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Termyn8or -> RE: Collarme In The News (8/11/2011 11:08:25 AM)

FR

Well at least a couple of people are thinking about it now.

Still a long way to go. Course I had an attitude back there but y'know, it is time. There have been stigma(S) ??? attached to anyone who is different throughout time, and we all know the time has come for change. The only way is to get public about it.

We are all forced to accept those we may dislike or disagree with in society, DAMMIT, now it's our turn.

To start, maybe we should get public, start a movement of sorts against harm done with this shit. Those who do bad things - start publicly advocating their persecution, castration, disembowelment, whatever. There is a line you do not cross.

Some may say that negative publicity is better than no publicity at all, but I don't think so. It's time to do something.

T^T



0ldhen -> RE: Collarme In The News (8/12/2011 7:39:18 AM)



Hey....I posted yer comment...not even a thank you....thhhpppttttt.........



Termyn8or -> RE: Collarme In The News (8/12/2011 7:51:14 AM)

Thanks !

Sorry I just have no manners. Ask anyone.

T^T



HannahLynHeather -> RE: Collarme In The News (8/12/2011 8:22:57 AM)


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ORIGINAL: WyldHrt

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# 2 on that list, please.
I'll take the #3 slot, then.

#4.



MileHighM -> RE: Collarme In The News (8/12/2011 8:57:04 AM)

While I agree, in principle, with your argument, I don't want to go the way of the gay community. I prefer the lifestyle to be somewhat secretive. Sure I don't like the stigma attached to it, and I am not ashamed of who I am, and people need to be a little less judgemental. However, I think things will be worse out in the open versus in dungeon.

At the end of the day, the gay community fought for acceptance in the vanilla world in a vanilla way. If the BDSM community ends up out in the open, I imagine it will end up right back in the dungeon quick. It is bad enough there are assholes out there who pretend to be in the community and use it as an excuse to beat up and/rape women. If we get full scale acceptance, we may protect ourselves form certain scrutinies, but end up losing protection under vanilla laws (give some sick sheister the oportunity to drag some girl through the mud debating the meaning of 'no').

This is also going to bring undue heat on poly's. I think it is highly unreasonable to think that anyone is going legalize poly marriages. We will become the new ire of bible thumping fucktards, and some cocksucker (like that mormon prick in texas) is going to use our lifestyle as an excuse to do something sick, and we are going to take all the heat for it.

I have yet to see the God brigade out protesting in front of a swingers club or BDSM club here in Colorado, and I don't want to start seeing it regularly (and we are so close to focus on the family and the rest of the Godtards in CO springs).

Finally, I don't think the average vanilla will ever understand the SM aspect of the lifestyle. I think it is something fundemental to who you are. I don't really see the lifestyle as a choice, but who I am. Everything I do or people do with me is a choice, but I can't imagine living the rest of my life as a vanilla. I would suspect my wife agrees with me too ;). Besides, I like the excitement of the secrecy. It makes it more deviant. It plays more into some of the humilating aspects of play.

Those are just my thoughts, but feel free to do what you want, that's ultimately what the lifestyle is all about. ;)



LinnaeaBorealis -> RE: Collarme In The News (8/12/2011 5:51:40 PM)

Back in the late 80's I went on the Jerry Springer show, when he was a kinder, gentler Jerry. None of the crap he has on there now. He had come to San Francisco & had a show about the Lesbian sex club that was up & running at the time. We met in the boys' sex club one Friday night a month & Kitaka was asked to do the show, or she asked to be on it, I forget which, & asked me to come on also. I worked & played at the club. If it was a show like that, I'd be doing it in a heartbeat. But I don't see what doing a show like he has now would do to help our cause.

It would be nice to not be worried about being discriminated against for wiitwd, but I'm not sure I'll see that in my lifetime. In the meantime, I'll just keep being me, out wherever I feel like being out & doing what I want to do.



Termyn8or -> RE: Collarme In The News (8/12/2011 6:12:17 PM)

I have interrupted reading this post, so developments might be beyond me.

"While I agree, in principle, with your argument, I don't want to go the way of the gay community. "

You sure that you know what that is ? You see fags were seen as weak in the old days, but then they started working out. They got through. I saw it happen, and I knew fagbashers. Dudes who would beat up people just for being a fag, and then some of them going home to watch some girl on girl porn. You think this was OK ? Not me.

In this area the fags got tough, and started beating the shit out of their would be oppressors. This is the way of the world. The winner gets an audience, and sometimes that is enough. Women did not get the vote in this country by ASKING FOR IT. (oh pleeze let us vote) What are you crazy ? In fact other countries preceeded the US in Women's suffrage.

Fags are born that way and so are we. In fact you could be the hottest babe on the fucking planet and if you ain't at least wearing handcuffs I won't get a hardon. I am not kidding. But I don't want you there unless you want to be there.

But it is our time. In fact you tell me, is it our time to assert ourselves now or not ?

I await the answer, from everyone.

T^T



Syrox -> RE: Collarme In The News (8/12/2011 6:48:38 PM)

it's pretty simple. Don't put anything on line with connecting info that you wouldn't be happy to take out a full page ad in the national press to say.

if you want to be private about it. then keep your kink life centered around one internet based Email account with no personla info in the profile, and keep your pictures unidentifiable by anyone who knows you.

common sense that seems to be lacking.

And yes you can look at my profile and see that I am open about it. thing is I don't actually GIVE a fuck, I have nothing to lose by people knowing. but if you are in a job like that then sadly for the sake of those you work with you have to be more discreet.

Sure it pisses the meat heads off who are only interested in titty pics but who the fuck cares about them anyway?



Termyn8or -> RE: Collarme In The News (8/12/2011 6:59:09 PM)

Then SAY IT. Put out, everywhere. What you just said, whatever, make that much public.

See. you can't without numbers.

T^T



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