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LadyPact -> RE: Do Your Fetishes Get in the Way? (4/25/2012 8:47:02 PM)
Using fast reply.... No. Any other questions?

DommesLesEnigma -> RE: Do Your Fetishes Get in the Way? (4/25/2012 8:52:59 PM)
I can tell when a man's Fetish is breast. How do you ask? I will tell you. I am a fff cup. There fetish gets in the way when they can't talk to my face. Why? Because they are talking to my chest. Now me being a lesbian and all with a broken gaydar this would be a plus with the women. But, they are able to control their fetish better than men somehow. Go figure. Oh to add...I have no problems controlling my fetish.

ResidentSadist -> RE: Do Your Fetishes Get in the Way? (4/25/2012 9:18:10 PM)
I have a big boobs, big ass, long legs, young girl type fetish. I don't end up drooling on their boots, I end up dating them . . . even when I shouldn't. It's not that dating that 18 year old stripper was wrong. But her life goals and mine weren't the same, she wasn't ready to have a family. She was too busy having fun. The summer I spent with her could have been spent on someone with the same lifestyle goals. Stopping to smell the flowers (or tap that ass), no matter how pretty they are, isn't always the best idea. So my fetish gets in the way of one of my life goals while at the same time filling another. I occasionally delay reaching my goal to stop and enjoy the ride.

RaspberryLemon -> RE: Do Your Fetishes Get in the Way? (4/25/2012 10:15:30 PM)
No, my "fetishes" (in quotes because I'm not sure they qualify for the definition) don't ever get in the way. Then again, my "fetishes" don't even apply outside of my relationship. quote: ORIGINAL: DommesLesEnigma But dude socks with sandals are a serious fashion no no. I won't say nothing though because I wear socks with mine too. Don't hate. I rock socks with sandals all the time!

fetisheden -> RE: Do Your Fetishes Get in the Way? (4/25/2012 10:18:19 PM)
my fetishes rule my entire life & make me the woman that i am

DommesLesEnigma -> RE: Do Your Fetishes Get in the Way? (4/25/2012 10:40:20 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: RaspberryLemon quote: ORIGINAL: DommesLesEnigma But dude socks with sandals are a serious fashion no no. I won't say nothing though because I wear socks with mine too. Don't hate. I rock socks with sandals all the time! I got to hate though. It is just wrong on so many levels. Please say you don't do it with shorts. ...oh no not with white socks!!

TNDommeK -> RE: Do Your Fetishes Get in the Way? (4/25/2012 11:08:53 PM)
Poise, that made Me smile. RasberryLemon, omg, stop it, just stop it. No socks with sandals.(unless you snazz it up with some funky crazy socks, but white ones, NO!) And just sayin, if I see a man wearing crocks, I slapping you in the penis until your balls fall back out of your vagina,lol. You have been warned.

SoulAlloy -> RE: Do Your Fetishes Get in the Way? (4/25/2012 11:46:00 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: TNDommeK And just sayin, if I see a man wearing crocks, I slapping you in the penis until your balls fall back out of your vagina,lol. You have been warned. I get the feeling you'll suddenly see a lot more in your neghbourhood [8D]

SoulAlloy -> RE: Do Your Fetishes Get in the Way? (4/25/2012 11:49:07 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: poise What happens when you come across someone wearing an amazing pair of boots, but clearly that's the only thing they have going for them? Would you give them more attention than normal simply because of the boots? Is that what you mean by letting your fetish get in the way? Not exactly, more a barrier to getting to know the person more before thinking (Resident Sadist put it quite well with regards to the stripper and life goals)

Karmastic -> RE: Do Your Fetishes Get in the Way? (4/25/2012 11:59:54 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: TNDommeK Poise, that made Me smile. RasberryLemon, omg, stop it, just stop it. No socks with sandals.(unless you snazz it up with some funky crazy socks, but white ones, NO!) And just sayin, if I see a man wearing crocks, I slapping you in the penis until your balls fall back out of your vagina,lol. You have been warned. that's the name, CROCKS! but they're so freaking easy, who cares that they're ghey. i'm secure in my manhood. hides my penis from you

RaspberryLemon -> RE: Do Your Fetishes Get in the Way? (4/26/2012 4:41:56 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DommesLesEnigma I got to hate though. It is just wrong on so many levels. Please say you don't do it with shorts. ...oh no not with white socks!! Shorts, yes. Hahaha. White socks...I don't think I own any, but I'd do it if I did! I mostly own stripey crazy socks because those are my Master's favorites. I also have some solid darker colored ones. quote: ORIGINAL: TNDommeK Poise, that made Me smile. RasberryLemon, omg, stop it, just stop it. No socks with sandals.(unless you snazz it up with some funky crazy socks, but white ones, NO!) And just sayin, if I see a man wearing crocks, I slapping you in the penis until your balls fall back out of your vagina,lol. You have been warned. Most of my socks are crazy! I guess haters are just gonna' hate. [:D] I gotta agree with you about the crocks though. And on a related note, a few years ago I wore crocks once for like...one afternoon. They literally tore up my feet from rubbing them raw--I still have scars. Crocks are evil!

