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Hello to all - 6/3/2006 6:25:44 AM

cruelwhisper

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Where to start?

I feel as though I'm on the outside looking in.

I find myself conflicted. I met a sub years back who introduced me to the lifestyle, we fell in love and I collared her...

Didn't set too well with my wife, tho. <go figure>

Ended the relationship, but burned for it. Wifey was willing to try being submissive, we had fun in the bedroom, but it wasn't her natural tendancy, outside the bedroom anyway, so I slowly walked away from this...

Couple of years later, by chance, I met a sub online who mirrored my feelings. She was happily married, but had a hubby she felt she couldn't approach with this, so we deceided to share this together, keep it light, enjoy each other's company, etc...

Fullfill a desire that wasn't being met by our spouse. It wasn't the end of the world if we didn't have this one aspect in our lives at home, if it could be achived online,by another, then no harm, no foul, right?

Wrongo.
She was careless and her hubby learned what she was about to do, it harmed her marriage, and we ended before we got started.

I don't wish to hurt my wife, or hurt another submissive for that matter. Seems like a coin with "guilt" on one side and "pain" on the other....

So I envy those of you who are happy in the lifestyle.

Thanks for listening, didn't mean to write a book.

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RE: Hello to all - 6/3/2006 7:34:08 AM

xxmstrchasxx

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CruelWhisper,

Welcome to CM.

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Wifey was willing to try being submissive, we had fun in the bedroom, but it wasn't her natural tendancy, outside the bedroom anyway, so I slowly walked away from this...

I think I would have tried a little longer if she was willing to try at all.
Of course, on the other hand, there are women who will never be a sub they're called Dommes :)

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RE: Hello to all - 6/3/2006 8:00:06 AM

cruelwhisper

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Yes, as Dom I suppose the trick is to bend her to my will, but not if it contradicts who she fundamentally is?
Not what I was looking for....

Thanks for stopping in.

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RE: Hello to all - 6/3/2006 10:54:27 AM

xxmstrchasxx

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