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fed up of scammers - 10/16/2011 6:56:27 PM   
liketheclappers


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Status: offline 		im so fed up of scammers on here, wanting me to donate money or sign up to another site using bank details.

this has been a bad introduction into the bdsm world. i hope its not all like this
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RE: fed up of scammers - 10/16/2011 7:17:59 PM   
CarpeComa


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Status: offline 		It's all like this.

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RE: fed up of scammers - 10/16/2011 7:39:14 PM   
Benswitch


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Status: offline 		Noooo it's not all like this, although it can get pretty bad sometimes

< Message edited by Benswitch -- 10/16/2011 7:49:04 PM >

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RE: fed up of scammers - 10/16/2011 7:39:44 PM   
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RE: fed up of scammers - 10/16/2011 7:41:41 PM   
lazarus1983


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ORIGINAL: Benswitch

Noooo it's not all like this, although it can get pretty bad sometimes
I think I may have been talking to one who just asked me for $400, but I don't know if she's a scammer or real as she didn't tell me how to send it, so maybe she's real and just wants some commitment or something - would any normal mistresses want financial control over their real subs?


...


Just go ahead and send it to me.

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RE: fed up of scammers - 10/16/2011 7:53:29 PM   
CarpeComa


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ORIGINAL: Benswitch

Noooo it's not all like this, although it can get pretty bad sometimes


Why are you giving him hope? If he leaves, it's less competition

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RE: fed up of scammers - 10/16/2011 8:19:26 PM   
Hisprettybaby


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Status: offline 		I'm on fetlife and it doesn't seem as bad over there, and it's totally free just like CM.

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RE: fed up of scammers - 10/16/2011 8:21:15 PM   
LillyBoPeep


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Status: offline 		i agree; fetlife doesn't seem to have quite the scam population.
i mean, occasionally you get jorer.com shoe spam, but other than that...
perhaps you can try there? 

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RE: fed up of scammers - 10/16/2011 9:21:49 PM   
SpanishMatMaster


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ORIGINAL: Hisprettybaby
I'm on fetlife and it doesn't seem as bad over there, and it's totally free just like CM.
Thank you for the tip. I am also absolutely fed up by now, three weeks sending messages and a 95% fake quote on responses. I have learened not write any Phillipinians, nor Ghanese, nor any girl who puts its yahoo account in the net, nor if they don't write a huge profile text, nor if the text is too general, nor if... for God's sake...
Remaining are girls whose profile text is composed by insults and protests about the jerks who contacted them. And such texts are not very appealing at well. Slowly retiring from this site.


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RE: fed up of scammers - 10/16/2011 9:23:27 PM   
littlewonder


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Status: offline 		hate to break it to ya but the entire internet...not just this site, not just bdsm sites...are allllllll like this.




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RE: fed up of scammers - 10/16/2011 9:36:55 PM   
SpanishMatMaster


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ORIGINAL: littlewonder
hate to break it to ya but the entire internet...not just this site, not just bdsm sites...are allllllll like this.
No. The Russian-bride oriented sites have about a 30% of scammers at all, and they are easy to discover. The problem is BDSM, for the rest there are a lot of sweet wonderful women there. And no, they are not "only for the green card", even if they appreciate a man who can provide for the family. So I did find my wife and many other girls truly interested and some even *into* BDSM.
Not all internet is like this. Only where there is absolutely no control on how females can register. Males tend to be cock-driven, that makes them easy target for female scammers. As a result, any free site is filled with them. And with cock-driven males, of course (I never said that females have it easy, but their problems are just different in sites like this).
So - for a man (or more exactly, somebody looking for females), it is better to search a place where the target is checked in some way before being able to register. That usually means paying, but some dozens bucks a month for finding a long-term relation should not be a problem.


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RE: fed up of scammers - 10/16/2011 9:41:21 PM   
MadAxeman


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Status: offline 		Being cock-driven has seen me crash into some lovely chicks.

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RE: fed up of scammers - 10/16/2011 9:41:58 PM   
xxblushesxx


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Status: offline 		Huh. I'll have to tell Honey Master. He was looking on this site for about six months before he met me. Patience, common sense, and a sense of humor will help you find what you seek. No matter where you're looking.

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RE: fed up of scammers - 10/16/2011 9:49:03 PM   
RexDarcy


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Status: offline 		Wtf, really? This good old age of the world wide web having fakes and spammers is not anything new. Its just more obvious on some sites than it is on others.

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RE: fed up of scammers - 10/16/2011 9:53:46 PM   
SpanishMatMaster


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ORIGINAL: MadAxeman
Being cock-driven has seen me crash into some lovely chicks.
Your luck. But maybe we understand "cock-driven" differently.

< Message edited by SpanishMatMaster -- 10/16/2011 9:54:29 PM >

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RE: fed up of scammers - 10/17/2011 1:49:08 AM   
BurntKitty


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Status: offline 		I'll let my honey know as well.  We met via the forums on Bondage.com last year.  Then again, both he and I had been posting  on those close to five years and I was familiar with his personality.  I was the one who initiated first contact.  Gotta love how football brought us together.

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RE: fed up of scammers - 10/17/2011 4:00:24 AM   
Termyn8or


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Status: offline 		"No. The Russian-bride oriented sites have about a 30% of scammers at all, and they are easy to discover."

They still have those ? If I marry Russian girl how long until I can become citizen ?

T^T

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RE: fed up of scammers - 10/17/2011 4:17:27 AM   
SpanishMatMaster


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ORIGINAL: Termyn8or
They still have those ? If I marry Russian girl how long until I can become citizen ?
1) Yes, there are some, the most serious ones. 2) No idea, honestly, but the Foreign Ministry of the Russian Federation should have this information available.
And if you want to suggest something else, I propose you to say it directly, and then we can move from there. With arguments and facts. Maybe the reality will not match your prejudices, moi drug. Paka.


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RE: fed up of scammers - 10/17/2011 7:23:41 AM   
roscho


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Status: offline 		Virtually every time I turn on the television or the radio, there is an advertisement wanting my money. This has been a bad introduction into the broadcast world. I hope it's not all like this.

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RE: fed up of scammers - 10/17/2011 7:29:55 AM   
kalikshama


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