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New to this - 11/1/2011 5:57:44 PM   
inocent1234


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My husband is really into me talk to him when we are intimate, ive tried saying things he tells me its boring, its the same thing over and over again or not believeable. I really don't know what to do! he like kinky things, he keeps telling me to tell something shocking. Help!
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RE: New to this - 11/1/2011 7:50:21 PM   
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Tell him you are into bukakke and that you want to arrange one and have him watch.

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RE: New to this - 11/1/2011 9:05:46 PM   
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pretty much any porno has all the information you could possibly need. Notice, when they are fucking, the woman usually just says whatever the male is doing. For example, if he slaps her ass, she will say, "Oh yah, slap my ass!" or if he's grabbing her tits she will say, "Oh yah grab my tits!" Often they will say something like, "Fuck me!" or "Harder!" It's really not rocket science. They key to turning him on verbally, is not what you say, but rather how you say it.

If you lay there while he's giving you the third degree and go, "yah yah, do me, yah, oh baby, yah, you go" and then start filing your nails, he's not gonna be terribly excited by that. On the other hand, if he's got you bent over a chair and you look over your shoulder into his eyes and go, "OH FUCK YES GOD DAMMIT" you'll get a far different result.

Obviously you can say pretty much anything. You could yell, "OH MUFFINS, OH FIDDLESTICKS" and if you mean it, he'll be hard as a diamond. You said so yourself, it's not believable, make him believe. If he's not giving you the buissiness the way you want, tell him what he should be doing. Yell at him to grab your tits, rub your clit, or put a finger in your ass. Whatever it is that gets you excited and horny, tell him to do it. And don't be like, "rub my genitals"

Be nasty, no one is gonna know but you two. "PLAY WITH MY PUSSY!" or something along those lines. He's your husband, he's wants you to be naughty, he wants you to be crass and dirty. So be crass and dirty, you might even like it.



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RE: New to this - 11/2/2011 1:40:09 AM   
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You have to get in touch with who you are as a Domme first. Do you like it or are you just doing it for him ? If you do, or don't, what do you like ?

You need to determine who you are sexually first....please yourself....then you can please your partner

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RE: New to this - 11/2/2011 6:44:43 AM   
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some do like it dirty,
say something like "hello big boy, hope your cock is bigger" or " harder you fucking sissy i can not feel anything down there"... etc
you got it

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RE: New to this - 11/4/2011 8:10:04 AM   
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Tell him to leave home!

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RE: New to this - 11/4/2011 8:27:46 AM   
BurntKitty


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Try this in a Kathleen Turner-like whisper:
"I love it when your skin glistens in the hot sunlight when you mow the lawn, stud."
"You're so fucking hot when you take out the trash."
"Your culinary skills turn me on like a the flame under a huge skillet. Now go, my sexy Chef- get cooking.

Make sure the household is spotless, dinner is cooked and he's given you a loving pedicure, bath and massage. If he has any energy and wants you talk dirty to him list his accomplishments and commend and critique them until he dozes off. If he still has energy...can I borrow him to clean my place?

Oh, and welcome.


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