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Is CM being invaded? - 6/18/2012 1:49:06 PM   
CyrusKell


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Status: offline 		Usually whenever I check the "Newest Locals" page, maybe 3 new profiles have a picture of some kind and/or some info/interests
In the last week or so there's been an influx of new users with pictures, a bit of a bio and some interests
Normally I'd be going "Neat", but when I've gone to look at said profiles, the way their bios are written and the lack of any BDSM interests listed makes me wonder if these new users are actual people or just bots/trollers fishing to trick people into signing up elsewhere

Maybe they are genuine, maybe I'm just being paranoid/cynical, but I just can't shake the suspiscion


Thoughts?
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RE: Is CM being invaded? - 6/18/2012 1:55:07 PM   
Lockit


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Status: offline 		Its good to be aware... but, some are real and don't list kinks. I only list what I am not interested in as I found that those not serious about me, but wish to play, will cater their kinks to my own. I use my profile wording to show I am real, but not everyone writes a chapter length profile as I do. We do things differently.

Your job is to figure out what red flags speak to you and see if they actually pan out in some sort of truth.

The non serious... the scammers... the whatevers are out there. It is up to you in how you read them, deal with them or not and how you react.

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RE: Is CM being invaded? - 6/18/2012 2:06:52 PM   
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ORIGINAL: CyrusKell
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I love that avatar...

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RE: Is CM being invaded? - 6/18/2012 2:13:39 PM   
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RE: Is CM being invaded? - 6/18/2012 4:02:00 PM   
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ORIGINAL: SoulAlloy


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ORIGINAL: CyrusKell
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I love that avatar...



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RE: Is CM being invaded? - 6/18/2012 4:20:30 PM   
littlewonder


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Status: offline 		I don't list kinks because I was searching for more than just kink. I wanted to get to know someone and vice versa as a person and potential partner other than kinky sex.

Just because they don't have kinks listed doesn't really mean much of anything at all. I find the whole kinks list to be just annoying and I never ever read them.


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RE: Is CM being invaded? - 6/18/2012 4:32:11 PM   
Karmastic


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Status: offline 		i haven't noticed an increase in such fake accounts.

i don't think not listing kink is a good indicator, one way or the others. many people are a lot more vocal about their kinks.

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RE: Is CM being invaded? - 6/18/2012 4:49:15 PM   
Delilya


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Status: offline 		Well there you have it. Proof positive that I am a fake. The refusal to webcam almost gave me away, but now I've been found out because I don't list a bunch of kink on my profile. I knew this day would come. Sadly walks away.

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RE: Is CM being invaded? - 6/18/2012 4:52:16 PM   
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Status: offline 		It's cyclical. For a few weeks, CM will be flooded with spammers and then they get banned. Then, a few months later, here comes a new scammer.

It's really no big fuckin deal. Just recognize em and then pretend they don't exist.

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RE: Is CM being invaded? - 6/18/2012 4:52:40 PM   
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the way their bios are written and the lack of any BDSM interests listed makes me wonder if these new users are actual people or just bots/trollers fishing to trick people into signing up elsewhere


When you email them do you get a link for another site?

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RE: Is CM being invaded? - 6/18/2012 4:55:11 PM   
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RE: Is CM being invaded? - 6/18/2012 4:55:49 PM   
lizi


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ORIGINAL: Hillwilliam

It's cyclical. For a few weeks, CM will be flooded with spammers and then they get banned. Then, a few months later, here comes a new scammer.

It's really no big fuckin deal. Just recognize em and then pretend they don't exist.


I remember threads from the past that periodically remark on the same type of thing- the poster has noticed a flood of similar female profiles.

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RE: Is CM being invaded? - 6/18/2012 5:07:43 PM   
Karmastic


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ORIGINAL: Delilya

Well there you have it. Proof positive that I am a fake. The refusal to webcam almost gave me away, but now I've been found out because I don't list a bunch of kink on my profile. I knew this day would come. Sadly walks away.

lol! good to know, cus i was gonna ask you to cam because you're 2000 miles away from me

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RE: Is CM being invaded? - 6/18/2012 5:10:11 PM   
Karmastic


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ORIGINAL: kalikshama

quote:

the way their bios are written and the lack of any BDSM interests listed makes me wonder if these new users are actual people or just bots/trollers fishing to trick people into signing up elsewhere


When you email them do you get a link for another site?

the typical MO is for them to give you their yahoo email rather quickly, without even viewing your profile, or having any discussion using this site's email. as soon as you IM chat them, they very quickly give themselves away by asking you to sign up for a "free site" to cam with them, or they need gas money to come fuck you. oh so sad, yet entertaining in a perverse way.


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RE: Is CM being invaded? - 6/18/2012 5:25:10 PM   
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Status: offline 		can't you spot them before it goes that far? You've obviously had a lot of experience in this field

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RE: Is CM being invaded? - 6/18/2012 5:29:25 PM   
Karmastic


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can't you spot them before it goes that far? You've obviously had a lot of experience in this field

yes, true, i'm 95% sure. but i'm kinda dumb, and give everyone the benefit of the doubt way too long. i.e., i wait for them to screw up first.

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RE: Is CM being invaded? - 6/18/2012 7:37:20 PM   
Delilya


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ORIGINAL: Karmastic
lol! good to know, cus i was gonna ask you to cam because you're 2000 miles away from me


I'd be more than happy to for you. As long as you fig yourself. I'm giving that way.


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RE: Is CM being invaded? - 6/18/2012 7:47:44 PM   
Karmastic


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ORIGINAL: Delilya


quote:

ORIGINAL: Karmastic
lol! good to know, cus i was gonna ask you to cam because you're 2000 miles away from me


I'd be more than happy to for you. As long as you fig yourself. I'm giving that way.


oh my, i had to look that up. i've never heard it called that :)

well, that goes well with many holes.

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RE: Is CM being invaded? - 6/18/2012 8:01:00 PM   
CyrusKell


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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl
Oh, yeah! The third thread today about fakes. Yippee!
Probably, but unlike at least one I'm not screeching "FAKES! FAKES EVERYWHERE!", it just seems odd that there's a massive influx of new users that filled out their profiles when the "standard" has been no pic and little to no info
If they're genuine, great. If not, meh
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ORIGINAL: kalikshama
quote:

the way their bios are written and the lack of any BDSM interests listed makes me wonder if these new users are actual people or just bots/trollers fishing to trick people into signing up elsewhere

When you email them do you get a link for another site?
I haven't bothered mostly because it seems fishy

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RE: Is CM being invaded? - 6/18/2012 10:14:26 PM   
littlewonder


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Status: offline 		ssoooo.....if you can't be bothered, what's the problem?

Just go to the next profile.


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