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phoney, Fantasy or Fact? - 4/5/2011 8:59:23 PM   
liveinposs4bislv


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Status: offline 		What a wonderful toy the internet has created for us folks, no longer bound by geography, we are able to discuss and imagine all sorts of sexy thoughts with people across many nations
In fact the only westernised nation that seems to decline the party invite are The Dutch who persist in communicating only with people who continue to use their idiosyncratic lingo.- is this I wonder because they fear their language will be extinguished by the tide of English? Or, maybe it's a kinky language fetish!

Most of what goes on, on this kind of international site is a playground.  Where kids live out on the schoolyard the play that will help them form social interactions in later life.

It is mostly about fantasy.

A very large proportion of the traffic on the net is around sex. Most of it is people imagining something sexy, like what it would be like having -her= that porn model on a site.

it is hardly surprising that most of what is on here is not quite genuine. I think admin have it right in not allowing blacklists.

It is a fantasy playground, backed by some genuine people.

When women say they are sluts, slags or whores they do not mean literally, they are just playing out a fantasy.

Whoring is a form of submission to money, that I guess is why so many profiles say they are whores, harlots etc

We are genuine 24/7 lifestylers developing a polyhouse.

This is not the site of choice for searching for genuine applicants, because there are so many false trails, let alone fraudulent Nigerian ones!

Just some musings at dawn 'here' stated in cyberland...
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RE: phoney, Fantasy or Fact? - 4/5/2011 9:03:27 PM   
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RE: phoney, Fantasy or Fact? - 4/5/2011 9:25:13 PM   
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What a wonderful toy the internet has created for us folks, no longer bound by geography, we are able to
discuss and imagine all sorts of sexy thoughts with people across many nations.

And we don't even care if our socks match or not! Ain't it cool?

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RE: phoney, Fantasy or Fact? - 4/5/2011 9:58:47 PM   
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And we don't even care if our socks match or not! Ain't it cool?


Hey now.. let's not go overboard.

Bita -sock fetish queen who ALWAYS wears matching socks and if I have on two pairs, they both must match! (Psst.. it's that ying yang Pisces thing. I feel so out of balanced if I'm not.. um.. balanced.)

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RE: phoney, Fantasy or Fact? - 4/5/2011 10:55:25 PM   
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RE: phoney, Fantasy or Fact? - 4/5/2011 11:07:03 PM   
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ORIGINAL: liveinposs4bislv

It is a fantasy playground, backed by some genuine people.


Greetings,

Fantasy isn't the enemy. It's when people start talking out of both sides of their mouths that problems ensue. As long as everyone is on the same page it's cool. You'll always have a mixture of good and bad in any venue. Just keep your bs barometer on the ready and you should be fine.

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RE: phoney, Fantasy or Fact? - 4/6/2011 5:19:09 AM   
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RE: phoney, Fantasy or Fact? - 4/6/2011 7:24:42 AM   
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Status: offline 		Personally, I think when your fantasy leads to angering/hurting others, it's no less ethically done on the internet than in real life. If a fat 40 year old man wants to masquerade as a an attractive 18 year old female lesbian online, fine. However, on a site like this where people are letting their guard down and hope to make meaningful connections, I don't think it's such a good thing. Also, am I missing something with the Dutch? I've know many Dutch people and they seemed to me to be more worldly than most Americans/Canadians.

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RE: phoney, Fantasy or Fact? - 4/6/2011 7:25:36 AM   
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RE: phoney, Fantasy or Fact? - 4/6/2011 9:44:07 AM   
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It is a fantasy playground, backed by some genuine people.

When women say they are sluts, slags or whores they do not mean literally, they are just playing out a fantasy.


1-No. It's the net, which means it is populated by real people, some of whom are playing charades.
2-Yeah, Ok. Next time I am ass raping the lilone while slapping her weighted tits, rubbing hard against her sweaty body and listening to her scream and beg while her eyes roll back in her head I'll be sure to stop and remind myself that this isn't real, it's just a fantasy and that five years together also are equally fake.
3-Blahblahblah...

This post is just denigrating.
*Perks up, laughs*
The good news is that it doesn't denigrate outsiders a whit, but sure does a number on the OP. :-)


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RE: phoney, Fantasy or Fact? - 4/6/2011 11:22:49 AM   
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ORIGINAL: porcelaine

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ORIGINAL: liveinposs4bislv

It is a fantasy playground, backed by some genuine people.


Greetings,

Fantasy isn't the enemy. It's when people start talking out of both sides of their mouths that problems ensue. As long as everyone is on the same page it's cool.
Namaste,

~porcelaine


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RE: phoney, Fantasy or Fact? - 4/6/2011 11:24:15 AM   
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How are they to flock to him when he is listed as "Profile Not Found"?


I guess he flocked off....

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RE: phoney, Fantasy or Fact? - 4/6/2011 11:25:56 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Coemgen

Personally, I think when your fantasy leads to angering/hurting others, it's no less ethically done on the internet than in real life. If a fat 40 year old man wants to masquerade as a an attractive 18 year old female lesbian online, fine. However, on a site like this where people are letting their guard down and hope to make meaningful connections, I don't think it's such a good thing. Also, am I missing something with the Dutch? I've know many Dutch people and they seemed to me to be more worldly than most Americans/Canadians.

As an English woman I try not to make nationalistic statements.


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RE: phoney, Fantasy or Fact? - 4/6/2011 12:22:03 PM   
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And we don't even care if our socks match or not! Ain't it cool?

Socks?

Who wears socks?

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RE: phoney, Fantasy or Fact? - 4/6/2011 12:35:08 PM   
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I'm not a bloody fake, how dare you!!!! c'mere and I shall whip you with my licorice whip(well half of one)


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RE: phoney, Fantasy or Fact? - 4/6/2011 12:37:05 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Lucylastic

six inch bunny slippers





NOOOOOOO!!!!!!!


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RE: phoney, Fantasy or Fact? - 4/6/2011 12:38:39 PM   
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There are fakes, especially w/ CM profiles, however most are too lazy to post. There are even more REAL people, who are active, are in their local scenes and do this kinky stuff at home all the time.

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RE: phoney, Fantasy or Fact? - 4/6/2011 12:40:25 PM   
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six inch bunny slippers



honey Im a fake, they are fake bunnies
you know I lubs bunniessssss

NOOOOOOO!!!!!!!



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RE: phoney, Fantasy or Fact? - 4/6/2011 12:49:51 PM   
Lucylastic


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clops off in my fake bunny heels


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RE: phoney, Fantasy or Fact? - 4/6/2011 3:00:55 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Lucylastic

Im wearing my latex jammies and a fleecy corset with six inch bunny slippers
I'm not a bloody fake, how dare you!!!! c'mere and I shall whip you with my licorice whip(well half of one)


Ummm lucy...your bunny slippers DO have floppy ears right? Cause you know, if you don't have the floppy ears...well then...you are not twue.

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