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jojovendetta -> lady switch here new to this n needing advice (9/22/2011 7:24:06 PM)

So im 100% new to all this, but im HIGHLY interested. Can any1 help? Let me kno wut to do, how it all works, both real life an online. Thank u <3



MistressDarkArt -> RE: lady switch here new to this n needing advice (9/22/2011 7:54:07 PM)

Welcome! One thing you could do is switch out of text speak and use regular written English when posting here. Thank you, and good luck in your search.



poise -> RE: lady switch here new to this n needing advice (9/22/2011 8:10:28 PM)


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ORIGINAL: jojovendetta

So im 100% new to all this, but im HIGHLY interested. Can any1 help? Let me kno wut to do, how it all works, both real life an online. Thank u <3

For some of us here, it works just like a normal relationship does.
For others, its all about the kinky play.
There is no How To Do It manual, but depending on where your interests lie
there are some books that you may find some interest in, as well as alot of
informative threads here on the forum. Best of luck!

BDSM Book List
BDSM Glossary



Endivius -> RE: lady switch here new to this n needing advice (9/22/2011 8:21:15 PM)

Welcome to CM. Here is some generic advice that may be of some value to you :

Read the forums, all of them. http://www.collarchat.com/m_1726118/tm.htm this is a list of reading material to get you started. Keep in mind anything you read is not a "one true way" and many of the authors will differ in thier views, but reading is no substitute for real life.

Get to some munches. Munches are just vanilla meetings in the ordinary world with like minded people to get to know the people in your area, and learn from thier experience. There is no kinky games, special protocol, or playing done at munches (generally). To find a munch, start by looking http://www.collarchat.com/forumid_17/tt.htm. If you cannot find anything there, google your city, state/province, and the word MUNCH. If you still cannot find anything, head over to fetlife.com and make an account, there are lots of events listed there as well.

Good Luck.




OohAahMrs -> RE: lady switch here new to this n needing advice (9/23/2011 5:25:40 AM)

Hmm, ahh, ohh, erm, just smile and say "yes," you'll be ok!



ashjor911 -> RE: lady switch here new to this n needing advice (9/23/2011 7:06:17 AM)

hmmmmm
Welcome To CM



BurntKitty -> RE: lady switch here new to this n needing advice (9/23/2011 10:49:21 AM)


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ORIGINAL: MistressDarkArt

Welcome! One thing you could do is switch out of text speak and use regular written English when posting here. Thank you, and good luck in your search.


^This^

And welcome to CM.



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