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luxInferior -> RE: Ideas for Fin Sub tribute (5/5/2012 12:27:03 PM)
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ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze
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ORIGINAL: luxInferior
For the record, I have no problem with financial domination, it's quite hot to be honest.
It's just when you think you're chatting to someone interested in dominating you in other ways, and then they hit you with the tribute thing. Dishonest.
No offence but you do know how a lot of women will read that?
"I think financial domination is hot, I don't mind spending money on that, but when I talk to a woman about what gets me off and expect her to spend time on turning me on and being my fetish deliver system, I get really pissed off if she wants something out of it..."
Seriously, there is a difference between a relationship and random dude wanting to talk about domination, I considered a few times using the tribute line, not because I want money, but it's the best way to get rid of people who treat me like a fetish delivery system.
No offence taken, LadyConstanze. I see what you're saying.
Personally, of the few messages I've sent to local people I might want to know, the content hasn't been anything like trying to get wanking fodder. I've only really ever struck up conversations based on the recipient's interests or something in their profile that I genuinely want to find out more about. You know, like how you'd strike up conversation anywhere else. But I understand that you ladies get inundated with such requests though, I'd be frustrated by now too if I had to put up with that.
It's just when you get messages that feign an interest in getting to know you for what ever reason, then after you've wasted a bit of time structuring a thoughtful reply you realise from their next message that they're just some chancer trying to find people to buy them stuff. That I find irritating and dishonest.
There's plenty of people out there looking to be financially dominated, so why aren't they just honest about what they are looking for and target their messages towards those people instead?
But also, in response to the part of your quote I highlighted in red- I'd like to think Dommes get something out of a sub without remuneration! If not, I need to ask for the bill from my current Mistress and work out some sort of payment plan... [:(]
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