SoulAlloy -> RE: Do Your Fetishes Get in the Way? (4/26/2012 5:33:04 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact Using fast reply.... No. Any other questions? Oh always, but I'll wait till I can articulate them better

DesFIP -> RE: Do Your Fetishes Get in the Way? (4/26/2012 6:41:59 AM)
Another one who doesn't have fetishes. It's the relationship with the right man that matters to me. But I don't think Crocs should be worn by anyone over the age of 12, personally.

LaTigresse -> RE: Do Your Fetishes Get in the Way? (4/26/2012 8:14:21 AM)
No, my fetishes do not get in my way. They are the bonus sprinkles of life, the lovely little frizzle down the spine that shoots right into the groin area, but I control how I react, if indeed I do. Not visa versa. Crocs are an instant indication that I will probably not be at all interested in the person wearing them. It's like an instant PeopleofWalmart.com moment.

Lucylastic -> RE: Do Your Fetishes Get in the Way? (4/26/2012 8:18:41 AM)
My fetishes dont get in the way nearly enough, but, I do like them having up close and personal. and this quote: And just sayin, if I see a man wearing crocks, I slapping you in the penis until your balls fall back out of your vagina,lol. You have been warned. made me snortle ....The visual was startling, thankyou TNDommeK (nother thing to try out on my favourite masochist or at least tease him with the thought:) !!!!)

DommesLesEnigma -> RE: Do Your Fetishes Get in the Way? (4/26/2012 8:43:32 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DesFIP But I don't think Crocs should be worn by anyone over the age of 12, personally. I would have agreed 6 months ago about the Crocs (didn't know that was the name for them.) and the one I've worn out was yellow too....Hell no, not me. This past year has been super crazy busy though. They were great for when I need dependable, quick, and super easy to clean. Even if they weren't easy on the eye. I will be getting a couple more pair black, brown, or tan will be nice. Men its ok to wear them. Be secure in your manhood... quote: Crocs are an instant indication that I will probably not be at all interested in the person wearing them. It's like an instant PeopleofWalmart.com moment. My moms is a "PeopleofWalmart" and she is the only person who can make me do or wear something in this world. When she gives a present I take it and use it. Back to the point. quote: No, my fetishes do not get in my way. They are the bonus sprinkles of life, the lovely little frizzle down the spine that shoots right into the groin area, but I control how I react, if indeed I do. Not visa versa. Come to think of it this is me too. Very nicely explained LaTigresse.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Do Your Fetishes Get in the Way? (4/26/2012 8:45:30 AM)
Okay. I will here state that I OWN CROCS. They are lined with fleece. When it is snowing out, that is what I wear from my car to the wherever, because I do not want to wreck my good shoes. I also have very actually stylish shoes made by crocs, that are not godawful hideous clogs. http://www.crocs.com/crocs-jabinta/12273,default,pd.html?cid=001&cgid=women-footwear-dress as an example of other stuff they make. BIRKENSTOCKS WITH SOCKS OMG DEATH.

RumpusParable -> RE: Do Your Fetishes Get in the Way? (4/26/2012 9:03:27 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SoulAlloy A random question but one that's been bobbing in my head for a while now, looking for the inspiration to phrase it right... The inspiration hasn't come but it's still bugging me When meeting people do you ever find your fetishes are just too damn distracting? Say for example boots... You aim to be dashing and debonair, but bloody hell those boots look gorgeous... I have a female friend too who has a similar problem with long hair... Less of a problem in messages on cm, though those ads are a bit distracting sometimes lol Sometimes I think life would be so much simpler without them, though not half as much fun :p So do you find yourselves inadvertently overcome by them? Do you train yourselves to ignore them or remain the stuttering wreck or appear to be a bit of a lech? Well, I have two fetishes, then just a lot of kinks. The nature of the two fetishes are such that they don't ever come up in casual conversation or meetings. Honestly, even if they did I wouldn't be distracted by them as you describe here. I tend to be quite in control of my emotions and thoughts when meeting folks.

sincelo -> RE: Do Your Fetishes Get in the Way? (4/26/2012 9:18:10 AM)
No my fetishes don't get in the way though they do limit potential partners. I see the person as a whole person not just a "fetish delivery system", as the term goes. If i like someone and they don't match what i need then they aren't a potential partner. I think that you are more talking about speaking to someone and being distracted by a single body part though and that has never been a problem with me though i am more interested in their mind.

spideycool69 -> RE: Do Your Fetishes Get in the Way? (4/26/2012 12:54:40 PM)
Yeah they do get in the way but I'm able to control it. Sometimes I would wish I never had those fetishes.

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