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Oklahoma in the UK - 6/15/2006 4:32:24 AM

salome1973

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I know an interesting title and perhaps more than a little misleading! But,t here is a reason. One of the songs in Oklahoma is 'I'm just a girl who cain't say no!'

That's me down to a tee!
I have to learn that I can say no. Its not evil to say no, I have everyr ight to say no and if the guy doesn't respect that no he should get a swift kick in their most delicate of regions! Yes that is exactly it!

Anyone care to put this into practice with me he he.

Although I have been aware of BDSM and the lifestyle for about 12 years now, I am rather inexperienced, I have the heart of a sub but not the skills. It is something I am still learning.
Hence, why I thikn it would be good to speak to somel ike minded people.

Anyway I just thought I would introduce myself.

be well all

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RE: Oklahoma in the UK - 6/15/2006 4:50:25 AM

RavenMuse

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Welcome aboard sweetie. Nice to see another Brit here on the Forums.

Another way to look at the "Can't say no" problem is how could a Master trust a girl who couldn't say no to someone who was trying to get her to go against HIS wishes? It is just one area where I don't like dealing with doormats and am always happy to see a girl who can, or is learning to, say no when she needs to!

Good luck, dive in and have fun

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RE: Oklahoma in the UK - 6/15/2006 4:53:05 AM

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Thank you Raven, yes that is a very valid point!

I know from alittle experience that I am much better at saying no if I am under anothers control. My 'backup' so to speak :)

I would be mortified if I did go against my Masters wishes. Just haven't had a Master for along period of time to test the theory lol

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RE: Oklahoma in the UK - 6/15/2006 4:58:51 AM

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ORIGINAL: salome1973
Just haven't had a Master for along period of time to test the theory lol

Tsk! a pretty girl like yourself? Time to book an opticians appointment for all the Doms in Shropshire, at first glace at least it looks like they have been missing a little gem

Their loss but from your profile, some lucky young gents gain. Good luck petal

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RE: Oklahoma in the UK - 6/15/2006 5:03:25 AM

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Well I have kept myself, to myself really. Not many Shrop Doms know I exsist. Shropshires best kept secret lol.

As for MrR he is always my knight in tarnished armour,rescues me, when I need it. And.lets memakemistakes so I do need rescuing lol. It is an unusual relationship and not necessarily romantic. More exquisitely convenient!

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