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Kaliko -> RE: do you read it old style (7/16/2011 9:52:45 AM)
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ORIGINAL: LinnaeaBorealis quote:
ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze quote:
ORIGINAL: LinnaeaBorealis I do my best to avoid all forms of news media. I have found that I'm much happier since I stopped knowing about all the negative shit. Every now & again something crosses my path, but I don't go seeking it out. I like to be informed what goes on in the world, as it often has a direct impact on my work, working for a company that deals internationally, not being informed about current events can be lethal, plus while I am aware that the world is far from perfect, I prefer to know what kind of shit I am dealing with, not knowing seems to me a bit like ostrich policy. It's my choice how much I let it affect me and pretty often something that is really depressing has inspired me to say sod it, no going out this weekend, there's serious shit happening in the world, blowing a few hundred on a nice night or weekend in a big city is great fun, but if I read about kids starving, I feel like shit if I do it, so my excuse or escape is to give that money to a respected charity that deals with the particular problem, feel a lot better about it and I can enjoy the next weekend out, plus while I stay in I usually get stir crazy and pick up a quick freelance job. Now of course that is a shallow way of pacifying my own guilty feelings, but you know, somebody who's struggling for survival might welcome £300 to £500 - and I don't think they are too concerned about the motivation of the person who gave them food or a roof. Would I be a truly good person, I'd possibly give away anything but the bare minimum I need to live, but I'm not, I'm aware of that, but sod it, at least I am doing a little bit instead of just ignoring it all, it makes me feel better, it possibly helps somebody, win win. Believe me, I've tried to keep abreast of the news. I'm happy that you have the choice of how it affects you. Right here we're talking about life & death to me & I'm seriously not being dramatic. It's in the hard-wiring, I guess. I discovered that I cannot survive if I let that shit into my brain. I'm happy that you & all the rest of the people who can, can do it. I cannot. Call me ostrich, call me whatever. I need to survive. And, believe it or not, I'm ok being me & I'm ok with you being you. I am similar. I like to read about the local news - and I mean very local - but if I watch or read about any real hard news, I find it hard to get out of my head and my heart. I tend to carry it with me, and have been known to spontaneously cry in the lunchroom due to a story I read that morning about a fire and the like. It's just plain old easier for me to survive without all of that running around in my head all the time.
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