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The people that look at me... - 5/24/2012 9:27:20 AM   
Soyokaze


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Status: offline 		So my profile is lesbian trans submissive (used to have bi, but I switched to cut down on spam), and yet the vast majority of people that look at my profile are either straight male doms or subs... they do realize I have a penis right? Mind you I don't actually care : p I'm just sick and took off work and bored so I'm noticing more T.T

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RE: The people that look at me... - 5/24/2012 9:33:01 AM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		You do realize that most people don't connect the words "lesbian" and "penis" together within the same human, right?

ETA - Wrong edit.  See later post.


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RE: The people that look at me... - 5/24/2012 9:34:50 AM   
Soyokaze


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Status: offline 		Yea, but trans should give it away : p I put lesbian because for trans straight is kind of complicated (whether you're talking straight from your sex or gender point of view).

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RE: The people that look at me... - 5/24/2012 9:37:16 AM   
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Status: offline 		Actually if you list yourself as a lesbian trans, I would assume you were post op and didn't have a penis.

However, the guys are just looking at your pictures because you're pretty, they aren't reading the details.

It's like going out to dinner. I always read the dessert menu but I never eat dessert. It's for fantasy.

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RE: The people that look at me... - 5/24/2012 9:40:06 AM   
Soyokaze


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quote:

ORIGINAL: DesFIP

Actually if you list yourself as a lesbian trans, I would assume you were post op and didn't have a penis.

However, the guys are just looking at your pictures because you're pretty, they aren't reading the details.

It's like going out to dinner. I always read the dessert menu but I never eat dessert. It's for fantasy.


If I was post op, I would probably just list myself as female to be honest, but I see your point. So true about the dessert : (

Edit: Should probably mention I mostly posted this out of whimsicality and boredom rather than annoyance; anyone is free to look at me : p

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RE: The people that look at me... - 5/24/2012 9:43:53 AM   
ashjor911


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Status: offline 		1- some like to perv pics.
2-some like the main profile pic which is attract the eye of a male kinkster.. dont ya think?
3-some dont care if you have a penis..
4- some dont care if you are a lesbian..
5-some dont care what are you looking for..

just because (some) dont want to have sex with you.. its just a fantacy..

PS 1: I have a huge collection of "shemale on girl/s or the other way around" + if you dont wanna people to look at your profile.. why did you creat one the first place?

PS2: I did view your profile.. just to make you mad... & perv the pics.. NICE BOOTS..

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RE: The people that look at me... - 5/24/2012 9:46:32 AM   
MissImmortalPain


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Status: offline 		Trans can mean a lot of different things to a lot of different people. And though I understand from what you have said on the forums before that you have a penis I wouldn't have known it from just viewing your profile. As for using the word lesbian...you know a lot of straight male subs use that word to mean they are into giving oral more than doing anything else.

Or....

Maybe they are just looking at your pictures. You really are beautiful you know.



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RE: The people that look at me... - 5/24/2012 9:46:59 AM   
LadyPact


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Soyokaze

Yea, but trans should give it away : p I put lesbian because for trans straight is kind of complicated (whether you're talking straight from your sex or gender point of view).

Let's get a little more realistic here.  They don't even see the word "trans" until they actually look at the profile.  How else are people going to know if they don't look?

I was actually talking to MP about the Who's Viewing thing just yesterday.  Heck, I'd never even look at it if the dang red highlight didn't show up.  I only really notice if it's somebody from the forums.  The rest, I just consider drive by's.


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RE: The people that look at me... - 5/24/2012 9:49:50 AM   
Soyokaze


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quote:

ORIGINAL: ashjor911

1- some like to perv pics.
2-some like the main profile pic which is attract the eye of a male kinkster.. dont ya think?
3-some dont care if you have a penis..
4- some dont care if you are a lesbian..
5-some dont care what are you looking for..

just because (some) dont want to have sex with you.. its just a fantacy..

PS 1: I have a huge collection of "shemale on girl/s or the other way around" + if you dont wanna people to look at your profile.. why did you creat one the first place?

PS2: I did view your profile.. just to make you mad... & perv the pics.. NICE BOOTS..


I just found it amusing that I'd be viewed by a majority of straight males when I wouldn't think I'd generally show through their search filters. As I've said above, I don't mind.

Thanks ^.^ They hurt my feet though : ( I got the wrong size and they're cheaply made; Thinking of getting a better quality pair.

