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Hello from NI - 9/20/2011 2:29:00 AM

sonjablue

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hi i'm a 37 yr old MTF TS hopefully having my op next year. I'm Bi, Poly, Furry, and Mistress. Don't have alot of experience in the BDSM community but do have experience in ageplay, obedience training, and starting to get into the petplay. It's interesting how you start off thnking your into one thing and then as time goes on it changes into something else or just progress's into other things. I do still have a slight submissive side to me since i was originally a switch, but due to time wasters etc my dominate side has taken over.

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RE: Hello from NI - 9/20/2011 2:30:41 AM

Endivius

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Welcome to CM. Here is some generic advice that may be of some value to you :

Read the forums, all of them. http://www.collarchat.com/m_1726118/tm.htm this is a list of reading material to get you started. Keep in mind anything you read is not a "one true way" and many of the authors will differ in thier views, but reading is no substitute for real life.

Get to some munches. Munches are just vanilla meetings in the ordinary world with like minded people to get to know the people in your area, and learn from thier experience. There is no kinky games, special protocol, or playing done at munches (generally). To find a munch, start by looking http://www.collarchat.com/forumid_17/tt.htm. If you cannot find anything there, google your city, state/province, and the word MUNCH. If you still cannot find anything, head over to fetlife.com and make an account, there are lots of events listed there as well.

Good Luck.

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RE: Hello from NI - 9/20/2011 2:35:36 AM

sonjablue

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Thank you Endivius for your welcome. I'm a member of a local group though at the moment nothing much is happening with them. I am also on FetLife, but thank you once again from the information you've kindly provided.

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RE: Hello from NI - 9/20/2011 2:56:06 AM

OohAahMrs

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Welcome son, you've got a lot going on at the moment!

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RE: Hello from NI - 9/20/2011 7:17:00 AM

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Hi there!

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Quit fretting. We men love you."

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RE: Hello from NI - 9/20/2011 6:08:54 PM

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Welcome to CM and the boards. Just an FYI "dominate" is a verb, "dominant" is the noun. Good luck in your search.

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