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I'm just curious - 5/1/2011 12:31:03 PM   
Omniseed


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Status: offline 		Why does it seem like every single woman in my area is either a lesbian or otherwise totally disinterested in men?

Also why does "local users" seem to include people from the greater Boston area, when I live two or more hours away in a different state entirely?

Just wondering, seems like most of the women on here just don't want to hear from any dudes at all. Is it just my area, or is it like this for other people's locales as well?
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RE: I'm just curious - 5/1/2011 12:48:45 PM   
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RE: I'm just curious - 5/1/2011 12:51:40 PM   
SylvereApLeanan


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Status: offline 		The local users feature is based on zip code.  If the person enters a zip code within a certain radius of yours, they'll come up as "local."  The city and state they list in their profiles may or may not match that zip code. 
 
As for why they aren't interested in men, I'm afraid no one here is going to be able to answer that one.  Luck of the draw.  You'll probably have more success if you go to some events in your area - like a munch - and meet people.  Don't underestimate the power of real-life social networking. 

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RE: I'm just curious - 5/1/2011 12:54:48 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Omniseed

Why does it seem like every single woman in my area is either a lesbian or otherwise totally disinterested in men?

No idea.

Also why does "local users" seem to include people from the greater Boston area, when I live two or more hours away in a different state entirely?

Maybe your zip code was mistakenly entered as a MA code?

Just wondering, seems like most of the women on here just don't want to hear from any dudes at all. Is it just my area, or is it like this for other people's locales as well?

I don't think this is true for ANY locales.


Um, OP, I just looked at your profile.  It basically says, "I've got no experience and want kinky sex."  If you decide you want a relationship, and try to show that you're interested in a woman as a person first and a sex object second, you'll have greater luck.


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RE: I'm just curious - 5/1/2011 1:07:40 PM   
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RE: I'm just curious - 5/1/2011 1:09:34 PM   
tj444


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Status: offline 		women get turned off by much of the intro emails guys send. I got so tired of guys spamming me without even reading my profile that i changed my age to 90 to take a break from all the bs. There are posts on the forums of do`s and don`ts on initial emails and how to approach women. Do a search.

Personally, i dont like profiles with cock shots on them. If i get to know a guy and like him and i want to see IT, I will ask to see a pic.

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RE: I'm just curious - 5/1/2011 1:21:39 PM   
myotherself


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Status: offline 		I'll echo what the others have so eloquently said - females can get a lot of mail.

Much of it will be from guys looking for sex without the desire to make a D/s relationship. You can identify these guys by their profiles (which are all about the kind of sex they want with the kind of slut they're looking for) and the rather tedious cock shot.

Even if a woman IS just looking for sex, she has a LOT of guys to choose from.

Being able to take a pic of your cock is unlikely to make you stand out from the crowd.

Why not try one of the other sites if you're only after sex? You have craigslist, AFF, Alt.com ... might have better luck there.

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RE: I'm just curious - 5/1/2011 1:25:37 PM   
HannahLynHeather


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Why does it seem like every single woman in my area is either a lesbian or otherwise totally disinterested in men?
think it through, it just makes sense. women look better, feel better, smell better, and taste better. women are delightful when they laugh. women are adorable when they cry. women will actually wash the floors and toilets. women are more fun in bed because they can just keep on going for hours. just think of all the reason's you prefer women to men, and that's pretty much why women do as well.

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RE: I'm just curious - 5/1/2011 1:33:19 PM   
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ORIGINAL: HannahLynHeather

quote:

Why does it seem like every single woman in my area is either a lesbian or otherwise totally disinterested in men?
think it through, it just makes sense. women look better, feel better, smell better, and taste better. women are delightful when they laugh. women are adorable when they cry. women will actually wash the floors and toilets. women are more fun in bed because they can just keep on going for hours. just think of all the reason's you prefer women to men, and that's pretty much why women do as well.


And men wonder why I manscape.


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RE: I'm just curious - 5/1/2011 1:37:13 PM   
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ORIGINAL: NocturnalStalker



And men wonder why I manscape.



Does that include topiary?


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RE: I'm just curious - 5/1/2011 1:40:56 PM   
SylvereApLeanan


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ORIGINAL: myotherself


quote:

ORIGINAL: NocturnalStalker



And men wonder why I manscape.



Does that include topiary?



Oh gods...that was so not a mental image I needed to have.  Where's the brain bleach?!?!
 
  

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RE: I'm just curious - 5/1/2011 1:43:42 PM   
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ORIGINAL: SylvereApLeanan


Oh gods...that was so not a mental image I needed to have.  Where's the brain bleach?!?!
 
