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SneakerWorship -> RE: learning about your sub/slave (7/25/2011 10:35:08 PM)
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I initially got into BDSM as a sub. My Dom was a roommate of a friend and we had great sexual chemistry. But after a year of "training" he was clueless about me and our relationship had no where to go.
If you aren't going to have a dynamic relationship with a person and make connections with them on many levels, it can only keep the relationship on superficial grounds. If people don't grow together, they grow apart.
I think that learning about subs have negative connotations, but honestly true collaring is a process which is founded in knowing and understanding the thought processes of your sub. From ordering their favorite foods to manipulating them to breaking down their limits -- a holistic approach results in better dominance.
Warmest Regards,
Holly
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