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RE: The people that look at me... - 5/24/2012 9:53:08 AM   
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Status: offline 		I've never equated "trans" with "has penis".

Alot of guys on the other side think girls are just kidding when they put "lesbian", so they don't filter it. That's my theory anyway.

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RE: The people that look at me... - 5/24/2012 9:54:19 AM   
Soyokaze


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

quote:

ORIGINAL: Soyokaze

Yea, but trans should give it away : p I put lesbian because for trans straight is kind of complicated (whether you're talking straight from your sex or gender point of view).

Let's get a little more realistic here.  They don't even see the word "trans" until they actually look at the profile.  How else are people going to know if they don't look?

I was actually talking to MP about the Who's Viewing thing just yesterday.  Heck, I'd never even look at it if the dang red highlight didn't show up.  I only really notice if it's somebody from the forums.  The rest, I just consider drive by's.



It shows up in the preview before you look at the full profile, and in the mouse over information in various parts. I probably shouldn't have brought this up : ( not as whimsical as I wanted it to be.


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RE: The people that look at me... - 5/24/2012 10:01:15 AM   
LadyPact


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Soyokaze
It shows up in the preview before you look at the full profile, and in the mouse over information in various parts. I probably shouldn't have brought this up : ( not as whimsical as I wanted it to be.


You don't really think most people put that much effort into perving pics, do you?


ETA - Btw, three people have perved Me since the creation of this thread.  I have no clue how people keep up with that stuff.


< Message edited by LadyPact -- 5/24/2012 10:05:42 AM >

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RE: The people that look at me... - 5/24/2012 10:04:11 AM   
ashjor911


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quote:

ORIGINAL: CalifChick
Alot of guys on the other side think girls are just kidding when they put "lesbian", so they don't filter it. That's my theory anyway.

Cali


first : maybe i am just speaking for my self, but i do like to watch a lesbian porn.. & i really think that every guy fantasy is a 3some with 2 lesbian girls.. even if that fantasy have nothing to do with the "penis thing".

second : if anybody see the other side of CM a lot.. you would see that 90% of hot girls.. are Lesbians..or at least they put it to make the guys leave her alone.. but it would actually make a "Backlash" & make them all over her profile..
Eg: its easier to say (Owned) or (Not Looking) & i wont even continue reading the profile..

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RE: The people that look at me... - 5/24/2012 10:12:47 AM   
Soyokaze


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

You don't really think most people put that much effort into perving pics, do you?



Yea, I guess not. When I'm perving pics, I usually just hit view all pics so I don't show up as viewed.

As far as people saying trans = not having a penis... (Assuming MtF) It's somewhat difficult to find a post op that openly calls themselves trans over just female unless they have a good reason. While there are some, most don't go through all of that and settle for trans.

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RE: The people that look at me... - 5/24/2012 11:27:25 AM   
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Status: offline 		I just viewed your profile because I'm suggestible like that.

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RE: The people that look at me... - 5/24/2012 2:49:39 PM   
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quote:

Alot of guys on the other side think girls are just kidding when they put "lesbian"


Or that they just haven't met the right guy yet.

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RE: The people that look at me... - 5/24/2012 2:50:56 PM   
kalikshama


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RE: The people that look at me... - 5/24/2012 5:16:53 PM   
Soyokaze


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MissImmortalPain

Maybe they are just looking at your pictures. You really are beautiful you know.




I didn't even notice that at first; selective ignorance. Thanks ^.^ It's easy to look good in pictures with makeup and a wig and the camera not getting too many details.

Edit: I should probably add, if I ever thought someone was confused about what I had down there in a situation where it'd matter I'd tell them outright. I don't have much interest in using it anyway : p

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RE: The people that look at me... - 5/24/2012 11:39:49 PM   
LadyConstanze


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Status: offline 		OK, I'll have a look now, will that make you feel better?

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RE: The people that look at me... - 5/25/2012 11:51:46 AM   
TNDommeK


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Status: offline 		Yea I had to look too, and MIP is right, you are gorgeous!! I can't really see your avi that well because My eye sight is horrid, but looking at your profile..wow. But I agree with LP as well, I never notice unless it's one of ya'll. Or if the same guy has viewed Me a million times, then I usually will write him ( you know, the whole "I'm scared to write a Domme" thing?)

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