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RE: Submission with the woman you love - 4/14/2011 10:14:07 PM

porcelaine

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ORIGINAL: NocturnalStalker

At least you can rest easy knowing that your relationship will eventually come to an end. My suggestion is stretch it like those Stretch Armstrong toys you had as a kid. Remember Stretch Armstrong? Hell of a good toy. Played with mine for years. Then one day, it got all hard and plastic-like, and it's days were done. That was a sad day. One of those moments where I experienced a monumental loss in life. I was closer to that Stretch Armstrong than I was with any female in the past three years. Troublesome, isn't it? Wrong. You will see my point soon. Oh yes you will.

Greetings,

In spite of the obvious tongue and cheek displayed, the point was well articulated and something you'd be wise to note. If you allow the relationship to stagnate it will wither. Take things too far and it may fizzle out. Find the happy medium you can embrace that doesn't leave you resting on your laurels. It needn't spell the end or foster disappointment for a road never taken. But it might if you never try. In other words, live.

Namaste,

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RE: Submission with the woman you love - 4/15/2011 12:07:41 AM

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Can we ever not talk about sex for once?! Gah!

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RE: Submission with the woman you love - 4/15/2011 11:19:33 AM

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ORIGINAL: EternalDecent
And in case it was not clear, I did not mean to imply that female dominant relationships are not healthy.

Fear that we/she might become involved to the extreme level of things and possibly show interest in other men: Personal insecurity.
And the respect I would hold towards her to not want to introduce her to a lifestyle of degrading nature and humiliation: you find the lifestyle disrespectful
I think I would stop all dreams and fantasies to have a healthy relationship: You find the lifestyle to be "dream and fantasy" and fundamentally unhealthy.

I don't think you're implying that female dominant relationships are unhealthy. I think you said, straight out and in your own words, that you perceive all authority dynamics to be both unhealthy and fantasy based. I have no idea where you got these ideas from... whether it's the pages of porn or your own life history is irrelevant. If I had these opinions then I would not be participating in BDSM at all.

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RE: Submission with the woman you love - 4/15/2011 1:35:13 PM

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I don't have much to say to that except that if I were involved in any relationship vanilla or BDSM in nature that was humiliating or degrading I would leave quickly. I have never felt demeaned or degraded in my relationship with my Master. Things I'm required to do may involve me putting all pride aside but that is an excercise in selflessness and obedience, I come out of it feeling even more confident and sure of myself, not feeling like I am "less than." You have a lot to figure out about yourself and your perceptions before you should consider entering any relationship that touches on this lifestyle. Good thing you are here, I hope you are helped along your journey. :)

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