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redwhiteblue -> Hello Again, CM! (8/28/2012 9:17:41 AM)
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Hello CM!
I'm redwhitblue. I'm a 24 year old, female submissive with intermediate-ish experience in BDSM lifestyle & play. I know a thing or a two and I'm looking to expand my knowledge & experience base.
I was on this site during 2009-2010 under a different user name {pleadingprosy}. I learned alot and met a number of wonderful people, including a very special certain someone. It was, at the time, a great introduction to BDSM and the online community in general.
I dropped off the site for for a while because I felt like there were too many presumptious, obnoxious Doms on the site sending me rude or creepy messages. I got tired of hitting the block button all the time, or spending time talking with someone only to realize they didn't care about who I am, or how I feel and just wanted to manipulate me into their grasp.
I got frustrated that a number of {not all!} Doms I communicated with confused the concept of a submissive with the idea of a doormat/idiot/pushover. And if I happened to run across one of these kinds of Doms, and I stood up for my personal boundaries, I would be accused of being a fake, being vanilla, being a boy in disguise, and a number of other ridiculous things.
Well, I'm back. I decided to rejoin CM under the username redwhiteblue. And although I have already run into a number of jerks on here, it's not really any different than real life in that regard - for every 100 people you meet, you might meet only a few special & worthwhile people. And it's worth wading through the BS to find those people.
I will continue to be a 'paradox', despite what others say.... I am a strong, confident and independent young woman. I have personal values, boundaries and expectations. I am free thinking and individualistic. AND I am ALSO a submissive. While I will not assert dominance over others, I WILL ASSERT MY BOUNDARIES. This is completely healthy and acceptable in my opinion, so if you don't like it please keep it to yourself. You can thank all the crazies on this site for making it neccessary for subs to be cautious.
I am currently only on here looking to chat. I have {as many others do} an overwhelming amount of messages and responses, so I would like to apologize to those I may not have responded to.
I look forward to meeting some unique and interesting people on here!
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