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never heard this before. - 5/21/2006 9:54:19 PM

mslave2bcollared

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what does poly mean????
Being poly is a requirement.

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RE: never heard this before. - 5/21/2006 9:59:53 PM

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means you must be willing toserve a Mistress or Master that has other subbies or slave is likea family so if your a one on One type might not be aGOOD IDEA tro acept poly and jsut becAUSE you join apoly grouop dontmen your going to get toplat with the others ive seen Mistress whorequired poly and the males must be bi so it all depednson what seek
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RE: never heard this before. - 5/21/2006 10:07:33 PM

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Ok, thanks boundslaveusmc.

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RE: never heard this before. - 5/21/2006 10:09:56 PM

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Don't listen to him, he's screwin' with you. It actually means polymorphism. You know, shape shifters. If you ain't one, don't even bother applying.

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RE: never heard this before. - 5/21/2006 10:21:11 PM

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well all i know is the profile that i saw that in i read that the sub had to be bi and that She had other subs, so the person had to be willing to play with them too

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RE: never heard this before. - 5/22/2006 12:07:47 AM

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They're both lying to you. Its short for polyester, lol.

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RE: never heard this before. - 5/22/2006 1:54:21 AM

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LOL. You all are so cruel!! Remember that board game MonoPOLY?? mono = one. poly = many. Latin lesson for the day

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RE: never heard this before. - 5/22/2006 7:15:52 AM

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lol.
They are screwing with you.
Poly means more than one. There are tons of different types of poly households/relationships. It might mean more subs, more Doms, more play partners, or just more people. Some poly people aren't even into BDSM, but hang out with the BDSM 'community' because their lifestyle is more accepted here than in the vanilla world.
Collarme has a forum for poly. If you are curious about it or thinking about joining a poly situation, I'd suggest taking some time to browse around in that forum and ask questions.

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RE: never heard this before. - 5/22/2006 8:02:52 AM

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laughing......ya'all are just purely evil! (which of course I love) Thank goodness Proprietrix finally answered the poor boys question...........still laughing

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RE: never heard this before. - 5/22/2006 8:12:02 AM

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quote:

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what does poly mean????
Being poly is a requirement.

To me, it would mean that you will not expect the other person to be monogamous.

It may also mean that you will be expected to have multiple sexual or initimate partners -- I don't personally require this part from anyone.

I am poly. Someone wants to be with me they have to except that -- heck, I have a husband and a slave so a person would be deaf, dumb and blind to think I'd be monogamous with them. But if they have no interest in being intimate sexually with anyone but me, I'm not going to force them.

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RE: never heard this before. - 5/22/2006 8:16:09 AM

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ORIGINAL: mslave2bcollared

well all i know is the profile that i saw that in i read that the sub had to be bi and that She had other subs, so the person had to be willing to play with them too

I'd say this was beyond just being poly -- its also about being bisexual too and being open to having sexual relationships under that direction of the dominant.

Sounds like me! Ideally I want someone who can enjoy bottoming to Fox and whose willing to learn enough about bondage to top him occasionally because I think he deserves it for his years of good service. I would also adore a female slave who could be a service top for my husband in terms of some of his fetishes that are difficult for me. In other words, adding onto my household is about more than just me (though it is about me first and foremost) because it has to work for the entire household.

Your best bet is to ask the person who has the profile in question.

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RE: never heard this before. - 5/22/2006 8:42:04 AM

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Tammy I meant to ask you about this before. Are your slaves free to have relationships with other people? How does that work exactly?

I definately think I am poly, however when I have a slave he/she is property and belong only to me. I belong to no one. Now I may share or we will all get involved in something but its always my choice.

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RE: never heard this before. - 5/22/2006 6:42:33 PM

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ORIGINAL: mslave2bcollared

what does poly mean????
Being poly is a requirement.

poly as in polywrap (Saran Wrap) you would have to wear saranwrap at all times.

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RE: never heard this before. - 5/22/2006 6:50:33 PM

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Tammy I meant to ask you about this before. Are your slaves free to have relationships with other people? How does that work exactly?

