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LadyMorgynn -> Training Weekend (5/12/2006 8:20:14 AM)
I have a novice slave coming for a long weekend to experience what 24/7 would be like. No, he's not "My" slave, as we have decided that we don't suit each other as far as what we are looking for in 24/7, but he'd like to experience it, and I've agreed to train him. At first I was a bit doubtful, to be honest. I tend to not like to even play with any sub not Mine, in whom I do not have some kind of personal investment, but as the weekend draws nearer, I find I'm getting quite excited about it, and coming up with some really interesting ideas for what I can do with him. He's about to have a knee replacement, so he can't be on his knees, so scrubbing the kitchen floors and cleaning out the cupboards under the kitchen and bathroom sinks is out. However, my mom has a carpet steam cleaner, so I'll borrow that and have him steam clean the carpets just before we go to the dungeon on Saturday evening, so they can start to dry while we're gone. At the dungeon there is a big throne with a dias for slaves, so he can sit, not kneel, at My feet when we are watching scenes on the Cross. I'm thinking of throwing a Sunday Brunch and Pedicure Party for a few of my friends... he can cook and serve breakfast, then give everyone foot massages and pedicures. I'll have to find some kind of stool or something for him to sit on but still be rather low to the floor, since he can't kneel. I've got some other ideas, and am going to start making a list and begin working out a rough outline for the weekend. I'm trying to strike a balance between activities that he will enjoy (in a painful or humiliating way), and non-fun things, not necessarily work, but sometimes just waiting... and waiting... as well as just regular vanilla activities with a D/s flavor. Enough so that he can really experience that it is not 24/7 fun and games but that this is Real Life. All that, in 4 days. Yikes! Oh... AND I've never done this before <grin> In fact, that's why I agreed to let him come. It's going to be a learning experience for us both!

becca333 -> RE: Training Weekend (5/12/2006 8:28:28 AM)
Sounds like you'll both have a brilliant time!

MHOO314 -> RE: Training Weekend (5/12/2006 8:39:55 AM)
Morgynn, I am so excited for you---one thing I always do is start with a whipping or spanking--(you can do this clothed or otherwise)--BUT I like it to get their focus right where it needs to be--and a tender butt for the weekend is a nice reminder. Keep us posted.

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Training Weekend (5/12/2006 8:48:19 AM)
For me, 24/7 is nothing like a training weekend. 24/7 to me is getting take out Friday night so we don't have to do dishes or cook, maybe go out to a movie, come back, do some play. Wake up late Saturday, go do errands like get some groceries, put in a load of laundry, check out a new restaurant for lunch. Then either go to a party that night or hang out at home and chilld. Sunday, wake up late again, go hang out with the family for a little bit, watch TV, get ready for Monday morning and then hit the bed. 24/7 life is pretty boring, with obviously lots of fun and kink inside. But very different from a living together 24/7 weekend for me. But then I do the cleaning chores and stuff mostly during the week. But it sounds great for a focused service/usage training weekend.

LadyMorgynn -> RE: Training Weekend (5/12/2006 9:03:33 AM)
Exactly. And I'll be incorporating plenty of the mundane stuff. I'm trying to make his 2 full days, Saturday and Sunday, into an actual slice of 24/7 reality, not 2 days of fun BDSM fantasy. I might not have My 24/7 slave steam clean the carpets every week <g>, but I will certainly be having weekly Pedicure Parties, and we would certainly go to the dungeon almost every Saturday evening. This is going to be as close to what it will really be like (as My slave, anyway) as I can make it. Including the hours that I have to work on Saturday morning. quote: ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross 24/7 life is pretty boring, with obviously lots of fun and kink inside.

HarryVanWinkle -> RE: Training Weekend (5/12/2006 9:07:55 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross For me, 24/7 is nothing like a training weekend. 24/7 to me is getting take out Friday night so we don't have to do dishes or cook, maybe go out to a movie, come back, do some play. Wake up late Saturday, go do errands like get some groceries, put in a load of laundry, check out a new restaurant for lunch. Then either go to a party that night or hang out at home and chilld. Sunday, wake up late again, go hang out with the family for a little bit, watch TV, get ready for Monday morning and then hit the bed. 24/7 life is pretty boring, with obviously lots of fun and kink inside. But very different from a living together 24/7 weekend for me. But then I do the cleaning chores and stuff mostly during the week. But it sounds great for a focused service/usage training weekend. In other words, you're saying 27/7 life is real life with a little extra spice.

LadyMorgynn -> RE: Training Weekend (5/12/2006 9:22:23 AM)
That's just what it is. REAL LIFE with a D/s twist :) quote: ORIGINAL: HarryVanWinkle In other words, you're saying 27/7 life is real life with a little extra spice.

