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RE: Luring a vanilla into slapping - 12/27/2011 6:23:12 PM

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And don't fucking curse, you low lives.

It's fucking low life's inactualfuckingfact.

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RE: Luring a vanilla into slapping - 12/27/2011 6:25:00 PM

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Fornica, is it? You are now obsessed with my post. Get out and live your own life.
But feel free to say anything. Now you can have the whole post. I'm done.

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RE: Luring a vanilla into slapping - 12/27/2011 6:25:24 PM

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If you're going to ask in a public forum if what you're doing is dangerous, you better be prepared for the reactions you get. You said you slapped him hard, after he told you he didn't want to engage in slapping. Of course you're going to get aggressive responses, because consent is a huge part of BDSM activities.

One more point I'd like to make is that just because you've made it out safe and secure in the past doesn't mean it will always be that way. One miscalculation with the wrong guy and you're toast.

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RE: Luring a vanilla into slapping - 12/27/2011 6:26:27 PM

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RE: Luring a vanilla into slapping - 12/27/2011 6:26:54 PM

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It's fucking low life's inactualfuckingfact.

Not with that fucking apostrophe in there, it's not. You don't use a fucking apostrophe to signify more than one for sucks sake. Maybe you should buy this fucking poster.

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RE: Luring a vanilla into slapping - 12/27/2011 6:34:05 PM

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I have had a child half my size slap me and it hurt so you may want to reconsider that your assaults don't actually hurt anyone. The bottom line is that he said he didn't want to and you forced it. That negates consent which is the foundation of bdsm or heck even of polite society. If you were on a date and told the guy you didn't want to kiss him but he did anyway how would you feel?

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RE: Luring a vanilla into slapping - 12/27/2011 6:35:39 PM

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It's fucking low life's inactualfuckingfact.

Not with that fucking apostrophe in there, it's not. You don't use a fucking apostrophe to signify more than one for sucks sake. Maybe you should buy this fucking poster.

Well spank my fucking ass & fucking call me fucking Charlie I fucking thought it was a bit of fucking shit on my fucking screen.

Love you for the fucking correction though.

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RE: Luring a vanilla into slapping - 12/27/2011 6:37:35 PM

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Come here, Charlie ...

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RE: Luring a vanilla into slapping - 12/27/2011 6:38:17 PM

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Fornica, is it? You are now obsessed with my post. Get out and live your own life.
But feel free to say anything. Now you can have the whole post. I'm done.

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RE: Luring a vanilla into slapping - 12/27/2011 6:43:38 PM

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RE: Luring a vanilla into slapping - 12/27/2011 6:44:45 PM

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I sometimes put myself into precarious situations (according to you guys), but have always come out safe and sound.

Until you don't.

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It bores me to death to talk things out and explain everything and do something predictable and pre planned.

Big difference between sharing bdsm checklists with your partner ahead of time (a list of things that COULD happen consensually but aren't necessarily scripted) and winging it without.

OP, play intelligently. Stunts like yours breed misconceptions about WIITWD. Don't give us a bad name.

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RE: Luring a vanilla into slapping - 12/27/2011 6:50:04 PM

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FYI
Assault and Battery in the state of FL

Definitions: "Assault is defined as "an intentional threat by word, or act that seeks to physically harm another, coupled with an apparent ability to do so, which creates a well-founded fear in such other person that such violence is imminent." "

" An Aggravated Assault is "is an assault with a deadly weapon without intent to kill; or with an intent to commit a felony" "

" Battery is defined as when a person "intentionally touches or strikes another person, without that person’s consent; or Intentionally ca uses bodily harm to another person. " "

"A Battery becomes an Aggravated Battery if "during the commission of a battery, he/she: Intentionally or knowingly causes great bodily harm, permanent disability, or permanent disfigurement; or Uses a deadly weapon. Also, a person commits aggravated battery if the victim of the battery was pregnant at the time of the offense and the offender knew or should have known that the victim was pregnant." "

Penalties: "Assault is a second degree misdemeanor, which has a maximum penalty of 60 days in jail and a $500 fine. FL Criminal Statute §784.011"

"An Aggravated Assault charge is a felony assault third degree felony, which has a maximum penalty of 5 years in jail and a $5000 fine. FL Criminal Statute §784.021"

"Battery is a first degree misdemeanor, which has a maximum penalty of 1 year in jail and a $1000 fine. A Second Offense Battery charge becomes a felony battery (3rd degree felony) with a penalty of up to 5 years in jail an a maximum $5000 fine. FL Criminal Statute §784.03 A Second Offense Battery charge becomes a felony battery (3rd degree felony) with a penalty of up to 5 years in jail an a maximum $5000 fine. FL Criminal Statute §784.03"

"An Aggravated Battery is a second degree felony, which has a maximum penalty of 15 years in jail and a $10,000 fine. FL Criminal Statute §784.045"

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RE: Luring a vanilla into slapping - 12/27/2011 6:50:29 PM

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it only takes once, you can only die once
having a death wish isnt new, you are not being original. or smart, or clever or even very surprising.
you just want your yucks and theres nothin wrong with killing yourself, just dont include a partner in your selfishness
Domme, you arent....... just a careless thrill seeker.

You will learn
I hope you make it thru without permanent harm to your mind

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RE: Luring a vanilla into slapping - 12/27/2011 8:43:19 PM

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I asked him to slap me and he flat out refused. So I stunned him by slapping him hard.
He didn't dare hitting me back at first but after a series of hard slaps, he was activated.
And he totally got it too. Couldn't get enough of it. Made me wince once.
Is this a good way to lure a guy into slapping? or is it dangerous? I'd be poking a sleeping lion?
Do you think I have a domme streak for slapping a guy like this and initiating things?
Subs wouldn't do this sorta thing?
How would you gentlemen feel if this happened to you?
And ladies, how do you talk someone into slapping you?

