bignipples2share
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I don't believe I'd be willing to relocate, nor would I want someone to relocate for me either. I think it's hard enough, if it doesn't work out, to send someone packing back down the road, to familiar territory, a couple of miles away. You get someone who is out of their element and it doesn't work out, you just open up a whole new can of worms. I prefer meeting someone in my area. If it works out, great, I have my place, he has his. As time goes by, maybe he stays here sometimes, I stay there the other times. I just can't get into the long distance, 'see ya when I can' thing, or the online thing.I do believe in happily ever after, however, I don't rely on it, or burn my bridges by selling my house, nor should he sell his. If things worked out that well, then we'd move in together in one or the other and have vacation, or rental property. That's just me though. I've known others who have moved for love and many years later are just as happy with their decisions to do so.~Big __________________________ahhhh I see sounds
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