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Need admin help - 6/10/2012 3:59:07 PM

efafaef

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The spam filter script has disabled me from messaging anyone for over 24 hours!

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RE: Need admin help - 6/10/2012 4:01:58 PM

Fornica

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You should prolly not message anyone for 24 hours then.

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RE: Need admin help - 6/10/2012 4:02:04 PM

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LOL... Think you will live through it? What's a day?

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RE: Need admin help - 6/10/2012 4:03:55 PM

mummyman321

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My god man. Your profile is walking TOS violation. I am suprised the MODS didn't delete your profile. You really need to remove all the names of people you have listed in your profile. Go read the rules and obey the TOS

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RE: Need admin help - 6/10/2012 4:04:59 PM

Fornica

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omg.
I hadn't even clicked! That's gorgeous.

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RE: Need admin help - 6/10/2012 4:07:22 PM

Karmastic

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oH mY fuCkng gaWd!

are u fer real? hil fucking arious!

erm, welcome to CM!

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RE: Need admin help - 6/10/2012 4:07:26 PM

lizi

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That's what happens when you send out too many messages or people report your messages as spam. You'll have to wait it out.

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RE: Need admin help - 6/10/2012 4:10:48 PM

LafayetteLady

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So let's see if I have this straight.....

You sent out massive amounts of emails to women, likely a cut and paste job saying the same thing.

By doing so, you triggered the spam filter.

Now you are complaining basically because you can't do it again?

Good luck with that.

PS This is definately NOT a "General BDSM" topic. So along with blacklisting people on your profile (against TOS), triggering the spam filter (because you violated the TOS), you also are confused as to where your question belongs (probably because you didn't read the TOS).

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RE: Need admin help - 6/10/2012 4:21:55 PM

MissKittyDeVine

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Um, dude ... you know that people can read the first part of cmails without opening them, right? By hovering the mouse over the message? Did it ever occur to you the people you name in your profile may have done just that and seen something in there that put them off opening the message? That you shouldn´t name and shame just because someone didn´t answer your message and doing so just makes you look like a whiny douche? And you are aware that nobody OWES you an answer just because you choose to mail them? And was cut & paste involved?*

*MKDV has now exceeded her quota of rhetorical questions for the day.

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RE: Need admin help - 6/10/2012 4:24:53 PM

agentx21

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. . This made my day!!

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RE: Need admin help - 6/10/2012 4:28:41 PM

JstAnotherSub

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Maybe they reported you as spam because it looks like ya got a lil cum or something there by ya mouth...on the right side.

Most men who do not wipe their mouth before taking a pic are fakes.

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RE: Need admin help - 6/10/2012 5:04:45 PM

SassySarijane

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Wow! Did you read the TOS when you joined? What about the rules and guidelines here before you posted? Your profile violates the TOS. Naming names/blacklisting is not cool here or allowed. Just because you send someone a message does not obligate them to read it or to reply to it at all. Also, if you triggered the spam filter because you sent too many messages out in too short a time, learn from it, quit whining and wait it out and don't do the same thing again that triggered it.

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RE: Need admin help - 6/10/2012 5:15:45 PM

kalikshama

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quote:

My god man. Your profile is walking TOS violation. I am suprised the MODS didn't delete your profile. You really need to remove all the names of people you have listed in your profile. Go read the rules and obey the TOS

INAPPROPRIATE CONTENT IS REMOVED BY OUR AUTOMATED SYSTEM
AFTER A PREDETERMINED NUMBER OF USERS HAVE REPORTED IT

REPORTS ARE NOT MANUALLY REVIEWED

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RE: Need admin help - 6/10/2012 5:17:43 PM

BurntKitty

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If you are a member of the Jacksonville Kinksters on "f" life; do not contact me. If I contact you please reveal such so I know not to speak to you.

So I guess we shouldn't direct him to his local scene, munches, events, either. He seems to have alienated them as well.

Welcome to CM, Opie. Btw, it's not to late:

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RE: Need admin help - 6/10/2012 5:19:37 PM

kalikshama

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The spam filter script has disabled me from messaging anyone for over 24 hours!

Now you know to send better written messages. I personally love the spam filter - thanks collarme!

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RE: Need admin help - 6/10/2012 5:22:54 PM

DarkSteven

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Fella, the last sentence of your profile says that you're at war with the whole Fetlife group local to you. Now you're triggering spam filters here (in other words, your messages have been repeatedly flagged as being unwanted and inappropriate), and your profile is reportable, as mummyman says. You don't play well with others.

Go learn the rules of etiquette and learn to play nice with others first. Then use that insight to assist in chasing women. Right now, your profile is horrible and any woman with half a brain would run away screaming. Namecalling, anger, and blaming others for your own issues.

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RE: Need admin help - 6/10/2012 6:31:15 PM

angelikaJ

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Dear Grumpy Dom,

No one needs to open a cmail to read the beginning of it, all anyone has to do is hover their mouse on it and the opening bit becomes visible.
So, if mail is being deleted unread then chances are the person you sent it to has perused the content and decided the rest of it is just not something they want to spend time on.

Most women here get a lot of cmails every day especially if they are new: getting 5 pages or more (there are 20 per page, so we are talking email volume that can be in the hundreds) is very common.

We all have the ability to set our filters to divert mail straight to bulk based on criteria we set.

Your profile has a lot of negativity which you feel is no doubt justified. However, in general women respond to people who have positive stuff in their profiles; we tend to prefer people who aren't walking bubbles of alienation and negativity and aren't advertising themselves as not having a life, with no motivation to better themselves or the world around them.

You say you have no life: go find a volunteer opportunity.
There are always dogs in animal shelters that need attention, there are homeless folks in Florida just as elsewhere.
You need something to do?
Then go be useful somewhere.

And when you are new, here is a hint: no one likes it when someone pees in the pool. No running or shoving either.
In other words: read the damn rules, and if you don't agree with them then don't click "agree".

No one gives anyone points for spontaneous rudeness.

(And women not answering your emails is not rude; no answer is an answer.)

edit: typo

< Message edited by angelikaJ -- 6/10/2012 6:32:39 PM >

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RE: Need admin help - 6/10/2012 6:50:18 PM

LadyPact

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Look at it like this, dude. At least they all they did was report you for spam instead of using the email opportunity to tell you what they really thought of you. We're not allowed to do that on the forums. If we do, we got gold mail.

Ticked off the whole munch group in your area, huh? Yeah. There's something that is going to reassure people.

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RE: Need admin help - 6/10/2012 7:03:59 PM

littlewonder

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Dude, everyone on this site is from that group in Jacksonville.
We just like to fool people into believing we're from elsewhere.

Whadya think? Should keep him at bay for a little while.

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RE: Need admin help - 6/10/2012 8:17:30 PM

NiceButMeanGirl

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ORIGINAL: JstAnotherSub

Maybe they reported you as spam because it looks like ya got a lil cum or something there by ya mouth...on the right side.

Priceless!!!!

As for the efafaef dude, he can rest assured that I've already reported his profile for blacklisting other users by name on it. I'm just helpful that way.