I'll just ignore the rest of the post, as I see everyone else has also addressed it.

But...as far as how I talked someone into slapping me? I'll answer because I love a good slap on the face now and then. Simply - I told him I was interested in feeling it. It was left to him whether to do so. (Thank goodness he took a bit of a shine to it. Love it.)

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RE: Luring a vanilla into slapping - 12/27/2011 9:12:30 PM

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it only takes once, you can only die once
having a death wish isnt new, you are not being original. or smart, or clever or even very surprising.
you just want your yucks and theres nothin wrong with killing yourself, just dont include a partner in your selfishness
Domme, you arent....... just a careless thrill seeker.

You will learn
I hope you make it thru without permanent harm to your mind

She's 32, not 22. She isn't going to learn and she will eventually pay the price. It's not even worth the effort to try to teach her some sense.

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RE: Luring a vanilla into slapping - 12/27/2011 9:35:45 PM

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I asked him to slap me and he flat out refused. So I stunned him by slapping him hard.
He didn't dare hitting me back at first but after a series of hard slaps, he was activated.
And he totally got it too. Couldn't get enough of it. Made me wince once.
Is this a good way to lure a guy into slapping? or is it dangerous? I'd be poking a sleeping lion?
Do you think I have a domme streak for slapping a guy like this and initiating things?
Subs wouldn't do this sorta thing?
How would you gentlemen feel if this happened to you?
And ladies, how do you talk someone into slapping you?

Okay, sometimes I'm nice and sometimes I'm blunt. This is one of those blunt times, you've been forewarned.

It's not just s-types that get to have limits. D-types get to have them too. So he said no and you totally fucking ignored his limit. You pushed and pushed him by repeatedly slapping him hard until you pissed him off enough to slap you back. Face-slapping and then face-slapping when you're pissed off are two separate things. Totally.

That is a totally fucking stupid thing to do. You're lucky he didn't kill you or at least break some bones in your face. You do NOT have a Domme streak but it's entirely possible you just might have a dumb ass streak. No, this is NOT a good way to lure someone into slapping you. Slapping is something you discuss with each other and agree on before doing it. It's people like you that give kinksters a bad name and it's a damn wonder that he didn't call the cops on your ass for assault. I know I would have.

I would never EVER talk someone into slapping me because it's a hard limit of mine, both giving and receiving, so it goes without saying I'd never slap anyone else either. When I was a sub it was a hard limit and, now that I'm a Domme, it's still a hard limit.

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RE: Luring a vanilla into slapping - 12/27/2011 10:17:21 PM

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I asked him to slap me and he flat out refused. So I stunned him by slapping him hard.
He didn't dare hitting me back at first but after a series of hard slaps, he was activated.
And he totally got it too. Couldn't get enough of it. Made me wince once.
Is this a good way to lure a guy into slapping? or is it dangerous? I'd be poking a sleeping lion?
Do you think I have a domme streak for slapping a guy like this and initiating things?
Subs wouldn't do this sorta thing?
How would you gentlemen feel if this happened to you?
And ladies, how do you talk someone into slapping you?

I dont.

You are lucky he didnt have you arrested.

We all talk about SSC and RACK.

What you did, and forced him into doing, was not consensual on any level.

That doesnt make you a Domme... that makes you a bully.

FFS, grow the hell up.

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RE: Luring a vanilla into slapping - 12/27/2011 11:17:03 PM

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You didn't get the reaction you'd hoped for so then the story changed. Either you didn't report it truthfully the first time or you switched things up later, but either way it's obvious that you're not a truthful person. Now everyone that responded to your first version are idiots and are misreading what you put out there as the truth, well what the heck do we have to go on but what you say cupcake?

Plus, it's really incredibly tiresome to read how awesome people think they are. Tiresome and childish. So you live life on the edge do you....well yay for you. Assuming that we all lead boring lives because you're thinking that we don't do things the way that you do, is pretentious and probably wrong. You don't know what the hell anyone here does. All you know is that you misrepresented yourself somewhere in these different realities that you're giving out, and you got called on that, and on the fact that you manipulated at the very least and very likely abused your partner. No...of course that's not going to go over well, not if any one of us considers themselves a fair, responsible person.

Don't you think it's pretty ridiculous to come into a kink forum and take the stance that most people there are either wrong or boring and that you're the cool kid? Every person in here does things that are considered risky and outside the norm. Go ahead and pretend that you're more awesome than the rest of us, but realize that we'll call you on the bullshit that you're putting out there.

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RE: Luring a vanilla into slapping - 12/28/2011 12:21:03 AM

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it only takes once, you can only die once
having a death wish isnt new, you are not being original. or smart, or clever or even very surprising.
you just want your yucks and theres nothin wrong with killing yourself, just dont include a partner in your selfishness
Domme, you arent....... just a careless thrill seeker.

You will learn
I hope you make it thru without permanent harm to your mind

She's 32, not 22. She isn't going to learn and she will eventually pay the price. It's not even worth the effort to try to teach her some sense.

The day I stop learning and "evolving" and changing to the data I find important is the day I shove this mortal coil...Ive changed my ways a great many times since I was 32.

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RE: Luring a vanilla into slapping - 12/28/2011 12:44:34 AM

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Slapping is something you discuss with each other and agree on before doing it. It's people like you that give kinksters a bad name and it's a damn wonder that he didn't call the cops on your ass for assault.

OP, since slapping seems to trip your trigger you should learn to do it safely to minimize the risk of physical danger. Just hauling off and clocking someone without being aware of how to support and strike is dangerous. Good job, Einstein.