FelinePersuasion -> RE: Training Weekend (5/12/2006 1:22:06 PM)
sure he can still clean the floors and the cupbards, have him sit on his ass and scoot about. quote: ORIGINAL: LadyMorgynn I have a novice slave coming for a long weekend to experience what 24/7 would be like. No, he's not "My" slave, as we have decided that we don't suit each other as far as what we are looking for in 24/7, but he'd like to experience it, and I've agreed to train him. At first I was a bit doubtful, to be honest. I tend to not like to even play with any sub not Mine, in whom I do not have some kind of personal investment, but as the weekend draws nearer, I find I'm getting quite excited about it, and coming up with some really interesting ideas for what I can do with him. He's about to have a knee replacement, so he can't be on his knees, so scrubbing the kitchen floors and cleaning out the cupboards under the kitchen and bathroom sinks is out. However, my mom has a carpet steam cleaner, so I'll borrow that and have him steam clean the carpets just before we go to the dungeon on Saturday evening, so they can start to dry while we're gone. At the dungeon there is a big throne with a dias for slaves, so he can sit, not kneel, at My feet when we are watching scenes on the Cross. I'm thinking of throwing a Sunday Brunch and Pedicure Party for a few of my friends... he can cook and serve breakfast, then give everyone foot massages and pedicures. I'll have to find some kind of stool or something for him to sit on but still be rather low to the floor, since he can't kneel. I've got some other ideas, and am going to start making a list and begin working out a rough outline for the weekend. I'm trying to strike a balance between activities that he will enjoy (in a painful or humiliating way), and non-fun things, not necessarily work, but sometimes just waiting... and waiting... as well as just regular vanilla activities with a D/s flavor. Enough so that he can really experience that it is not 24/7 fun and games but that this is Real Life. All that, in 4 days. Yikes! Oh... AND I've never done this before <grin> In fact, that's why I agreed to let him come. It's going to be a learning experience for us both!

theRose4U -> RE: Training Weekend (5/12/2006 1:49:12 PM)
quote: sure he can still clean the floors and the cupbards, have him sit on his ass and scoot about. There is actually a very nice garden stool that I have you're only about 18 inches from the ground but don't have to be on your knees for things like weeding...my boys don't touch my precious veggie garden.

ImpGrrl -> RE: Training Weekend (5/13/2006 1:09:26 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: HarryVanWinkle In other words, you're saying 27/7 life is real life with a little extra spice. No, it's just real life. The "extra spice" is part of that "real life".

TallDarkAndWitty -> RE: Training Weekend (5/13/2006 5:58:24 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyMorgynn I'm trying to make his 2 full days, Saturday and Sunday, into an actual slice of 24/7 reality, not 2 days of fun BDSM fantasy. Why??? BDSM fantasy weekends are much much much more fun than 24/7 (a.k.a.: real life). With a BDSM fantasy weekend, you both tend to have the energy and stamina and excitement to really let loose. I think of training weekends like vacations. I have so much more energy on vacation, and even the mundane things (like going to the grocery store) are more interesting. There is plenty of time to get back to real life...enjoy those special weekends and don't try to make them like 24/7 (a.k.a.: everyday). Taggard

mastrscait -> RE: Training Weekend (5/13/2006 6:13:01 PM)
So may i ask where you picked up this wonderful garden stool? my Master has started training a male sub and he has had several knee surgeries and is not able to kneel. This one desires humiliation and my Master can be very giving of it. Master also prefers this male be put in his proper place without adding possible injury to his knees. This sounds like a great addition to be made!

mastrscait -> RE: Training Weekend (5/13/2006 6:18:58 PM)
i agree, i get to spend so little real time with my Master, to have a full weekend where we could devote time to nothing but BDSM would be the best vacation i could ever have!!! Take time to enjoy the opportunity that has been given. Besides if he gets the chance to explore things, he will want to come back and then You can have him clean the cupboards lol

LadyMorgynn -> RE: Training Weekend (5/13/2006 10:44:18 PM)
For a very good reason... he has never been a 24/7 slave before, and he thinks he wants to be. As I see it, it is better for him to experience a couple days of it at least.... 'cause if he can't take 2 days of 24/7, it's better that he find out now, than after he's arrived at some Mistress' home for a supposedly long-term arrangement. quote: ORIGINAL: TallDarkAndWitty quote: ORIGINAL: LadyMorgynn I'm trying to make his 2 full days, Saturday and Sunday, into an actual slice of 24/7 reality, not 2 days of fun BDSM fantasy. Why??? BDSM fantasy weekends are much much much more fun than 24/7 (a.k.a.: real life). With a BDSM fantasy weekend, you both tend to have the energy and stamina and excitement to really let loose. I think of training weekends like vacations. I have so much more energy on vacation, and even the mundane things (like going to the grocery store) are more interesting. There is plenty of time to get back to real life...enjoy those special weekends and don't try to make them like 24/7 (a.k.a.: everyday). Taggard

