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DesFIP -> RE: sleeping arrangements (3/12/2012 4:21:36 PM)
That cage looks like a twin bunk bed to me. With thin mattresses that aren't comfortable enough to sleep on.

BikerDomRealTime -> RE: sleeping arrangements (3/12/2012 5:41:01 PM)
I enjoy sleeping with My girl. Either I lay up against her back and hold her or she lays up against My back and holds Me, either way it is good. How we sleep is not affected by if she is mad or I am punishing her. To deny her to sleep with Me would be punishing Me, so I don't do it.

mynxkat -> RE: sleeping arrangements (3/12/2012 6:33:44 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: PolyIrishMiss 50% of the time I sleep in Mistresses bed with her, wrapped up around her. Which is lovely in a "am I on a spaceship with a hull breach" kind of way. Yup, she snores. But that's okay since I have severe stomach and bowel problems, so I frequently gas her. I was taking a drink of coffee when I read that bit. Coffee in the sinuses hurts, dammit! But at least I didn't spray the keyboard and monitor. ETA: ResidentSadist: That pic of the 'foot of the bed' arrangement looks rather impractical. Unless the sub or the Dom is only 3 feet high, you'd wind up spending most of the night kicking each other. I've always understood the 'foot of the bed' to mean on the floor at the foot of the bed.

Muttling -> RE: sleeping arrangements (3/12/2012 6:37:49 PM)
Miss and i are with the folks who have pretty vanilla sleeping arrangements. Nothing kinky about it, but we both love our snuggle time and enjoy being able to cuddle or reach over n touch in the middle of the night. When I'm in a really submissive mood it's the same but I'm slid down a bit and snuggling up to her leg or hips. When one of us is having trouble sleeping, that person bugs out to the couch and falls asleep with the TV. This said, we are known to wake each other up around 3AM for a little adult fun on rare occasions.

JeffBC -> RE: sleeping arrangements (3/12/2012 8:15:52 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MalcolmNathaniel One other thing: if there is a cat involved, it sleeps on top of the covers. Those things have 6 ends, 5 of which are razor sharp. And if the cat is a kitten it sleeps OUTSIDE the bedroom. Man, those things have needle sharp little claws that go right through comforters and blankets like they weren't even there. They do about the same to skin.

poise -> RE: sleeping arrangements (3/12/2012 9:29:38 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: JeffBC quote: ORIGINAL: MalcolmNathaniel One other thing: if there is a cat involved, it sleeps on top of the covers. Those things have 6 ends, 5 of which are razor sharp. And if the cat is a kitten it sleeps OUTSIDE the bedroom. Man, those things have needle sharp little claws that go right through comforters and blankets like they weren't even there. They do about the same to skin. The trick is not to move. [8D]

mynxkat -> RE: sleeping arrangements (3/12/2012 9:38:31 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: poise quote: ORIGINAL: JeffBC quote: ORIGINAL: MalcolmNathaniel One other thing: if there is a cat involved, it sleeps on top of the covers. Those things have 6 ends, 5 of which are razor sharp. And if the cat is a kitten it sleeps OUTSIDE the bedroom. Man, those things have needle sharp little claws that go right through comforters and blankets like they weren't even there. They do about the same to skin. The trick is not to move. [8D] The problem with that is that the CAT moves, even if you don't. And show me the person who, being woken up from a sound sleep by sharp little claws or teeth in some tender bit doesn't at least twitch? Which leads to the nearly inevitable pounce, and more sharp bits perforating tender bits, which leads to kitty cats taking flying lessons.

Asherscorp1 -> RE: sleeping arrangements (3/12/2012 9:43:47 PM)
I sleep at the bottom of the bed curled around Master's feet. If I am sick or stressed and need to be petted Master will make exceptions and allow me to snuggle next to him.

MistrixMsE -> RE: sleeping arrangements (3/12/2012 10:37:23 PM)
quote: "Every normal man must be tempted at times to spit on his hands, hoist the black flag, and begin to slit throats." - H. L. Mencken My one is in bed wrapped around me, under me.. sometimes still in me (my favorite way to fall asleep).. dont think i could loose my addiction for his skin enough to have him sleep elsewhere when were are lucky enough to be in the same zip code at same time.

