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MsKyln -> RE: At what point is it ok to start expressing your role? (5/15/2006 11:45:49 AM)
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Hello everyone;
I’m not great at board postings, however I’d like to throw my two cents (oops inflation) Five Cents worth into the ring and offer my definition of “consideration”.
For me to consider someone and have that person consider me as a potential D/s Life Partner is no different that in a vanilla setting where two people agree to date exclusively until a decision has been made regarding their future, if in fact there is to be one.
It does not give the Domme any more rights over the potential sub/slave than previously agreed. Being a Domme doesn’t come with a license to abuse a situation or take advantage of someone who isn’t knowledgeable about a D/s Power Exchange.
Perhaps the best thing a potential sub/slave can do is ask the potential Domme when further clarification is necessary.
Speaking for myself, this is something that is discussed in-depth prior to the offer .
Further, I use a 4 stage system prior to making a full commitment to a sub/slave. ( Only got to number 4 twice )
1. Being under consideration (as explained above)
2. A consideration collar ( simply means more in depth one on one time spent with each other within the D/s power exchange.
3. A training collar ( training / teaching the sub/slave what I expect, allowing him/her to interact on a daily basis … paying close attention to actions, attitude and intentions within the guidelines set )
4. A collar of ownership ( A full consensual understanding and agreement has been reached, and the decision to become life partners with a full D/s Power Exchange relationship.
Of course that’s a brief outline, but hey … I’m only offering Five Cents here LOL
Ms. Kat
I live in my own little world, but it’s ok… Everybody knows me here [;)]
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