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Assignments? - 9/12/2011 6:17:41 AM   
MissEvilT


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I am in need of some ideas for easy assignments given some very strict settings. Assuming that you can not have any 'traditional' toys around, and that it has to be quiet...are there any suggestions on tasks he can do. I also am sending him a package so any 'nonchalant' items would be helpful too. I have been giving hiim small assignments and he has been more than willing to do more but I am running out of ideas given the strict scenari. I am defiantely not used to having my pets so unattainable to me and I have several weeks before he can be before me.

Help!
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RE: Assignments? - 9/12/2011 6:40:40 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: MissEvilT

I am in need of some ideas for easy assignments given some very strict settings. Assuming that you can not have any 'traditional' toys around, and that it has to be quiet...are there any suggestions on tasks he can do. I also am sending him a package so any 'nonchalant' items would be helpful too. I have been giving hiim small assignments and he has been more than willing to do more but I am running out of ideas given the strict scenari. I am defiantely not used to having my pets so unattainable to me and I have several weeks before he can be before me.

Help!


I'd have him sit alone in a room in the dark, humiliated by the fact that he was such a worthless P.O.S. that he can't even get an original domme.


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RE: Assignments? - 9/12/2011 6:42:13 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Kana

I'd have him sit alone in a room in the dark, humiliated by the fact that he can't even get an original domme.



This.


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RE: Assignments? - 9/12/2011 8:07:17 AM   
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Find another hobby.

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RE: Assignments? - 9/12/2011 8:10:36 AM   
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Legos.

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RE: Assignments? - 9/12/2011 12:57:07 PM   
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MissEvilT,some suggestions for assignments to a male to show your control and his committment might include

having to wear no underwear for the day
put "bobby pins" on his nipples and keep on for a set time
requiring him to sit to pee at all times
have him masturbate for a set time such as 3-4 mnutes with no orgasm allowed

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RE: Assignments? - 9/12/2011 2:12:30 PM   
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I'd have him sit alone in a room in the dark, humiliated by the fact that he was such a worthless P.O.S. that he can't even get an original domme.

This. ^^^^
I'm a beginner Domme, and even I can think up my own assignments.

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RE: Assignments? - 9/12/2011 3:58:36 PM   
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Have him clean the bathroom, scrubbing the floor with a toothbrush. Good practice for when he has his own place.

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RE: Assignments? - 9/12/2011 6:43:10 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: MissEvilT

I am in need of some ideas for easy assignments given some very strict settings. Assuming that you can not have any 'traditional' toys around, and that it has to be quiet...are there any suggestions on tasks he can do. I also am sending him a package so any 'nonchalant' items would be helpful too. I have been giving hiim small assignments and he has been more than willing to do more but I am running out of ideas given the strict scenari. I am defiantely not used to having my pets so unattainable to me and I have several weeks before he can be before me.

Help!


A hint about the boards here...don't actually ask any questions that might lead to discussion about....you know....sex. Sharing ideas about what has been fun or worked in the past for others is frowned upon and will likely label you incompetent and unimaginative. We don't like our conversation to be too titillating. You'd best try that kind of discussion on a kink site.....oh.. wait....

Being a female sub, that's the best I can offer you. I'd have no idea what to do with a male sub. The only way I know to work those things is with my mouth. :)

(I'm feeling spunky tonight!)

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RE: Assignments? - 9/12/2011 7:26:08 PM   
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What would YOU want from someone in your care? I mean you are the domme right? Are you the one who is in charge?

If you don't know what you want from life and from someone, how will anyone else know?


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RE: Assignments? - 9/23/2011 6:39:19 PM   
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Hello,

I find one of the best assignments to start out with is to do something to serve Me. This shows the sub's ability to obey commands, willingness to submit, and devotion. One would be to strip, kneel, and bow down to Me, or to My image. Always a good one to begin with. I follow up with small tasks from there, seeing how the sub responds.

Hope this helps.

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RE: Assignments? - 9/23/2011 7:04:11 PM   
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Yet another ad for idiocy. You couldnt suggest the sub volunteers at a homeless shelter for 3 hours.
It all has to be about your dick!!

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RE: Assignments? - 9/23/2011 7:56:10 PM   
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ORIGINAL: frazzle

Yet another ad for idiocy. You couldnt suggest the sub volunteers at a homeless shelter for 3 hours.
It all has to be about your dick!!

Umm, frazzle..... She is a Mistress according to her FEMALE Dominant profile, therefore NO DICK.

~Hisprettybaby~

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RE: Assignments? - 9/23/2011 8:28:47 PM   
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Hisprettybaby,

Respectfully, I think Frazzle is suggesting there must be more meanignful tasks to assign than having the male submissive "get naked".  (i.e. Having the sub think with his mind rather than his cock.)

E.

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RE: Assignments? - 9/23/2011 9:57:59 PM   
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No twue sub is going to put up with assignments that don't involve his dick, a strap-on or both.

Edited because I ain't got me no good grammer skillz

< Message edited by xxblushesxx -- 9/23/2011 9:59:16 PM >


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RE: Assignments? - 9/24/2011 6:08:32 AM   
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If you can't do your own thinking... then you should probably get out of this. None of us know you or the other person at all.. how the hell should we know?

Ultimately, I'd have him do something that worked for me... not him -- whether that is something directly for me, or in service to me but helping someone else, is up to you. but you need to actually do your work on it. Take a little time to think with your brain.

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RE: Assignments? - 9/25/2011 8:08:33 AM   
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Damn hard on her. What happened to sharing thoughts

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RE: Assignments? - 9/25/2011 5:03:23 PM   
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why are so many people regardless of orientation, so hostile? it was a simple question asking for suggestions and the Lady was attacked as if She was seeking a forbidden goal. if you disagree with a person why not be at least civilized about it. would that hurt so much.

i realize i will be attacked for my suggestions but i guess i will have to expect it given my orientation.

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RE: Assignments? - 9/26/2011 12:25:49 PM   
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the above ideas , a homeless shelter would be great if the man in your life has a social conscience if he doesnt even better, MAKE HIM, other than that for mere humiliation, punishment lines, writing out same sentence over and over X number of hundred/thousand times
kevin

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RE: Assignments? - 9/26/2011 2:40:38 PM   
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20.000 words: String Theory

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