "true slave" crowd.

I readily admit that I am not searching but I have sent out a wide variety of cmails to subs here for a lot of different reasons. I don't think I've ever run into a "fake". That should tell you that whatever causes me to write someone is different than what causes you to do so. In fact, about the last person I'm going to write is that smoking hot 23 year old bi-sexual slave who desires nothing but to obey. That right there probably keeps the incidence of me running into "fakes" to a minimum. I'm not saying that is what you are selecting.... it's just what I attribute my observations to. But if you're running into lots of them then you are selecting for something counter productive and you need to figure out what it is.

Welcome and good luck in your search :)

edited to add:
PS: I like the way your profile reads as A COUPLE rather than two individuals through and through. There's no hint of "guy hoping to con his wife into something" in it. That'll work in your favor I assume.

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RE: New Here - 12/4/2012 12:19:17 PM   
polygyny4me


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We really don't need guidance as to who the fakes and flakes are, they mail us immediately and after two emails we know who they are. The ones advertising as so young, not needed, nor wanted really, but there a bunch of them. as soon as we get an email expecting ownership immediately we say goodbye. Nobody cones into our life in a flash.

Yes we are a true couple and have the webcam to prove it, now all we need is a serious person to converse with, but that will come in time.

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