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Rude mails - 10/19/2012 12:30:24 AM   
OwnerExtreme


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As I said before, I always try to be polite in my mails because I don't think that being a Master means to forget your good manners - especially if you are getting to know somebody. I also know that my profile and my likings are not for everybody and that some may call me a "pervert" but I take this a s a compliment.
But a few days ago I got a mail from somebody that was really rude. Though I have never seen her profile before and never contacted me, she insulted me, used swear words - totally hateful.

Not that this bothers me at all - I only sent a friendly answer and thanked her for her nice mail, but: should I report it or not?
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RE: Rude mails - 10/19/2012 12:34:41 AM   
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It seems to happen in cycles. We've gotten a few lately (see "funny messages from the other side" in "polls and random snippets")

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RE: Rude mails - 10/19/2012 12:42:45 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: OwnerExtreme

should I report it or not?


If it'll make you feel better, I would. It could go under 'vulgar text'. Enough of those and that person'll be out on their ass.

Apparently everyone gets these unsolicited, and as ThroatLover mentioned it does go in cycles. Hmmm... <looks out the window>... what's the moon doing right now?

Report, block, hide, mark as spam and delete.

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RE: Rude mails - 10/19/2012 1:12:43 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: OwnerExtreme

Not that this bothers me at all - I only sent a friendly answer and thanked her for her nice mail, but: should I report it or not?

If it doesn't bother you why are you posting about it? You're a grown man, do whatever you like.

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RE: Rude mails - 10/19/2012 1:37:35 AM   
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@Stef: Thank you for your reply. I didn't want to sound "helpless" or like a confused child. I wanted to ask about the experiences and I wanted to hear a different oppinion. Maybe I want to report it and someone would post something like: "You can do it but nobody cares" or: "Better not because they will check your profile and will find something thats offensive and delete you" or .... wahtever

Anyways - If my intention wasn't clear, blame it to my poor English.

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RE: Rude mails - 10/19/2012 1:39:58 AM   
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Erm... Isn't this the same guy that was complaining in another thread about why people don't respond to E-Mails, how rude it is, and how people should respond?

If it is, then I think my statement above speaks for it's self.

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RE: Rude mails - 10/19/2012 2:03:20 AM   
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It depends how rude and how upset you are by it.

But the same principle applies as for your other post, don't bother about the people who really aren't bothered about you. Seriously. It will improve the quality of your life.

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RE: Rude mails - 10/19/2012 2:25:34 AM   
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Have you been victimized by a submissive????

Exhausted by someone who wants to follow your every command and wish???
Did that mean submissive cross your HARD limit again???
Has a total stranger failed to recognize how wonderful and Domly you are???
Tired of people saying that your flatulence is any thing less than perfection?????
Is someone using their mean words to take away your dominance and make you feel bad ?????
Do people try and force you to see reality???
Are you fed up with the galling lack of respect for your superhuman assertiveness???

If so join our support group. Doms Online Reality Kinship.

Here at DORK you will learn:

How to stop the cycle of total dedication and service
Ten guaranteed ways to turn a dedicated submissive into a confused and bitter husk
The quickest ways to convince a woman to leave the lifestyle
Five hidden signs that she is doing way too much for you
Coping strategies for blowing things out of proportion while avoiding any responsibility for our actions .
Why our personality flaws are REALLY signs of our EXTREME Alpha male awesomeness.
The quickest way to ensure everyone understands how you EXEMPLIFY the traits of a true member
Simple steps to suck the wonder and joy from any submissives heart

Most importantly here at Dom Online Reality Kinship we focus on supporting your passive aggressive inner child. We put the ARRGH in passive ARRGHRESSIVE.

Don't worry, the reason you can't get along with someone who identifies as a submissive and enjoys serving/pleasing/being used is ENTIRELY her fault, it has nothing to do with your lack of understanding. Why I bet that little minx actually blocked you after your kind and wonderful attempt at correcting her terrible non conforming ways.

Come to our meeting and REPORT all the bad scary mean submissives who fail to comply with the 274 rules every submissive should know. Lets make the internet safe for all DORK members. Act now and DORK councilors will assist you in writing letters to the admins insisting they put a shiny star on your profile.


Let me know how that reporting thing works out for you.


Michael...

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RE: Rude mails - 10/19/2012 11:57:24 AM   
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quote:

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RE: Rude mails - 10/19/2012 11:59:30 AM   
NuevaVida


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quote:

ORIGINAL: stellauk

It depends how rude and how upset you are by it.

But the same principle applies as for your other post, don't bother about the people who really aren't bothered about you. Seriously. It will improve the quality of your life.


