Describe what it means to be who You are in Bdsm

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knees2you -> Describe what it means to be who You are in Bdsm (6/6/2006 12:24:00 PM)
What does it mean to be Who You are in the Bdsm world? To me it was finding the Real me! Knowing that I had a purpose. quote: "Thanks to Adam I am in Charge, and She is Submissive." Always, Ant[;)]

Tikkiee -> RE: Describe what it means to be who You are in Bdsm (6/6/2006 12:32:48 PM)
/shrug I am a masochist. All that means is that I like pain [:)]

tade -> RE: Describe what it means to be who You are in Bdsm (6/6/2006 12:38:56 PM)
I am a sadist... like to dish out the pain.. LOL I am a Top, nothing else.. We have a slave and have had several subs, but I HATE the term Master. Mistress on the other hand I don't mind for her. Find I control things not because I like to or feel the need to, I do it simply because I do. But that sadistic side comes out in almost everything I touch. Dominant or not I will ALWAYS find a way to get a little salt in the wound, even if I have to do it to myself.

CollaredProperty -> RE: Describe what it means to be who You are in Bdsm (6/6/2006 12:46:43 PM)
I am only interested in 24/7 M/s Relationships I am a BDSM Alpha Slave I am a Huge Pain Slut I am a Edge Scene Junkie, Especially "Flying Flesh Hook" Play I am a "Sammy" Smart Ass Massochist I am NOT a Easy Lay, It is NOT about sex, It is about TPE I am always a LADY so please gentlemen treat Me that way. slave susan

darkinshadows -> RE: Describe what it means to be who You are in Bdsm (6/6/2006 12:47:59 PM)
Makes no difference. I am me in BDSM. I am me out of it. Peace and Love

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Describe what it means to be who You are in Bdsm (6/6/2006 12:51:06 PM)
To me it means knowing and being all of myself. This is true of being a wannabe intellectual, a lover, a polyamorist, a bisexual, a family lover...all those things.

MistressSassy66 -> RE: Describe what it means to be who You are in Bdsm (6/6/2006 1:01:57 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: knees2you What does it mean to be Who You are in the Bdsm world? To me it was finding the Real me! Knowing that I had a purpose. quote: "Thanks to Adam I am in Charge, and She is Submissive." Always, Ant[;)] What does it mean....Wow thats a broad question for Me. I find Myself feeling like it means many things...often depending on who I am with at the moment.That can also sometimes cross over into the Vanilla life also. With slave bishop its very different than with any of the male submissives.Because W/we are also a committed couple I treat her different. There is of course the difference between the males that see Me as a Pro,and the one that is My pet. The number One thing...is finding the role I was meant to be in. Like knees2you said...A purpose in Life.

Lashra -> RE: Describe what it means to be who You are in Bdsm (6/6/2006 1:04:13 PM)
I am a sadist, a Dominant female, bisexual, a nympho, a lover, a care giver, a intellectual, a smart ass, a comedienne, babygirl (on a rare occasion), but most of all a soulmate to my sub and I happen to carry a whip. [:)] ~Lashra

tade -> RE: Describe what it means to be who You are in Bdsm (6/6/2006 1:11:16 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CollaredProperty I am a Huge Pain Slut I am a Edge Scene Junkie, Especially "Flying Flesh Hook" Play I love you and those like you ... You make the world a better place to be...

champagnewishes -> RE: Describe what it means to be who You are in Bdsm (6/6/2006 1:19:47 PM)
I'm not sure i understand the question...blonde moment... I have always been me no matter where i was. Discovering the BDSM world allowed me further insight and the opportunity to expand and develop things i already knew about myself.

BrattyBottomRN -> RE: Describe what it means to be who You are in Bdsm (6/6/2006 1:35:46 PM)
Great question. It means letting myself go, really letting myself slip into that wonderful other world that I crave so badly. It means giving myself to One wholly, and feeling the complete satisfaction of pleasing Him. For me most importantly my role in BDSM fulfills a part of my vanilla life that cannot be satisfied otherwise. I'm also a pain slut. And a headspace slut. And a total attention whore. :)

juliaoceania -> RE: Describe what it means to be who You are in Bdsm (6/6/2006 1:40:18 PM)
fast reply BDSM is the way I interact with my lover submissive is how I interact with him and who I have always been

TheShadows -> RE: Describe what it means to be who You are in Bdsm (6/6/2006 1:45:43 PM)
To be me (vanilla, lifestyle related, or otherwise) is to: learn, teach, feel, see, hear, smell, taste, talk, laugh, go, and DO. Mostly GO and DO, the rest follows naturally. TheShadows

cuddleheart50 -> RE: Describe what it means to be who You are in Bdsm (6/6/2006 1:46:11 PM)
It mean I am home! [:D]

cuddleheart50 -> RE: Describe what it means to be who You are in Bdsm (6/6/2006 1:47:15 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: cuddleheart50 It means I am home! [:D]

hizgeorgiapeach -> RE: Describe what it means to be who You are in Bdsm (6/6/2006 1:47:41 PM)
I'm no different dealing with other people in BDSM than I am when I'm dealing with "nillas" - I am simply myself, all the time, with all the human foibles and frailties - as well as those rare moments of true brilliance - that all of us are capable of. Why should I NEED to act any differently? This isn't ALL of my life - it's simply one small portion of my overall personality. People can love me or hate me, enjoy what I do or detest it - none of that is going to change who I am, what I like, or whether I shake life for all it's worth and then lick up the crumbs that fall while I'm shaking it. Pain junkie, sometimes submissive, sometimes dominant, sometimes a bit of both at the same time - masochist with more than a touch of the sadistic beastie in me as well - but those are only small portions of the whole, and will never come close to ultimately defining who I am.

Padriag -> RE: Describe what it means to be who You are in Bdsm (6/6/2006 2:24:29 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: darkinshadows Makes no difference. I am me in BDSM. I am me out of it. Yup... pretty much my feeling on the subject. BDSM is simply part of who I am.

iliv2servher -> RE: Describe what it means to be who You are in Bdsm (6/6/2006 2:42:02 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: knees2you What does it mean to be Who You are in the Bdsm world? To me it was finding the Real me! Knowing that I had a purpose. I view my chosen role as just one facet of my personality. It doesn't define who I am, but it does allow me to live in an alternate universe with very few boundaries. I consider the dom space or sub space to be an altered state of consciousness and very much akin to meditation. It allows me the freedom to live in that space without having to ask how or why, and for what purpose does it serve.

CollaredProperty -> RE: Describe what it means to be who You are in Bdsm (6/6/2006 2:44:06 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: tade quote: ORIGINAL: CollaredProperty I am a Huge Pain Slut I am a Edge Scene Junkie, Especially "Flying Flesh Hook" Play I love you and those like you ... You make the world a better place to be... tade, why thank you. i am just being honest i am all of those things and so much more! sincerely slave susan

jezabelKH -> RE: Describe what it means to be who You are in Bdsm (6/6/2006 4:05:06 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: knees2you What does it mean to be Who You are in the Bdsm world? To me it was finding the Real me! Knowing that I had a purpose. quote: "Thanks to Adam I am in Charge, and She is Submissive." Always, Ant[;)] i am what ever Master want, when ever Master wants it i am His property i am His slave i am His servant i am His slut i am His hole in the mattress without a name (favorite) i am His cook i am His personal groomer i am His.................................and His alone jezabel{KH} just simply a slave Property Of Master Ken

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