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mysouldesire -> RE: relationship dynamic (1/8/2012 8:21:02 AM)
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ORIGINAL: fragilepieces Curious minds want to know? I hear the term relationship dynamic here on collar me; it's daily (overused IMO sorry to those who use it), on FL but I don't go there as much and even in my vanilla world at my job I hear it a lot (maybe those that use it also are members of CM or FL) anyways---where did that term come from? The reason I ask (other than I find the overuse of the word annoying and hope that it will go away at some point like the word awesome did after the appeal of using the word wore out) is that I can not rap my head around the way the term is being used. If one said the dynamic of our relationship IS? I would get it but using it as relationship dynamic---I simply don't get it. I mean it's sort of like saying our relationship energy is and it doesn't sound right. So here is the definition of dynamic: adj. also dy·nam·i·cal (-ĭ-kəl) Of or relating to energy or to objects in motion. Of or relating to the study of dynamics. Characterized by continuous change, activity, or progress: a dynamic market. Marked by intensity and vigor; forceful. See synonyms at active. Of or relating to variation of intensity, as in musical sound. n. An interactive system or process, especially one involving competing or conflicting forces: "the story of a malign dynamic between white prejudice and black autonomy" (Edmund S. Morgan). A force, especially political, social, or psychological: the main dynamic behind the revolution. Help me out maybe I will be less annoyed. [:D] "Dynamic" is just what it means to the ones in the relationship. In our relationship their is a energy level that is not only sexual, but mental, spiritual, social and emotional. The intensity can be very strong to much weaker. He can be forceful in his demands of me or he can "give me a break" lol Our relationship is interactive, ever evolving, changing and is a process of continued growth in dominance, submission, relatedness, companionship, love, respect and trust. If all these were at their max desired point and it could go no further.... well hell, maybe dynamic might turn to dynamite and blow us both up. You have relationship dynamics with your family of origin, with extended family members, with your boss at work, with the policeman who pulls you over for speeding, with the market clerk who inspects what you are buying as she scans the item...... Why over think and make something complicated??
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