A great resource for you will be the "Ask a Mistress" board. The ladies there are usually pretty good for answers to questions if you don't try to assert your dominance on them.
OohAahMrs -> RE: Hey (12/5/2011 6:13:56 AM)
Welcome gwen, hope it works out for you! By the way, there's several hundred people, about to call you an enormous fake, and you'll need a cam to prove them wrong, it's all part of the initiation ceremony, then of course you must accuse everyone of being fakes and scammers, then you'll be an accepted member! That's before you even get the chance to start demanding lots of money for just looking pretty!