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ORIGINAL: chemeli

For the journal, maybe reducing about the music bit? Because reading the entries, it made no sense to me and you come accross as somehow a bit errr edgy, over energetic girl. I dont know if that's you, but that was how i saw you from your journal.

It's good for getting people to know yourself, but it's also not a *personal diary*, so to speak. [:)]

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ORIGINAL: chemeli

For the journal, maybe reducing about the music bit? Because reading the entries, it made no sense to me and you come accross as somehow a bit errr edgy, over energetic girl. I dont know if that's you, but that was how i saw you from your journal.

It's good for getting people to know yourself, but it's also not a *personal diary*, so to speak. It's advertisement for putting up little pieces of your personality to enlighten your journal. Or to tease the curiosity of others, maybe. I dont use the journal that much, because i have no idea what to put in it, so i just dont. Use it as how you would like people to see you and how you would like them to get to know you better maybe, if you feel you *have* to use it.

For the messages....if i'm interested, i answer. If not, i just reply, politely, our interests do not match, thank you or something like that. No need to write a novel for a refusal response and waste your and other people's time.

as for admirers....i have noooo idea [:)]