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opinions needed - 8/21/2012 6:13:35 PM

curiositytakenme

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Hello, I am hoping for some opinions here. I'm very new to allowing myself to move forward with this crazy desire. I have for years had constant dreams about being dominated. I am so curious but don't know where to even start. How do you even come about telling someone you are curious about D/s relationships? Anyone with any advice or comments please help!

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RE: opinions needed - 8/21/2012 6:42:20 PM

JeffBC

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you google your city name, BDSM, and "munch". Munches are basically the real world entry portal for BDSM. They are meetings of kinky folks in vanilla locations designed to make things approachable to newbies.

Then, when you're in a room filled with other kinky people you say, "Hi, I'm <insert name here> and I'm brand new to BDSM but think I might be a sub."

Things oughta proceed naturally from there. Feel free to hang around these forums also. Lots of us talk about a lot of things here. But there just isn't any substitute for ... well... the real world.

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RE: opinions needed - 8/21/2012 8:03:42 PM

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Welcome, good luck and enjoy the forum

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RE: opinions needed - 8/22/2012 12:24:22 AM

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Jeff has it right. Google your town and "munch". Go meet folks. It might be good. If not, Google the next town over.

Annnnd these links might help a little.

http://www.askmen.com/money/successful/41_success.html
http://www.askmen.com/money/successful_60/66b_success.html
http://www.askmen.com/money/successful_100/117_success.html
http://www.collarchat.com/m_1717756/mpage_1/key_/tm.htm#1717756
http://www.collarchat.com/m_3057095/tm.htm
http://www.collarchat.com/m_3057123/tm.htm
http://the1585.com/performativemasculinity.htm
http://www.xtranormal.com/watch/8325689/the-meeting?page=1
http://gayglobeus.powweb.com/barbarella.html

Best of luck.

Edit : added an r.

< Message edited by FrostedFlake -- 8/22/2012 12:25:05 AM >

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RE: opinions needed - 8/22/2012 12:36:58 AM

Delilya

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Best of luck

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RE: opinions needed - 8/22/2012 12:56:11 AM

butters69

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Agreed, google is one of the best tools for finding like-minded people. Very best of luck to you!

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RE: opinions needed - 8/22/2012 6:28:16 PM

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