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Ginger Cheater Mad Girlfriend - 12/6/2011 6:13:47 PM   
Duskypearls


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Status: offline 		This was heartbreaking, and hard for me to watch; a man allowing a woman to do this to him, and publicly, at that. Every cell in my body wanted him to stand up to her and put her in her place. Of course, we have no way of knowing if this is a Domme/sub situation, so one must consider and allow for that. Still...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OBZwDjocX14&feature=player_embedded#!

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RE: Ginger Cheater Mad Girlfriend - 12/6/2011 8:48:26 PM   
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Status: offline 		Domme sub ? That includes kicking and beating about the head and shoulders ? I don't think so. I think if he would've hit her once and floored her it would definitely be self defense. What I can't tell is if he just didn't want to hurt her or if she is actually tougher than him.

I'd like to doubt the latter because people who are really tough try to avoid fights, not start them. And if she was really tough she would've likely injured him.

Now I would like to see what would happen if a male was doing that to a female on a train. Someone would probably do something.

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RE: Ginger Cheater Mad Girlfriend - 12/6/2011 8:55:55 PM   
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Status: offline 		I don't see anything Domme/sub about the vid. Not sure how you even came to that idea.

The scenario was simple. He cheated on her. She found out. She was angry. People do things like that when they find out someone is cheating on them. While I think her anger was not out of line I do think her actions were.

Knowing that he probably cheated on her, I have no sympathy for him either. Sorry.



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RE: Ginger Cheater Mad Girlfriend - 12/6/2011 9:13:37 PM   
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Status: offline 		She's still looking at a number if it doesn't get dropped down to simple assault OR battery. Not both. And if that video becomes evidence it is not going to go well for her no matter how much he forgives her and it's all lovey dovie.

Moral of the story : beat people up at home, in the house. (either that or in a bar where everyone is drunk and thinks it's a show or something)

Of course that is not always true, depending on where this is an assault/battery might be easier to deal with than domestic violence.

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RE: Ginger Cheater Mad Girlfriend - 12/6/2011 9:50:33 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Termyn8or

Domme sub ? That includes kicking and beating about the head and shoulders ? I don't think so. I think if he would've hit her once and floored her it would definitely be self defense. What I can't tell is if he just didn't want to hurt her or if she is actually tougher than him.

I'd like to doubt the latter because people who are really tough try to avoid fights, not start them. And if she was really tough she would've likely injured him.

Now I would like to see what would happen if a male was doing that to a female on a train. Someone would probably do something.

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Personally, it just looked to me like an out of control bitch slamming on a backboneless fellow, but there's no way to tell what was really going on in his head, or why he didn't speak up, or yell, or something.

Do you remember hearing the woman filming repeatedly saying something to the effect of, "He'd better not hit her!" while the woman's beating and kicking him in the head? Lawd have mercy, I wish he had socked her one! Would've straightened her ass out but quick, but with all those PC witnesses, he'd likely spend a decade in jail. I was stunned no one spoke up or did anything. Seems no one wanted to get involved. Wished a bunch of the men would've ringed themselves around her, and put her to the ground if necessary, till police got there.

All I can say is that was horrible to watch.

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RE: Ginger Cheater Mad Girlfriend - 12/6/2011 9:55:59 PM   
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I don't see anything Domme/sub about the vid. Not sure how you even came to that idea. I didn't say I thought that's what it was, but because we are not privy to their internal dynamics, otherwise, I left it open as a consideration, not one I believe in personally, in this case.The scenario was simple. He cheated on her. She found out. She was angry. People do things like that when they find out someone is cheating on them. While I think her anger was not out of line I do think her actions were.

Knowing that he probably cheated on her, I have no sympathy for him either. Sorry.




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RE: Ginger Cheater Mad Girlfriend - 12/6/2011 9:58:39 PM   
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Status: offline 		No one intervened probably because they felt he deserved everything he was getting for cheating on her.



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RE: Ginger Cheater Mad Girlfriend - 12/6/2011 10:01:42 PM   
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Status: offline 		According to the comments under the vid, the train was stopped and cops called and she made the mistake of kneeing one of them in the groin. Her bail was set at $15,000. Any takers?

