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porcelaine -> RE: Blacklist Letter (3/24/2011 12:59:19 PM)
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ORIGINAL: MargueriteV
So I received what I'd call a blacklist letter previous mentor of mine. Its basically 4 paragraphs on how my mentor is a horrible lifestyle/pro domme that destroys lives it also throws some really personal business out there and the sender makes a point of saying that they sent this message to everyone they know.
Greetings,
My response would depend on the nature of our relationship, if we parted on good terms, and if the individual is going to shoot the messenger upon delivery. Having had Someone in that role in a pseudo sort of way, I'd tell Her. As for your situation, there's the likelihood of more fallout or maybe an informative tap on the shoulder that allows the person to address the situation head on. That's the positive spiel. On the other hand, when you have people like this in your life you're usually aware of their ability to wreak havoc.
I'd be hard pressed to believe that your former mentor is completely in the dark. And while she may not be cognizant of the current stunt, I wouldn't be surprised if this is one in a line of many that have occurred thus far. The real question is why you're debating this. Unless there's some element of truth in what was said. I'd never allow anyone to villify my former Lady in that manner. But then again, She's worthy of the defense.
Namaste,
~porcelaine
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