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GreySaber -> exhaustion following orgasm? (3/21/2011 12:54:28 AM)

My Girl has something of a problem. Not a huge one, but I thought I'd see if anyone here had any ideas.

The problem is she orgasms so hard that one exhausts her, and she on average orgasms about 3-6 times during sex. She complains about this no end. Tends to naps quite a bit after as well.

Now, I'm sure there will be an immediate dozen replies by people wishing they had her problem. (Indeed, I think her ease of climax is making me lazy.)

Nonetheless, the exhaustion as a result is something she'd like to do away with, so I thought I'd see if anyone here has had a similar problem, and if they had a solution other then 'just dealing with it.'



SexyBossyBBW -> RE: exhaustion following orgasm? (3/21/2011 1:22:49 AM)

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ORIGINAL: GreySaber
Nonetheless, the exhaustion as a result is something she'd like to do away with, so I thought I'd see if anyone here has had a similar problem, and if they had a solution other then 'just dealing with it.'
How about downing a couple of espressos before sex? Take vitamins, drink green tea... 5hour energy? [:D]
I'd love her to have her problem, but that's not what you asked. M



Palliata -> RE: exhaustion following orgasm? (3/21/2011 3:44:29 AM)

Aww, the poor thing. Just bury her face in a mound of cocaine for the duration. Solve the living fuck out of that problem.



LaTigresse -> RE: exhaustion following orgasm? (3/21/2011 3:47:05 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: GreySaber

My Girl has something of a problem. Not a huge one, but I thought I'd see if anyone here had any ideas.

The problem is she orgasms so hard that one exhausts her, and she on average orgasms about 3-6 times during sex. She complains about this no end. Tends to naps quite a bit after as well.

Now, I'm sure there will be an immediate dozen replies by people wishing they had her problem. (Indeed, I think her ease of climax is making me lazy.)

Nonetheless, the exhaustion as a result is something she'd like to do away with, so I thought I'd see if anyone here has had a similar problem, and if they had a solution other then 'just dealing with it.'


You've not given enough information to get anything other than flippant remarks.



angelikaJ -> RE: exhaustion following orgasm? (3/21/2011 5:41:58 AM)

My guess is that the ones she has with you are quite different than the ones she has when she masturbates?

I have orgasms that are intense and cathartic. I don't have those when I am alone.
My Master knows this and will wrap me in his arms and snuggle me in blankets.

Has she seen a physician to rule out common fatigue inducing things such as anemia?

It sounds like she is discomfited by this.
How are you approaching it?

Why is she "complaining"?
Is it disruptive to her schedule, or does it worry her in some way?

Perhaps you need to just consider these mega-Os as something that you need to provide aftercare for.

What would you normally do after intense play?

If you haven't encountered anything that has required aftercare before, I might suggest bringing her a small high protien snack, as well as something to drink.
She may feel tired if she is dehydrated or if her blood sugar is low.

If there isn't a reason why she can't nap, then encourage her to do so.
It sounds like "naps" bothers you?
Does it?

You may have to make some adjustments: perhaps play right before she goes to work, isn't going to be what will work for her.



DarkSteven -> RE: exhaustion following orgasm? (3/21/2011 6:08:22 AM)

Why is this a problem? Does she sleep for six hours afterward?



porcelaine -> RE: exhaustion following orgasm? (3/21/2011 10:11:07 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: GreySaber

The problem is she orgasms so hard that one exhausts her, and she on average orgasms about 3-6 times during sex. She complains about this no end. Tends to naps quite a bit after as well.


Greetings,

At best we're taking stabs in the dark since the information offered was rather limiting. Her fatigue could be the result of the following:
  • Interruption in her normal sleep pattern, especially since she's napping or insomnia.
  • Poor diet
  • Nutritional deficiencies
  • Lack of exercise
  • Low water intake
  • Undiagnosed medical condition
  • Differences in energy level (sex in the morning versus other times of the day)
  • Intensity of orgasm
  • Current illness (ex. cold)
  • Stress
  • Emotional build up and release
  • Sleep inducement after orgasm
  • Excessive caffeine intake
I would suggest that you have her give an accounting of her day for a short duration. Look at her activity levels, food consumption, and mindset during this period. You may find it isn't truly a problem, but may be the end result of something else that's lurking in the shadows. Which doesn't mean an issue that's necessarily bad, but merely unknown to you both.

And there's another thought. That level of release would probably bring some measure of fatigue to most people. You'll need to make sure she's taking in enough fuel to sustain what she's burning off in her sexual rigors. Her body may truly be depleted after all the episodes. Best of luck.

