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GreedyTop -> Breaking up is hard to do? (3/30/2011 12:51:01 AM)

this study says that breaking up, unwillingly, DOES cause physical pain:

what say you?




FirmhandKY -> RE: Breaking up is hard to do? (3/30/2011 12:52:32 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

this study says that breaking up, unwillingly, DOES cause physical pain:

what say you?

Yes.

Firm




Palliata -> RE: Breaking up is hard to do? (3/30/2011 12:53:04 AM)

Without a doubt.




SexyBossyBBW -> RE: Breaking up is hard to do? (3/30/2011 1:31:59 AM)

Yes, breaking up is hard to do, and I believe the research supporting this.
http://news.softpedia.com/news/A-Broken-Heart-Can-Lead-to-Death-Researchers-Say-107907.shtml
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A Broken Heart Can Lead to Death, Researchers Say
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March 27th, 2009, 18:21 GMT| By Elena Gorgan
Death from a broken heart is often believed to be no more than just the kind of occurrence we read about in books or see in movies with a tragic love story. So far, people said that no one could actually die from a broken heart, but the latest research comes to prove that wrong: too much pain and grief, as well as a very powerful emotional shock can lead to heart attack-like symptoms that may often result in death.

The broken heart symptom is real, researchers say, and goes by the medical name of Takotsubo cardiomyopathy, as Japanese doctors first named it when they initially studied it in the ‘90s. It implies heart attack-like symptoms, including chest pains and shortness of breath, which can be triggered by an emotional shock, such as the one following news of an accident, illness in the family or a very violent argument.


Because of the release of a high amount of stress hormones, such as adrenaline, a part of the heart can be weakened and become “stunned,” experts believe.

Researchers from two hospitals in Providence, Rhode Island, who have conducted the study, also note in the American Journal of Cardiology that, while patients displayed different symptoms, what they had in common was that each one had been through an extremely emotional moment before their onset. Moreover, most such cases appeared in spring and summer, as opposed to normal heart attacks, which often took place in winter.

Even if researchers are still not able to pinpoint the exact causes, or mechanisms of the broken heart symptom, they are positive they’re one step closer to doing so, while also showing that it does, indeed, exist.

“Some believe it is simply a form of a heart attack that ‘aborts’ itself early and therefore doesn’t leave any permanent heart muscle damage. Others say that the syndrome has nothing to do with the coronary arteries and is simply a problem with the heart muscle.” Dr. Richard Regnante of The Miriam Hospital in Providence says about the possible theories regarding the broken heart syndrome. At the same time, he believes further studies will prove it’s the latter option.

According to the Daily Mail, Dr. Regnante is now recruiting patients with a broken heart syndrome in order to conduct another study on the same topic. By using ultrasound imaging, Regnante and his team will seek to establish the exact internal damages caused by this condition.
I don't know if yours or this is the first research I've seen on this; but in my own life, I've noticed loving spouses who've been together for decades, don't last more than 1-2 years after their loves passed away. M




wandersalone -> RE: Breaking up is hard to do? (3/30/2011 3:03:20 AM)

yep 




Kaliko -> RE: Breaking up is hard to do? (3/30/2011 6:02:21 AM)

Oh, yes.




GreedyTop -> RE: Breaking up is hard to do? (3/30/2011 6:08:41 AM)

~FR~

maybe I'm just a cold hearted bitch (*snerk*.. there's a surprise to my exes0, but I usually feel BETTER after I break up.  Of course that may say as much about the exes as it does me...

My Grandfather died less than 2 yrs after my Grandma.. they had been married fr just over 50 yrs.  While SHE had had health issues, he hadn't.




stellauk -> RE: Breaking up is hard to do? (3/30/2011 6:23:17 AM)

Yes. What you think and feel has a tremendous effect on your physical health.

The break up of any relationship creates stress, which in turn is a leading cause of illnesses and diseases.

The relationship isn't always a direct one but the relationship exists.




Phoenixpower -> RE: Breaking up is hard to do? (3/30/2011 6:28:55 AM)

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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop
My Grandfather died less than 2 yrs after my Grandma.. they had been married fr just over 50 yrs.  While SHE had had health issues, he hadn't.


My Grandmother also died less than 2 years after Grandpa (also married for 50+ years), though both had health issues, he as an alcoholic (died due to liver coma in december 05) and she died on cancer in september 07. I think if she would have had a reason to live longer (such as if grandpa would still have been here to whom she felt she has to look after or a grandkid to spend time with) then she would not have declinded another chemo and might have lived longer. But on a personal level I am happy for her when she went as there is no need to drag someone for longer through such treatment when it is a cancer which is known to remain incurable. Average life or most expected life (not sure which one it was) expectency after diagnosis is 7 years, so I am glad that she did not have to go through loss of hair etc. when she felt the time right to go.

So yes I agree, it is quite common that partners leave soon after.




LadyPact -> RE: Breaking up is hard to do? (3/30/2011 7:08:48 AM)

It makes sense to Me.  Especially in cases where the strain/emotional pain is a type that we don't handle as well as our day to day type.  When we literally can't handle what's happening mentally, the physical suffers.  Pretty much in the same way as folks with anxiety disorders tend to have physical symptoms. 

There is a study somewhere about long term partners having a greater chance of death within a year of a spouse.  Somebody had posted a link on the boards to it at one time.




GreedyTop -> RE: Breaking up is hard to do? (3/30/2011 7:15:12 AM)

~FR, OT~

I hope MrP isnt feeling too under the weather.. give him my warmest regards!




LaTigresse -> RE: Breaking up is hard to do? (3/30/2011 7:31:27 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

this study says that breaking up, unwillingly, DOES cause physical pain:

what say you?


Yes definitely.

Although............I would have liked to cause a great deal MORE pain at the time.......[:D]




GreedyTop -> RE: Breaking up is hard to do? (3/30/2011 7:33:37 AM)

*snort*  I know THAt feeling all too well!

(yes, I have a seriously sadistic side to me.. it's only about 10 miles wide.. )




porcelaine -> RE: Breaking up is hard to do? (3/30/2011 8:32:19 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

Although............I would have liked to cause a great deal MORE pain at the time.......[:D]


i'm so glad you said this so i didn't have to. [;)]

Namaste,

~porcelaine




slvemike4u -> RE: Breaking up is hard to do? (3/30/2011 7:02:25 PM)

Without a doubt,and yes I am speaking from experience.At the time it was the worst pain I had ever dealt with.....but it passes,you start exploring your kink(she was 'nilla) and before you know it ,you are wondering why you didn't show her the curb years earlier [:D]




NocturnalStalker -> RE: Breaking up is hard to do? (3/30/2011 7:16:31 PM)

People take advantage of my good and loving nature!  




NuevaVida -> RE: Breaking up is hard to do? (3/30/2011 7:43:46 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

this study says that breaking up, unwillingly, DOES cause physical pain:

what say you?


Yes.  And sometimes breaking up willingly does, too.




gungadin09 -> RE: Breaking up is hard to do? (3/30/2011 7:52:45 PM)

yesiree.




Muttling -> RE: Breaking up is hard to do? (3/31/2011 10:23:55 AM)

But I LIKE pain, if it causes physical pain then one would think that I would enjoy it.   <so confused>




GreedyTop -> RE: Breaking up is hard to do? (3/31/2011 10:52:23 AM)

MUTTLING!!   *hugs*  good to see ya! where've you been?




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