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elwyn -> New member and complete beginner (6/28/2012 4:45:25 AM)

Hello.

I have just joined collarme.com and find it all rather confusing [:)] As a middle-aged man who has (a) only recently accepted his need to submit to a Master, and (b) absolutely no experience whatsoever, i'm not sure where to start!

Perhaps what i seek may not be found; however, your welcome would be appreciated, and your adviced gratefully accepted.



DarkSteven -> RE: New member and complete beginner (6/28/2012 4:50:53 AM)

Unfortunately, most of the CM members are in the US, so you as a Britisher may feel a bit left out here.

Hopefully, we'll get some UK person weighing in shortly.

Welcome to collarme.



ChatteParfaitt -> RE: New member and complete beginner (6/28/2012 4:51:54 AM)

Welcome to the discussion side of CM, elwyn.

I can understand CM being confusing. The meat market side (the profile side) is just that, a meat market. You would have much better chances going to a munch (a BDSM social event which is a meet and greet, no wild sex parties or fetish clothing). The UK has a very active kink scene. (Being kinky has nothing to do with your sexual orientation, so yes, there are gay masters out there. )

My advice is to look to real time events like munches you can attend, and then hang out here on the discussion side to learn about the many aspects of BDSM. Once you learn how to use CM's clunky search feature, you will find myriads of threads on every topic imaginable, or start one of your own!

Best, CP



elwyn -> RE: New member and complete beginner (6/28/2012 4:53:34 AM)

DarkSteven -

Thank You for Your welcome. To be honest, i will be glad of wisdom and advice from wherever it comes! [:D]



elwyn -> RE: New member and complete beginner (6/28/2012 4:56:36 AM)

Thank You CP

You can tell what a newbie i am: i had to google "munch" to find out what it meant!

Your advice is, however, much appreciated.



ChatteParfaitt -> RE: New member and complete beginner (6/28/2012 4:59:44 AM)

You're most welcome, elwyn.

You seem to be a real sweetie, polite, respectful, and knowing you have much to learn but willing to do a google search on your own to learn it !!

I vote we keep him !!



elwyn -> RE: New member and complete beginner (6/28/2012 5:04:16 AM)

*blushes*

Thank You Ma'am: what i lack in experience i hope to make up for by courtesy and a willingness to learn. And yes; i should be glad to be made welcome here.



ashjor911 -> RE: New member and complete beginner (6/28/2012 5:28:20 AM)

Welcome



OohAahMrs -> RE: New member and complete beginner (6/28/2012 8:29:02 AM)

Welcome elwyn, i'm sorry for you, that you feel the need for a lifestyle change at your time of life, i'm sure there will be someone all to ready to exploit your dreams.



elwyn -> RE: New member and complete beginner (6/28/2012 9:07:42 AM)

Actually I'm not sorry at all.



elwyn -> RE: New member and complete beginner (7/2/2012 5:53:33 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

Unfortunately, most of the CM members are in the US, so you as a Britisher may feel a bit left out here.

Hopefully, we'll get some UK person weighing in shortly.

Welcome to collarme.


Sadly the UK members haven't weighed in (as yet). Or anyone else, for that matter ... [:D]

But thanks again for the welcome, and for the encouragement. Exploration should prove interesting!



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