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sexyred1 -> RE: s/M Question to all... (6/3/2011 2:58:09 PM)
And on the opposite side, blow jobs can come before during or after. We are so cooperative around here, aren't we? [;)]

DeviantMan -> RE: s/M Question to all... (6/3/2011 3:01:44 PM)
during can be dangerous... I mean... if I lose control and hit too hard, there is a good chance I get an instant sex-change operation right there, as she will bite through, out of the pain instinctive reactions

Muttling -> RE: s/M Question to all... (6/3/2011 3:15:17 PM)
Just tell her not to swallow and they can sew it back on. Then you'll have some serious bragging rights.

mnottertail -> RE: s/M Question to all... (6/3/2011 3:17:31 PM)
Bobbittry is the new other white meat.

VaguelyCurious -> RE: s/M Question to all... (6/3/2011 3:19:39 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DeviantMan during can be dangerous... I mean... if I lose control and hit too hard, there is a good chance I get an instant sex-change operation right there, as she will bite through, out of the pain instinctive reactions Ring/spider gag. Job done.

DeviantMan -> RE: s/M Question to all... (6/3/2011 4:39:07 PM)
Vaguely... Vaguely.... it's a man you are talking to... we guys are known to turn too adventurous when it comes to blowjobs.... :P

littlewonder -> RE: s/M Question to all... (6/3/2011 4:45:39 PM)
my tolerance varies for many different reasons..... When we haven't played in a long time I can't take much pain at all. When I'm stressed I'm opposite than most here it seems. I actually find my tolerance is less. I can't relax because there's too much going on in my life and the play just feels like an added stress to me. When I gain weight I actually can take more pain because ahem...more padding but I think I'll take weighing less over being more tolerant lol And then there's time of the month, medications, how much sleep I've had. It just all swings wildly in any direction constantly.

ResidentSadist -> RE: s/M Question to all... (6/3/2011 5:19:04 PM)
Sounds like you, sexyred1 and few others are talking about endorphin production "during exercise, excitement, pain, consumption of spicy food, love and orgasm." The more worked up and turned on you are, the more passionate you get, more endorphins are produced/released. Endorphins (endogenous morphine) are an analgesic, a pain killer. So, pain tolerance and passion levels are directly related in this manner.

Muttling -> RE: s/M Question to all... (6/3/2011 5:35:03 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: littlewonder When I'm stressed I'm opposite than most here it seems. I actually find my tolerance is less. I can't relax because there's too much going on in my life and the play just feels like an added stress to me. You're not alone. I spoke about this last night with the playmate I'm discussing as she is sub to others. She responds just as you, she has a lower tolerance when she is stressed.

SailingBum -> RE: s/M Question to all... (6/3/2011 7:58:04 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DeviantMan What do you mean "the blowjob stays"??? The blowjob comes AFTER the spanking... never before. Dunno bout you but I get my knob polishes whenever I want it. BadOne

MasterSlaveLA -> RE: s/M Question to all... (6/3/2011 9:16:08 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Muttling Currently I'm in a mode where I'm a lot more sensitive to pain than I can ever remember being. Drink more alcohol. [;)][:D]

OwnedFemaleFlesh -> RE: s/M Question to all... (6/5/2011 1:51:40 AM)
I think new Tops / sadists / Doms are often lacking in the physical handling skills that we take for granted from experienced Doms to begin with. They can learn how to cane, but they don't have the experience to know how to make each stroke feel good, yet. When I first started playing with my Owner, I could barely take 10 strokes of the cane from him, despite being an experienced masochist - now I can take hundreds because he knows how to give them. I would argue that your lower pain threshold is coming from their inexperience rather than anything internal to you. owned xxx

DeviantlyD -> RE: s/M Question to all... (6/5/2011 2:50:25 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael size of last gift of jewelry, etc. I do hope you were just being facetious with that last bit of your comment. Edited to add: I'll be better able to answer the OP's question the next time I myself under the hands of a sadist - if it ever happens again. As others have stated on here, there are a lot of variables involved and the context of the pain is a factor as well. Personally I'm always amazed at what I have tolerated or what ends up appealing to me (or not appealing as the case may be). Take the other week, for example. I was eating some fruit and accidentally cut my tongue with the knife, as I had been using it to spear the fruit and then put it in my mouth. (It was one of those ceramic knives...they just don't look real!) The cut was a light one, but it felt...very erotic! Which was a huge surprise to me because I've never been attracted to knife play. Go figure. P.S. to OP: I love your avatar. LOL

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