  


It's difficult to apologise and giggle at the same time

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RE: I'm just curious - 5/1/2011 1:48:45 PM   
SylvereApLeanan


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ORIGINAL: myotherself


quote:

ORIGINAL: SylvereApLeanan


Oh gods...that was so not a mental image I needed to have.  Where's the brain bleach?!?!
 
  


It's difficult to apologise and giggle at the same time


This for you:
 


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RE: I'm just curious - 5/1/2011 1:50:23 PM   
WantsOfTheFlesh


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Status: offline 		Dude its an issue of sexual economics: supply and demand, and supply outstrips demand. What puzzles me is that they can put a man on the Moon but haven't invented the female sexbot, surely the main reason most nerds get into science!

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RE: I'm just curious - 5/1/2011 2:04:25 PM   
NocturnalStalker


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ORIGINAL: SylvereApLeanan

quote:

ORIGINAL: myotherself


quote:

ORIGINAL: NocturnalStalker



And men wonder why I manscape.



Does that include topiary?



Oh gods...that was so not a mental image I needed to have.  Where's the brain bleach?!?!
 
  


Post a picture of a snake devouring a rabbit, please.

This cannot go unpunished.


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RE: I'm just curious - 5/1/2011 2:07:32 PM   
poise


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ORIGINAL: Omniseed

Why does it seem like every single woman in my area is either a lesbian or otherwise totally disinterested in men?

Also why does "local users" seem to include people from the greater Boston area, when I live two or more hours away in a different state entirely?

Just wondering, seems like most of the women on here just don't want to hear from any dudes at all. Is it just my area, or is it like this for other people's locales as well?


Of course it isn't just your area. The whole planet is being taken over by
lesbians and women otherwise not interested in men. Arm yourself!

Seriously, you have spent all of two weeks on this site and have already come to
such a silly conclusion based on the fact that you aren't getting any action?
Instead of saying all women are lesbians, wouldn't a more reasonable cause of your problem
be that you lack any degree of finesse in your approach?

As others have said, you are in stiff competition (no pun intended) here with alot of
men, and I see nothing in your profile that would inspire me to drop my panties for
you, let alone spend more than 10 minutes on pleasantries such as hello, how are you.


< Message edited by poise -- 5/1/2011 2:08:27 PM >

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RE: I'm just curious - 5/1/2011 2:20:37 PM   
poise


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RE: I'm just curious - 5/1/2011 2:21:59 PM   
tj444


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ORIGINAL: WantsOfTheFlesh

Dude its an issue of sexual economics: supply and demand, and supply outstrips demand. What puzzles me is that they can put a man on the Moon but haven't invented the female sexbot, surely the main reason most nerds get into science!


Here ya go

http://www.heaven666.org/fucking-machine-for-guys-49217.php




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RE: I'm just curious - 5/1/2011 2:33:00 PM   
needlesandpins


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Status: offline 		actually, some of us women DO like a cock shot. when i was looking for someone that is what i was interested in as i was being especially shallow. so i wanted a face pic and a cock shot. all cocks are different and even one that is the right size for me has to look good. just as there are some ugly women bits, there are some ugly guy danglies out there too. why waste time having to chat to someone first and ask for a cock shot to then have to say sorry but i don't like your cock? as a huge perv in it for the sex i see no reason why a guy shouldn't have a cock shot in his profile. it may well be different for alot of women, but i do get a bit sick of being spoken for. not only that, but it's well known that most single guys on these sites are looking for sex and are hardly going to think that the woman are any different. it takes time to realise that not all women are wanting a casual shag and that alot want relationships.

as for why the women in your area arn't interested.......not everyone is going to be into you. not everyone wants a casual fuck. some of us get to the stage where we just can't be arsed fighting off the players, married/partnered playing away from home guys anymore. some get turned off by being seen as a sex toy (and i say some, coz some, like me, love being used as a sex toy in the bounds of what they have going on). also if you are not making your mail personal, so having not read the profile of said lady and respecting what she wants, you are likely to not be replied to. to the vast majority of us you are/have nothing special compared to anyone else, therefore you have to make yourself stand out from the crowd.

other than that, you have only been here a couple of weeks. it's not the local kinky night club where everyone is drunk and looking to get laid. it's going to actually take some effort and personality.

good luck.

needles

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RE: I'm just curious - 5/1/2011 3:10:21 PM   
thabto


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Status: offline 		people like what they like and dislike what they dislike. now sometimes people lie to get rid of a lot of the chaff so they can cultivate the wheat and make it into bread. I know I have met a girl who pretended to be a lesbian just so the guys who liked her for her would still want to be friends and told them the truth that she was strait.

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