LadyHugs -> RE: Training Weekend (5/13/2006 10:59:47 PM)
Dear LadyMorgynn, Ladies and Gentlemen; First, dear Lady--great to see you're getting excited. I'm so thrilled for you. I will also be busy at a Training Weekend myself but, this particular one will be for Masters (female and male) with ten participants. Second, I do relate to knee problems--Mine and theirs. I have used a chair like thing, on little wheels that mechanics use. It is not the "creeper" that is flat to go under cars but, the little stool on wheels when working on automobile wheels. Perfect for those who have lost their knees. I think they are similar to what another poster was saying about a garden stool on wheels. Many of my senior citizen slaves/submissive men, can't kneel much at all so, they are allowed to "informal present," much like a military parade rest. Sitting in regular chairs with a butt towel keeps in the spirit of those who can do things on the floor. This protocol is also practiced at MTTA. For scenes, I've used a bar stool without a back, or otherwise have them face the back of the bar stool and scoot their beehinds back. It exposes their buttocks as to flog, cane, spank, paddle and or whatever your clever mind has prepared. I've used this for so many women and men who can't stand very long. I am wondering, if you have approached any of those nail salons that are remodeling their shop/stores. These stools of theirs are wonderful and designed for exactly what you're doing. Some are tossed out. Medical stools? Ones in the office that doctors use to sit on as to examine with? Respectfully submitted, Lady Hugs

MsSonnetMarwood -> RE: Training Weekend (5/14/2006 5:05:40 AM)
quote: Why??? BDSM fantasy weekends are much much much more fun than 24/7 (a.k.a.: real life). With a BDSM fantasy weekend, you both tend to have the energy and stamina and excitement to really let loose. I think of training weekends like vacations. I have so much more energy on vacation, and even the mundane things (like going to the grocery store) are more interesting. There is plenty of time to get back to real life...enjoy those special weekends and don't try to make them like 24/7 (a.k.a.: everyday). Taggard Such a weekend would indeed be a blast - but the thing to remember is that they're not "involved" per se. I can appreciate the appeal of spending a weekend training someone knowing there's no ties beyond that other than friendship - hones my skills in training as much as his in being trained. However, I'd need far more of a connection to have the kind of weekend Taggard suggests than "casual friends" - intimacy isn't something I really turn on and off. Morgynnn, you may want to have a peek at my journal for an article I wrote called "Best Food Forward" that has some tips to "finesse" a pedicure. The sub in question might also want to put together a small gift bag for each Lady to include a nail file, bottle of nail polish (China Glaze's On Your Knees is always a favorite), a chocolate, and a flower, or something to that effect - nothing elaborate, but just as a little thank you to the ladies for helping him work on his skills. The "bench" for gardening is a great suggestion; you can also find small padded footstools relatively inexpensively - my current incarnation of this is covered in red brocade and cost about $25 at TJMaxx. I would suggest that you have him do a series of journal articles. Before he comes to you on Friday, have him write an initial one discussing his expectations and hopes, then have him write every evening about what he learned that day, what he's experiencing emotionally. Give him a few days to digest the weekend, then get together for coffee to discuss the weekend and journal entries. It will help him analyze things a little better.

LadyMorgynn -> RE: Training Weekend (5/14/2006 6:22:11 AM)
Thank you, MsSommet! These are indeed wonderful ideas, and I'm incorporating them into my plans. It's much appreciated!!! Since this is my first time experiencing 24/7 as well, I am happy for all the input I can get :) Not that I don't have a perfectly good (and wicked) imagination ;) but I'm never to proud to borrow ideas from others... or even steal 'em outright! LOL.

LadyMorgynn -> RE: Training Weekend (5/14/2006 6:42:46 AM)
Now there's a terrific idea! Thanks :) Those would be just perfect! Although I also like the idea of the footstool that Ms.Sonnet was talking about... still, I can always use them in different rooms and for different activities! I'm waiting to hear from the slave in question to tell me for sure if he is coming. It'll probably be the last weekend of the month, which coincides one of our dungeon's biggest play parties. quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHugs I am wondering, if you have approached any of those nail salons that are remodeling their shop/stores. These stools of theirs are wonderful and designed for exactly what you're doing. Some are tossed out.

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