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tj444 -> RE: All Style.... (1/6/2012 1:22:52 PM)
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ORIGINAL: tj444
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ORIGINAL: hlen5
If that is what each girl's goal for herself was, fine. This guy thinks that his girls PRIMARY value is arm candy? Raising girls to the idea that accomplishment for themselves is secondary or worse? Not realizing their own value in just being themselves??
From what he said, he didnt push them to do homework or excel at school, etc.. I think he spoiled his girls and want them to marry a rich guy so they can continue to be spoiled as adults.. I dunno, it seemed like he wanted to have them live on easy street.. the problem, even if that is how things went when they were grown,.. is that easy come, easy go... like someone winning the lotto but not having a clue to invest the winnings and save for the future.. and going from easy street to kicked out onto the street... Especially when younger prettier arm candy comes along..
Again, what an asshole!! Has it occurred to him that a girl can be educated AND arm candy? He is handicapping them soooooo bad. Is he a friend or an acquaintance?
Yeah, I was sort of amazed at his attitude. I dont think it occured to him that there are guys out there that want both arm candy and an educated, smart girl all rolled into one.. for guys like that, just being arm candy wouldnt be enough for a relationship/marriage..
He was a guy from a dating site (vanilla) and we met for lunch and we talked for quite a long time.. I like to hear about previous relationships a guy has had and what has gone on before.. and if he has kids, what kind of a father he is, etc.. so i tend to ask a lot of questions.. that helps me gauge the guy as a person,.. as in, do i ever want to see the guy again?.. lol It never went any further than lunch with him..
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