MalcolmNathaniel -> RE: sleeping arrangements (3/13/2012 12:00:34 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: poise The trick is not to move. [8D] That may be fine advice for a female submissive who is tied up so she can't move. But for a male with dangly bits curled up next to a nubile slave it is very difficult not to move. Also, when you are asleep against said nubile female certain parts of the anatomy tend to move of their own volition. Yes, I am talking about toes. They stick out and wiggle while you are asleep. Cat's favorite target too. The ladies think I make them wear heels to bed because it's some kind of fetish. No it's not! I am showing my domliness by protecting her from vicious predators! That's my story and I'm sticking to it. Disclaimer: No kittens have ever been "accidentally" launched across the room in the experimental proof of this post.

SpiritedRadiance -> RE: sleeping arrangements (3/13/2012 12:02:15 AM)
MN, My cat doesnt go after toes, she curls up beside me... she stays there... she doesnt move... and she only has back claws... your cock or toes moving around shed tilt her head and say... Stop disturbing me... then go back to sleeping

MalcolmNathaniel -> RE: sleeping arrangements (3/13/2012 12:25:51 AM)
Sure. As long as there is no hanky-panky. Then there are all sorts of targets that are just as interesting as a laser pointer. I've never hurt an animal on purpose (well except for the Demon Rooster From Hell) and that fucker deserved it. But my last girl thought it was funny when her cat latched on to my foot in the midst of.....I will not be indelicate here. Let's just say that the cat was allowed to sleep on top of the covers unless I awoke in the middle of the night feeling amorous. Then it was, "Out goes the kitty and in goes the Master."

Winterapple -> RE: sleeping arrangements (3/13/2012 1:23:50 AM)
FR Since pets are coming up. How many have pets that they shared a bed with before they met their partners and did adjustments have to be made? How did the pets take another human in the bed. I have a dog and a cat. The cat is a adapter. The dog not so much. He's a bit domly doesn't want me to be anyones bitch but his.

PolyIrishMiss -> RE: sleeping arrangements (3/13/2012 3:14:32 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mynxkat quote: ORIGINAL: PolyIrishMiss 50% of the time I sleep in Mistresses bed with her, wrapped up around her. Which is lovely in a "am I on a spaceship with a hull breach" kind of way. Yup, she snores. But that's okay since I have severe stomach and bowel problems, so I frequently gas her. I was taking a drink of coffee when I read that bit. Coffee in the sinuses hurts, dammit! But at least I didn't spray the keyboard and monitor. smiles You're welcome. :-P

LookieNoNookie -> RE: sleeping arrangements (3/13/2012 9:59:56 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ScoutsHonor I read an article on another site a while back regarding sleeping arrangements. It was written by a sub and she outlined how she and her Dom slept and how things changed if he was upset with her or she was in trouble. I’ve also seen the topic of sleeping arrangements pop up in a thread from time to time on here. I thought it would make an interesting conversation. Yeah? What arrangement do you and your partner have? Sub at the foot of the bed, separate rooms, cuddled together? What is your favorite way to sleep? Who gives a fuck? Do things change in accordance with emotions and other factors? Such as time of the month or something such as bondage. No...especially if she's quiet.

MistressDarkArt -> RE: sleeping arrangements (3/14/2012 12:59:34 AM)
The kittehs would love the boy in our bed, but he's allergic to them (and snores.) The cats are surprisingly social and think people are the schizz, ESPECIALLY in my bed.

Tyholland -> RE: sleeping arrangements (3/18/2012 1:33:27 AM)
Together in bed naked cuddled, unless a couple of 160lb Great Dane decide they have been ignored enough!

hellionsLight -> RE: sleeping arrangements (3/18/2012 10:47:39 AM)
We share a bed. We don't have a 'set' side. We have no, uh, sleeping arrangements other than that.

DommesLesEnigma -> RE: sleeping arrangements (3/18/2012 11:26:36 AM)
I've heard a lot of stories about sleeping on the floor, in separate rooms, in a dungeon, in a cage. Well, Whatever floats you boat.... I prefer the warmth and comfort of a person next to me in bed. I think that is just human nature.

kittycake -> RE: sleeping arrangements (3/18/2012 8:27:11 PM)
We are very cuddly people. We either sleep spooned, with his hands either interlaced with mine or groping me in some way, or he's on his back and I'm nestled into his side, with my arm over his chest and my hand cupping his neck. I've never been a cuddle before him, but now I love it. The two nights a week I sleep alone are obnoxious.

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