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ORIGINAL: Wickad

I have to say I agree with the OP....

Though, I think it applies to all new folks be there an inclination for Dominance or submission.  I also tend to meet all kinds of new folks online, suggest some resources, and point them in the direction of the local community.  Sometimes I even hang back in the shadows if they need a bit of encouragement.  I do, however,  have a rule that I won't play with you until you know who you are in this lifestyle and what you want from it.  There doesn't seem to me to be a whole lot of sense to developing a deep and meaningful D/s dynamic when the person you are developing it with has no idea what they bring to the table or if they want to even sit at the same table.

It's great to see others who aren't predatory.

Wickad

PS - ohhh, almost forgot.... the idea that some little 'ole' submissive needs to have their hand held, ushered along, and protected from all that life is really sickens me.  Dominant or submissive, these are all supposed be adults involved in this lifestyle.

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ORIGINAL: CrappyDom

Cleaver,

It is quite clear it isn't spelled clever, because not only are you almost useless as a foil, your ability to comprehend what you read seems to be pretty limited as well.  Be careful of your assumptions, where do you see me speak of playing with them? 

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ORIGINAL: CrappyDom

Thanks for my laugh of the day, actually two really because I read your profile.  Married eh?

Please note the question mark.  I realize thinking about lying and cheating is SO bourgeois but I guess I am just a victim of my socialization.