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I was afraid that I may have been coming off too aggressive, but I thought that I might be able to weed through some of the trolls by doing that! 

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ORIGINAL: kimmysue

 OK... so my subject line may attract "less than desirable" characters.  While i may be new to this site, doesn't mean that i am naive.  While i am submissive, that does not equal stupid or desperate.  So any "self proclaimed" Dom's out there that think that i am some kind of fool, please think again.  i am FAR from a mindless robot.  i've had my fair share of "online players" that are just seeking some cheap thrill online, that is NOT what i seek.  i seek something real, long term & not far from my home.  i do not wish to relocate, my family & friends are here. 

So on to the local "Doms", i don't mean any disrespect to Doms that are "real" or truly into the full aspect of BDSM.  Soooooooo... for the locals looking for an "in person" cheap thrill... it's not going to happen.  As i said above, submission does not mean desperate.  i have the right to be selective; regardless of how i look or anything else.  Upon meeting a Dom, it will be in a public place, after getting to know each other online.  i do NOT serve or submit on the first meeting.  Just as a sub has to earn her Dom's admiration, He must also earn the sub's gift.

i guess all of that makes me sound pretty bitchy....really, i am not.  i am a loving, obedient & adoring subbie for the right "One."  i truly want to "belong" to someone, take care of him & our family.  i have 3 kids (teenagers...omg, why couldn't they stay little?  lol) & if He has kids, that's great too!  It's just that i am sick of people playing games with me & thinking that submissive means stupid.  i have pretty good instincts & have learned to look before i leap. 

LOL, if anyone that is REAL is still interested after all of that yammering on, feel free to mail me!  lol