I definately think I am poly, however when I have a slave he/she is property and belong only to me. I belong to no one. Now I may share or we will all get involved in something but its always my choice.

Since I am poly I do not believe it would be ethically or morally right for me to demand that someone else be monogamous to.

However, if I own someone then I get veto power over any other relationship they have be it sexual or just SM or bondage. I require that I meet potential other and ask them questions, feel them out, make our sexual limits clear -- no exchanging body fluids of any type is the biggest one.

I have never vetoed someone that Fox has approached me about but then he's only interested in fetish play or bondage play with others, he considers himself monogamous.

Now, Tom and I have similar rules. We need to meet each other potential but because we have a primarily egalitarian relationship (as much as our innate personalities allow) we don't have veto power but we have strong input. I also like to get input from Fox. I have learned to listen to my men because when I don't, generally the person in questions turns out poorly.

I would apply these same rules to any slave I owned. I'd want the same rules I have with Tom applied to any sexual relationship I had with a submissive or a bottom (if I'd even have a sexual relationship with them).

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RE: never heard this before. - 5/23/2006 3:16:55 AM

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There's lot of reading on the subject of poly on the poly boards here.

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RE: never heard this before. - 5/24/2006 4:08:33 PM

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this is in reply to all who are messin with me ..glad i did not get confused through all this...
well all have some twisted sense of humor... but oh well i guess it is better that way
i love twisted sense of humor

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RE: never heard this before. - 5/24/2006 4:47:12 PM

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it's a good thing you have a sense of humor

Yes some of the posts were messing with your head, some of the post were genuine so don't throw the baby out with the bath water ok? It shows that what you posted first "what is poly"[edited by me] and then your next posting explaining about a profile you read and what it stated, gave everyone more info. One lesson in how to post...or how much info to post so you will get a proper answer.

I won't go over what the other Ladies stated about poly as they covered it well. What you need to consider is whether or not something like this would appeal to you. I have had a poly household, but no one had sex together. I had one bi female, one lesbian boi, CD het male, and a trans m-f who hasn't started transitioning. The bi and the boi asked permission to see each other and possibly have a sexual relationship. I don't require anyone to be bi, but it's nice when it happens

I only expect other submissives to accept the fact that I might play with one or more while the others are present, but it doesn't mean they will play with one another.

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ORIGINAL: mslave2bcollared

this is in reply to all who are messin with me ..glad i did not get confused through all this...
well all have some twisted sense of humor... but oh well i guess it is better that way
i love twisted sense of humor

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RE: never heard this before. - 5/24/2006 7:58:13 PM

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it's a good thing you have a sense of humor Yes some of the posts were messing with your head, some of the post were genuine so don't throw the baby out with the bath water ok? It shows that what you posted first "what is poly"[edited by me] and then your next posting explaining about a profile you read and what it stated, gave everyone more info. One lesson in how to post...or how much info to post so you will get a proper answer.

I won't go over what the other Ladies stated about poly as they covered it well. What you need to consider is whether or not something like this would appeal to you. I have had a poly household, but no one had sex together. I had one bi female, one lesbian boi, CD het male, and a trans m-f who hasn't started transitioning. The bi and the boi asked permission to see each other and possibly have a sexual relationship. I don't require anyone to be bi, but it's nice when it happens I only expect other submissives to accept the fact that I might play with one or more while the others are present, but it doesn't mean they will play with one another.

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ORIGINAL: mslave2bcollared

i take all the good things and i do my best to take all the bad things(jokes and all) and i sort it all out.Although i do not always think before i react., but i am working on that and i have came a long ways on that.
True i could hae worded that frist post a little bit better, but that was a after thought.
Thanks for the advice.
And for E/everyone else thanks for Y/your help.

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RE: never heard this before. - 5/24/2006 8:19:31 PM

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I am poly. Someone wants to be with me they have to except that -- heck, I have a husband and a slave so a person would be deaf, dumb and blind to think I'd be monogamous with them. But if they have no interest in being intimate sexually with anyone but me, I'm not going to force them.

That's not poly that's freakin lucky.