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bighappygoth39 -> RE: Training vs being owned (7/25/2011 9:55:46 AM)
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The whole concept of training outside of a committed relationship is pretty alien to me, tbh. When I first decided I wanted to find out exactly what I enjoyed, I just met people I'd got to know and like and had play sessions with them. Some wanted to take it further, but I had to make it clear I didn't want anything other than to gain experience and find out exactly what I enjoyed or disliked.
When I did decide what I wanted, I set out to find someone who I could have a committed D/s relationship with, and when I finally found him, I set out to train him within our relationship, to my personal needs, wants and desires. Everyone has different ones, so I can't see how someone 'training' you will be beneficial to a future dominant, as they might have different requirements. It does sound like you're just his plaything, and he has no intention of any sort of long term relationship, and now you are developing feelings for him, it could be very harmful to any future relationships for you when he has finished 'training' you.
I apologise if all of this has already been said, and I sincerely hope you can find your way. :)
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