Namaste,

~porcelaine



Asfixation -> RE: exhaustion following orgasm? (3/21/2011 11:01:27 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: GreySaber


The problem is she orgasms so hard that one exhausts her, and she on average orgasms about 3-6 times during sex. She complains about this no end. Tends to naps quite a bit after as well.


Chastity?



tazzygirl -> RE: exhaustion following orgasm? (3/21/2011 1:21:32 PM)

~FR

My opinion... if she isnt tired after sex, you are doing something wrong.



sexyred1 -> RE: exhaustion following orgasm? (3/21/2011 1:26:47 PM)

I agree. Who is not tired after great sex?



tazzygirl -> RE: exhaustion following orgasm? (3/21/2011 1:59:54 PM)

My ex... lol... if its great, he is starving afterwards! Me, im just a puddle of exhausted slut flesh, basking in the delightful afterglow of aromas and sensations, hungering to float in that erotic bliss for a while.



BitaTruble -> RE: exhaustion following orgasm? (3/21/2011 3:03:30 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: GreySaber

Nonetheless, the exhaustion as a result is something she'd like to do away with, so I thought I'd see if anyone here has had a similar problem, and if they had a solution other then 'just dealing with it.'


I know you are going to think I'm being flippant, but I promise you I am not.

If she is /s:

Have her give you a blow job as the last order of business all sprawled out on the bed with you. That gives her energy time to build back up if she's in a relaxed state. Mix in 10 mins of cuddle time after then dump a glass of ice water on her, slap her ass and tell her to get her lazy butt up and make you a sandwich then make her stay up after and clean the toilet or something. Use the wench. She's a slave for crying out loud.

If she is /d: I got nothing. [:D]



littlewonder -> RE: exhaustion following orgasm? (3/21/2011 3:09:12 PM)

we always end up napping or going to sleep right after sex. Seems pretty normal to me. All the energy expended makes one exhausted. Maybe we're just old. 



SexyBlackMan2 -> RE: exhaustion following orgasm? (3/21/2011 4:18:52 PM)

take a vitamin B complex or a Vitamin B6 and B12 at the same time (otherwise neither work)...these are natural ways to boost energy. 



babygurlangel -> RE: exhaustion following orgasm? (3/21/2011 4:18:52 PM)

My Daddy has to eat after he gets off, I on the other hand would love to nap sometimes I do sometimes I don't.. lol but would be nice if I could nap everytime and not mess up my sleep schedule.. those are a pain to fix [:'(]



SexyBossyBBW -> RE: exhaustion following orgasm? (3/22/2011 4:19:50 AM)

Great sex leaves me alert... Hopefully, I am with someone who can stay up, cuddle a little, and converse for a while. I usually run into the opposite problem, where the man goes to sleep/passes out, after orgasm. M



strangedesire -> RE: exhaustion following orgasm? (3/22/2011 5:09:07 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: GreySaber

The problem is she orgasms so hard that one exhausts her, and she on average orgasms about 3-6 times during sex. She complains about this no end. Tends to naps quite a bit after as well.



I can get my Kitten to 10-12 orgasms in fifteen minutes if I'm in the mood. She'll get pain and cramping if she has too many too quickly, but she doesn't generally need a nap afterward.

Is your girl easily tired from other forms of physical exertion? This could be symptomatic of something bigger.



BeachMystress -> RE: exhaustion following orgasm? (3/22/2011 8:05:05 AM)

How physically fit is she? Good sex is quite physical, especially when it involves multiple orgasms. She may be having a problem with lactic acid buildup. A build up of lactic acid can have you feeling very weak or tired. It also can cause muscle pain/weakness, numb/cold feeling in your arms & legs, trouble breathing, stomach pain, nausea with vomiting, fast or uneven heart rate, & dizziness.

Also, you may have caused her blood sugar to drop or her electrolytes to go out of balance. Try having her eat a banana and a handful of salted nuts afterward.

It could also be dehydration from gulping air. Make sure she drinks 8oz every half hour to keep her hydrated. If none of those helped I'd be making a Dr's appt for her.



windchymes -> RE: exhaustion following orgasm? (3/22/2011 8:51:15 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: GreySaber

Nonetheless, the exhaustion as a result is something she'd like to do away with, so I thought I'd see if anyone here has had a similar problem, and if they had a solution other then 'just dealing with it.'



Funny how we never get threads by GUYS complaining that they fall asleep afterwards.....



graceadieu -> RE: exhaustion following orgasm? (3/22/2011 8:44:25 PM)

I wouldn't worry about it! After having 3-6 powerful orgasms in a row, it's only natural to need a rest. After something like that, I'm lucky if I can walk in a straight line or have a coherent conversation for the next hour. [;)]

The only solution, as far as I've been able to figure out, is to not have sex soon before you have to be somewhere.



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