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RE: commen manners - 5/6/2012 3:51:53 PM   
Karmastic


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ORIGINAL: DesFIP
Your wife's been contacting them, telling them you're cheating, and asking them to disappear. Which they do because they don't want to be named in a divorce suit.


LOL! i bust out laughing every time i read this.

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ORIGINAL: JanahX
It has everything to do with you putting your expectations on people/strangers that use a public free site.


^ this

and...#5 below - could be that you're plan B, or plan C. Maybe they started corresponding with someone who's a better match for them, and they want to focus on the other person that seems more interesting. Just consider yourself lucky that they didn't waste more of your (or their) time if they already knew you weren't a good match. And don't see any of it as a waste, see it as a learning experience and just life.

or a variant of #3 - there were no signs, but they just changed their mind, or something you said made them realize you're not for them.

I know it's kinda irritating, but also kinda pointless to top post about it here. I won't comment on you or your profile, which I think is wrong, unless you ask.


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ORIGINAL: myotherself
On several occasions I've failed to reply to a message from someone.

Why?

Because:

1. There was nothing to reply to - the conversation was already limping painfully to an undignified death.
2. The sender had said something so dumb or crass that any reply would have exceeded my snark quota for the year.
3. The sender had ignored subtle and not-so-subtle signs that I didn't want to continue to chat with them.
4. Something had come up in r/l that was a lot more urgent, and I simply forgot to respond.
5. Any one of a thousand other reasons.

Experience has shown me that sending a polite but firm message that I don't want to continue a conversation usually results in either a rabid attack on my looks/personality/parentage, or seriously embarrassing and pathetic whining. Rarely does it end well.





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RE: common manners - 5/6/2012 4:21:09 PM   
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RE: common manners - 5/6/2012 5:06:02 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Kaliko

I don't have anything to add. I just needed to change the subject line because if I see "commen" one more time on my "Posts since last visit" page I'm going jab a fork in my eye.

LOL
Ouch?

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RE: common manners - 5/6/2012 5:17:04 PM   
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ORIGINAL: IrishMist


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ORIGINAL: Kaliko

I don't have anything to add. I just needed to change the subject line because if I see "commen" one more time on my "Posts since last visit" page I'm going jab a fork in my eye.

LOL
Ouch?



LOL - fuck!

I blame the fork.

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RE: common manners - 5/6/2012 5:34:50 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Kaliko

I don't have anything to add. I just needed to change the subject line because if I see "commen" one more time on my "Posts since last visit" page I'm going to jab a fork in my eye.


Oh thank you. That was bugging me big time (commen). In fact when I saw "common manners" scroll by, it caught my eye because it had been corrected, lol!

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RE: common manners - 5/6/2012 5:57:11 PM   
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RE: common manners - 5/6/2012 6:04:12 PM   
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RE: common manners - 5/6/2012 6:23:55 PM   
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Please remove all utensils from your immediate reach when reading the title of this thread.
http://www.collarchat.com/m_4108417/mpage_1/tm.htm

Holy fuck....that hurts

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RE: common manners - 5/6/2012 10:35:16 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Kaliko
I just needed to change the subject line


So you changed the word to become "common." The noun for someone who commons is a commoner. Just saying.

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RE: common manners - 5/6/2012 10:43:46 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Kaliko

I don't have anything to add. I just needed to change the subject line because if I see "commen" one more time on my "Posts since last visit" page I'm going to jab a fork in my eye.


*hands Kaliko a fork*

*gets camera ready*


Hey, I'm bored! So sue me

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RE: common manners - 5/6/2012 11:22:55 PM   
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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven


quote:

ORIGINAL: Kaliko
I just needed to change the subject line


So you changed the word to become "common." The noun for someone who commons is a commoner. Just saying.


But even commoners can spell common right :)

Klick, I'm a sadist

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RE: commen manners - 5/7/2012 5:02:08 AM   
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ORIGINAL: JanahX
Its pretty funny that you are such a control freak that you actually feel that you need to post something like this to take control of other peoples actions so they dont frustrate you.

I think the technical term for somebody who does that is a "dominant".

(Or possibly just Wealliam or Twudy...)

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RE: commen manners - 5/7/2012 5:35:57 AM   
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Status: offline 		If he can't spell "common", I'm unsure how intelligent his messages to submissives are.

No reply = not interested.

Suck it up, princess.

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What the heck is "common" manners - 5/7/2012 9:12:06 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Nighthawk56

let me put it out there to all you subs .i understand that a lot of you get tons off messages and cant always reply but when you do and then start a coversation at least have the manners to end it with a message not just simply no return post its very frustrating to not know the reason why one stops messaging



I am so sorry that I forgot to stop my deadly dull life so I could send you a note. Please forgive me. I am not worthy.

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RE: What the heck is "common" manners - 5/7/2012 9:15:52 AM   
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Status: offline 		I can respond to whoever I want to, if I don't reply I'm not fucking interested. 9 times out of 10, your message reads the same as some other guy.

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RE: What the heck is "common" manners - 5/7/2012 9:45:33 AM   
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Status: offline 		Sorry but this thread has me laughing for the simple fact even if you can't spell you know full well common has nothing to do with men *coughs* Maybe if you tried to correct your spelling people might respond more!? Just a thought

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RE: What the heck is "common" manners - 5/7/2012 10:26:47 AM   
MasterPandy


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Status: offline 		Just to add my two cents/pence, I have to agree with most of the opinion expressed above. If someone doesn't reply, 99 times out of 100 there is a good reason for it.

If it's your first message to them, chances are it is because they're not interested - move on. It's possible that they may be interested but have so many emails come in they can't possibly reply, even quickly, to them.

If you have conversed already with them, then they suddenly stop, most likely is that they are bored/offended by what you wrote or perhaps again they are swamped with so many emails that yours got lost in the mix.

More often than not, it is not bad manners that prevents a reply just simple facts of life. Yes it may be frustrating when you think you have found someone you really want to talk to, but it's no use crying over spilled milk.

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RE: common manners - 5/7/2012 1:09:58 PM   
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Why do guys chat with me for a couple days then just disappear without a word? When you contact me again weeks or months later and I tell you I've moved on, why do you get angry and tell me I'm a terrible submissive


This ^










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RE: commen manners - 5/7/2012 2:29:16 PM   
Karmastic


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ORIGINAL: Moonhead


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ORIGINAL: JanahX
Its pretty funny that you are such a control freak that you actually feel that you need to post something like this to take control of other peoples actions so they dont frustrate you.

I think the technical term for somebody who does that is a "dominant".

(Or possibly just Wealliam or Twudy...)

lmfao

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RE: commen manners - 5/8/2012 4:50:00 AM   
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Status: offline 		After writing on my profile in big, red letters - at the very top - no men, Mistresses only, i am still being contacted by men. i even had one try to convince me he had read my profile and would be a wonderful Dom for me. If he'd read it of course, he would have seen not only the 'no men' but the bit where i say i am already owned by a Master and now seeking a Mistress with permission.

Oh, and the guy who said i would be fine once i was owned..... why do i not reply? Because the idiots don't deserve it.

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