This!! Awesome advice that applies in all areas of life.

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RE: Rude mails - 10/19/2012 12:03:11 PM   
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WoW- and you call yourself a Dominant - and you have to go to a board panel to decide on something like this? I pray for the sub or slave that ever meets you in person.

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RE: Rude mails - 10/19/2012 12:26:34 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: BoundSlave4Life

Erm... Isn't this the same guy that was complaining in another thread about why people don't respond to E-Mails, how rude it is, and how people should respond?

If it is, then I think my statement above speaks for it's self.


Yup, the same guy that started the now 20+ page rant on why people ignore emails.


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RE: Rude mails - 10/19/2012 12:42:49 PM   
ivone1


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i dont take anything anyone sends to me on face value .... unless i know them in person they are just words on a screen... cuss me out all you want.. i will laugh at cha cause your cussing at a computer screen ...just saying

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RE: Rude mails - 10/19/2012 12:47:29 PM   
needlesandpins


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i think it's a bit rich asking about reporting anyone considering the stuff in your profile op.

if anyone should be reported it's yourself. you speak of addiction, forced intoxication, drunk fetish, not respecting any furture person's likes, dislikes or limits, but you can't stand some swear words.

man up.

needles

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RE: Rude mails - 10/19/2012 12:53:47 PM   
Hillwilliam


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If you get a rude email, here is what you do.

1. Delete it
2. Hit "block"
3. Forget that person ever existed.

It can be done in under 3 seconds.

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RE: Rude mails - 10/19/2012 12:54:42 PM   
Kana


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Bemyprize

Have you been victimized by a submissive????

Exhausted by someone who wants to follow your every command and wish???
Did that mean submissive cross your HARD limit again???
Has a total stranger failed to recognize how wonderful and Domly you are???
Tired of people saying that your flatulence is any thing less than perfection?????
Is someone using their mean words to take away your dominance and make you feel bad ?????
Do people try and force you to see reality???
Are you fed up with the galling lack of respect for your superhuman assertiveness???

If so join our support group. Doms Online Reality Kinship.

Here at DORK you will learn:

How to stop the cycle of total dedication and service
Ten guaranteed ways to turn a dedicated submissive into a confused and bitter husk
The quickest ways to convince a woman to leave the lifestyle
Five hidden signs that she is doing way too much for you
Coping strategies for blowing things out of proportion while avoiding any responsibility for our actions .
Why our personality flaws are REALLY signs of our EXTREME Alpha male awesomeness.
The quickest way to ensure everyone understands how you EXEMPLIFY the traits of a true member
Simple steps to suck the wonder and joy from any submissives heart

Most importantly here at Dom Online Reality Kinship we focus on supporting your passive aggressive inner child. We put the ARRGH in passive ARRGHRESSIVE.

Don't worry, the reason you can't get along with someone who identifies as a submissive and enjoys serving/pleasing/being used is ENTIRELY her fault, it has nothing to do with your lack of understanding. Why I bet that little minx actually blocked you after your kind and wonderful attempt at correcting her terrible non conforming ways.

Come to our meeting and REPORT all the bad scary mean submissives who fail to comply with the 274 rules every submissive should know. Lets make the internet safe for all DORK members. Act now and DORK councilors will assist you in writing letters to the admins insisting they put a shiny star on your profile.


Let me know how that reporting thing works out for you.


Michael...

Ok-this is awesome. It has the Kana stamp of approval

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RE: Rude mails - 10/20/2012 12:30:16 AM   
stef


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Hillwilliam

If you get a rude email, here is what you do.

1. Delete it
2. Hit "block"
3. Forget that person ever existed.

It can be done in under 3 seconds.

Does that work even if you're an Extreme Owner?

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RE: Rude mails - 10/20/2012 5:02:31 AM   
Hillwilliam


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quote:

ORIGINAL: stef


quote:

ORIGINAL: Hillwilliam

If you get a rude email, here is what you do.

1. Delete it
2. Hit "block"
3. Forget that person ever existed.

It can be done in under 3 seconds.

Does that work even if you're an Extreme Owner?

ESPECIALLY if you're an extreme owner.

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RE: Rude mails - 6/18/2013 2:25:10 AM   
moanaliissa


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quote:

If you get a rude email, here is what you do.

1. Delete it
2. Hit "block"
3. Forget that person ever existed.

It can be done in under 3 seconds.

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RE: Rude mails - 6/18/2013 4:45:18 AM   
VideoAdmnOmicron


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Please do not post on inactive threads that are more than 3 months old.

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