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LadyHibiscus -> Cutting and stomach eroticism (5/22/2012 6:51:31 PM)
I put this here instead of health & safety because I want to ttalk about the mental stuff not the danger. I have a new playmate who for want of. A better term is a stomach fetishist. All about the abdominal tortures. He was a cutter from puberty (he is 34 now) and this whole thing is a big part of his sexuality. I am not a cutter, and none of the sutters I've met eroticize it to this level. Can anyone share some experience or insight into this? Let me say that he is way past the cutting range and into serious geek-act piercing. Thanks for any help. I'd like to help him redirect this energy into something a little more mainstream and less potentially deadly.

LadyPact -> RE: Cutting and stomach eroticism (5/22/2012 7:50:13 PM)
I'm not really sure what you are asking, Hib. Is it that you are not interested in cutting him or is it because of where he wants to be cut? Could you work with needles or medical staples?

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Cutting and stomach eroticism (5/22/2012 8:03:14 PM)
It's not what to do, I assure you :) not by a long shot! [:D] I want to know if anyone else eroticizes their cutting, or is it what I'm used to, a tool for releasing stress/depression. He wants to be able redirect his very extreme urges (which I am not going into here) into something else. What else? I don't know. More tradtional s/m? Not sure. Which is why I'm hoping to hear from someone else who's a cutter.

littlewonder -> RE: Cutting and stomach eroticism (5/22/2012 8:14:05 PM)
When Master does cuttings on me it's for erotic purposes. We both get off from it. It doesn't do anything for my depression or stress though.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Cutting and stomach eroticism (5/22/2012 9:28:06 PM)
I guess I wasnt clear. I am talking about self harm cutting, not what we do for entertainment.

LPslittleclip -> RE: Cutting and stomach eroticism (5/22/2012 11:02:02 PM)
i enjoy my Mistress cutting me very much. i think one thing that could help is a electro cautery pen. it is batery operated and it gently burns the skin at the surface and would give the feeling of deeper cutting and would be temporrary. another would be to use a tens unit and a small surface area implement to give the feeling of cutting with out actual cutting the skin. a good item to start with would be a pie server (metal) and play with that on the flat it is very mild on edge it is very intense feeling like cutting. of course both need to have reasearch done on them before trying them out. any questions just ask i am more than happy to help.

littlewonder -> RE: Cutting and stomach eroticism (5/23/2012 6:05:14 AM)
Ok, self harm...can't help ya. Never did it for self harm. I would suggest he seek therapy.

SylvereApLeanan -> RE: Cutting and stomach eroticism (5/23/2012 7:34:32 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus I want to know if anyone else eroticizes their cutting, or is it what I'm used to, a tool for releasing stress/depression. He wants to be able redirect his very extreme urges (which I am not going into here) into something else. What else? I don't know. More tradtional s/m? Not sure. Which is why I'm hoping to hear from someone else who's a cutter. My best friend's girlfriend/domme is a hardcore maso who used to cut herself because she wanted/needed the endorphin rush. Once she discovered S&M, she stopped cutting herself and let other people do knife, blood, fire, and needle play on her instead. It's become a routine part of their sex life. If she doesn't get her maso on, she gets cranky.

Kana -> RE: Cutting and stomach eroticism (5/23/2012 7:37:57 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SylvereApLeanan quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus I want to know if anyone else eroticizes their cutting, or is it what I'm used to, a tool for releasing stress/depression. He wants to be able redirect his very extreme urges (which I am not going into here) into something else. What else? I don't know. More tradtional s/m? Not sure. Which is why I'm hoping to hear from someone else who's a cutter. My best friend's girlfriend/domme is a hardcore maso who used to cut herself because she wanted/needed the endorphin rush. Once she discovered S&M, she stopped cutting herself and let other people do knife, blood, fire, and needle play on her instead. It's become a routine part of their sex life. If she doesn't get her maso on, she gets cranky. Seconded. I know a chick whose story is the same-if she goes too long without being brutalized, she'll relapse into cutting.

LadyConstanze -> RE: Cutting and stomach eroticism (5/23/2012 12:59:14 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus I guess I wasnt clear. I am talking about self harm cutting, not what we do for entertainment. Uhm, worked in that field, my experience is only with teenagers and people in their early 20's, most of the info is on an old HD back home, but shoot me a PM, I (unfortunately) know quite a bit about this field, with a lot of people who practise SH they tend to eroticize it or turn it into something romantic, there is a good chance that you might be able to help him turn it into something else but it's not a one fits all because SH is not really the problem (though even deadly) the real problem is the underlying issue.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Cutting and stomach eroticism (5/23/2012 1:11:03 PM)
It's very interesting, really, and for serious I want to help him redirect, he's wound up in the hospital twice.

LadyConstanze -> RE: Cutting and stomach eroticism (5/23/2012 1:34:35 PM)
Sent you a PM

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