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RE: Ginger Cheater Mad Girlfriend - 12/6/2011 10:09:06 PM   
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Status: offline 		He was doing a good job at passive defense. One blow would not have gotten him in trouble, not with all those witnesses. I would've grabbed her by the neck and sat her down in a seat myself. She was so vulnerable so many times that I think he wanted to let her do it. He did it and she got it off her chest.

There is also the possibility that she supports him.

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RE: Ginger Cheater Mad Girlfriend - 12/6/2011 11:01:11 PM   
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Status: offline 		I couldnt get it to play past where she says "It's not ok to mistreat girls"...

*blink* wait... huh???

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RE: Ginger Cheater Mad Girlfriend - 12/7/2011 2:25:22 AM   
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Status: offline 		That is not D/s in any way.  It is a dumbass cunt, out of control.  He should have cold cocked that crazy bitch.




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RE: Ginger Cheater Mad Girlfriend - 12/7/2011 3:14:10 AM   
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ORIGINAL: littlewonder

No one intervened probably because they felt he deserved everything he was getting for cheating on her.




Noone intervened because people don't like to get involved, plain and simple. What I found unbelievable was that she didn't even know enough to stop when she was arrested. Man she's got to have a real problem to attack the cops. I hope they throw the book at her.

ETA: I do think it interesting that when a man doesn't fight back it's because he knows he's guilty or he's a wuss but when it's a woman she's protecting herself.


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RE: Ginger Cheater Mad Girlfriend - 12/7/2011 4:33:56 AM   
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Status: offline 		People are shit; on that reasonable people must agree. The thing is, for those of you implying the question of why he didn't defend himself, if he had fought back, he would have been the one going downtown, even if all he did was restrain her. And yes, he is an asshole for cheating on her, but being an asshole is no excuse for domestic violence. If it were there would be very few non-abusive relationships in the world. I'm definitely a consequentionist (spelling?) rather than a retributivist when it comes to penalization. Was her reaction the correct one, in an operant sense? I would say no. She demonstrated that she's a crazy bitch, but she certainly didn't elict a reaction of respect and contrition from him. If anything he now respects her less and is more likely to not give a fuck about her feelings the next time some hot young thing comes along. I won't get into the double standard beyond what I have since I think we're all aware of it.

As to D/s, at the risk of repeating the obvious crazy bitches and D/s are two sets which rarely intersect. She was clearly out of control and flailing about like a child. Hardly a dominant posture.

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RE: Ginger Cheater Mad Girlfriend - 12/7/2011 6:08:28 AM   
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And I am still gobsmacked by what I posted earlier.. LOL

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RE: Ginger Cheater Mad Girlfriend - 12/7/2011 7:29:38 AM   
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That is not D/s in any way.  It is a dumbass cunt, out of control.  He should have cold cocked that crazy bitch.




meh, I had a chick go off on me close to that bad once. I just kept up the forearm blocks till she got tired and started whining about the bruises she was putting on herself every time she took a swing.

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RE: Ginger Cheater Mad Girlfriend - 12/7/2011 7:33:50 AM   
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Status: offline 		Heartbreaking? Really? You consider that heartbreaking? Weird.

I couldnt believe he just SAT there. He didnt have to hit her back .. but he didnt get up and move to get away from her or anything. I thought that was quite ODD.

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RE: Ginger Cheater Mad Girlfriend - 12/7/2011 7:37:29 AM   
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Status: offline 		what the cynical part of me wonders is since she is allegedly an 'actress', if much of it wasnt staged, and the cops were an unexpected 'bonus'

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RE: Ginger Cheater Mad Girlfriend - 12/7/2011 9:32:59 AM   
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Status: offline 		If the roles were reversed and he was the aggressor this would be a entirely different thread except for the fact that it would still have been videotaped and nobody still would have intervened. The disgusting bitch with the camera is the one who should be arrested. 

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RE: Ginger Cheater Mad Girlfriend - 12/7/2011 9:40:20 AM   
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Status: offline 		Perhaps he felt like he deserved it, so he didn't get up. Or maybe he thought that getting up would escalate things.

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RE: Ginger Cheater Mad Girlfriend - 12/7/2011 10:27:27 AM   
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Status: offline 		Why are we all assuming that this obviously irrational young lady is honest in asserting that he cheated on her?  All I saw was a little girl on a power trip.  Not D/s, just a power trip.

But, even if he cheated on her, what could she have expected?  We all know that gingers have no soul.  j/k


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