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RE: How do you Judge levels of perversion / kink - 10/8/2011 11:41:36 AM

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...mind you who do we know is true on here any how...

Uhhh... let's see... talking, meeting, etc.?!! Gee, is that so flippin' difficult to comprehend, sparky?!!

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RE: How do you Judge levels of perversion / kink - 10/8/2011 11:53:35 AM

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by extreme do they mean 'more than words'

omfg i can't believe i made such a shit joke

for those that did not get it here is the popular song by the god awful band, i shall pay in hell for posting this http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UrIiLvg58SY

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RE: How do you Judge levels of perversion / kink - 10/8/2011 12:19:48 PM

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I judge them with screams, whimpers and moans.
Cuz you know, there are times where a score card just wont do.

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RE: How do you Judge levels of perversion / kink - 10/8/2011 3:20:15 PM

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Hi there, and interesting scenario here for you.

I have been talking to someone and she has stated that she wants extreme cyber conversation.

we have covered many subject around pain, peeing and pregnancy along with including other men.

Conversations have flowed on some of the subjects but not all in one go so to speak..

So I start with a scene that is extreme, warn her of the foundation of it and then I don't like one particular thing and runs of.. Is there no pleasing some subs ???? ha ha oh well , rant over.

It's not that interesting. You had cyber sex with someone. At a certain point, they lost interest in you, or you said someone that turned them off, and they discontinued having cyber sex. That's really all that happened.

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RE: How do you Judge levels of perversion / kink - 10/8/2011 3:33:57 PM

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ORIGINAL: MasterSlaveLA

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I judge them with screams, whimpers and moans.
Cuz you know, there are times where a score card just wont do.

Ooooooh...a lot of fun could be had with that!
perhaps.....

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RE: How do you Judge levels of perversion / kink - 10/8/2011 3:41:21 PM

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So I start with a scene that is extreme, warn her of the foundation of it and then I don't like one particular thing and runs of.. Is there no pleasing some subs ????

Seems like the real question is "I thought I knew her but she surprised me. What's up with that?" Well, you didn't know her. You had a shallow, superficial online relationship.

The depth of what some women on this board will do to for their Doms/Masters boggles my mind, but they are all in committed relationships. When you are cyber only, it's easy to run away.

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RE: How do you Judge levels of perversion / kink - 10/8/2011 6:14:41 PM

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Hello,

What might be extreme or a limit to one might seem like nothing unusual to someone else. Everyone has a right to their own personal opinion, even though not everyone might understand or relate to it. What is more important is that a person's limit is respected and their opinions as well. We are all so very unique and different. That is what makes the world so interesting and less boring. Try to imagine dating yourself.

Hope this helps.

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RE: How do you Judge levels of perversion / kink - 10/8/2011 6:42:45 PM

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Try to imagine dating yourself.

that would be fucking hot!! some crazy ass fights and more than a few trips to the er, but fuck yea!

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RE: How do you Judge levels of perversion / kink - 10/9/2011 5:15:46 AM

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So I start with a scene that is extreme, warn her of the foundation of it and then I don't like one particular thing and runs of.. Is there no pleasing some subs ????

Seems like the real question is "I thought I knew her but she surprised me. What's up with that?" Well, you didn't know her. You had a shallow, superficial online relationship.

The depth of what some women on this board will do to for their Doms/Masters boggles my mind, but they are all in committed relationships. When you are cyber only, it's easy to run away.

OP - I received your PM but would prefer to keep the convo here. When you post on a public message board, you are asking for other's opinions. I'm really surprised you felt the need to send me a PM complaining MY reply was "fucking judgmental."

If I "don't have a clue," consider that the fault is your for failing to convey in your OP that this was NOT in fact a shallow, superficial relationship. Feel free to clarify.

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RE: How do you Judge levels of perversion / kink - 10/9/2011 5:30:20 AM

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Gee whizz - apparently the OP gets on line for cyber sex - and thinks he doesn't have a shallow superficial relationship? Hmm.....

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RE: How do you Judge levels of perversion / kink - 10/9/2011 5:59:32 AM

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ORIGINAL: Nobthebuilder

Hi there, and interesting scenario here for you.

I have been talking to someone and she has stated that she wants extreme cyber conversation.

we have covered many subject around pain, peeing and pregnancy along with including other men.

Conversations have flowed on some of the subjects but not all in one go so to speak..

So I start with a scene that is extreme, warn her of the foundation of it and then I don't like one particular thing and runs of.. Is there no pleasing some subs ???? ha ha oh well , rant over.

There is so much wrong with the above I'm not sure where to start, so I'll begin with the subject line. How do you judge levels of perversion? People with experience (real time experience, not cyber) are going to have their own score card. A way to get started with someone new is to have the both of your fill out a BDSM check sheet. An example:

http://www.bdsm-education.com/checklist.html

Filling this out together should engender much needed conversation to see if you are both on the same page kink wise and intensity wise.

The OP started an "extreme" online scene and his cyber sub bolted. This is not new or interesting to those of us who are not into cyber b/c we live BDSM day to day in our real lives.

It is, however, a great example of what not to do. Which is to scene with someone when you don't know their head enough to do it successfully. It's the dominant's responsibility to know their sub. It's the sub's responsibility to be obedient. Neither of those two things appeared to have happened.

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RE: How do you Judge levels of perversion / kink - 10/9/2011 10:20:41 AM

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