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rcmc -> Near Dallas Dom Wondering??? (3/20/2011 7:04:35 PM)
I have been on the site for about a week. There don't seem to be any serious subs on here, just a bunch of looky-loos. I have sent messages to subs who have read my messages and looked at my profile but have not responded to my message. plain simple etiquette says you reply with a "no thanks" but that does not seem to be the case here. I have been fairly specific about what I am seeking so I hope that sometime in the future some one will be polite enough to respond.

hausboy -> RE: Near Dallas Dom Wondering??? (3/20/2011 7:11:07 PM)
It could be, perhaps...your avatar.... it appears that the male in the photo is the sub, not the dom. A bit confusing. But given what I've read on CM from the women who post here, they get so many Cmails from men, that it is unrealistic to expect them to reply to them all. I'd give it more than a week. Maybe it's your approach.....maybe it's them....maybe it's you. I don't know of any personals site that yield results in a week.

peppermint -> RE: Near Dallas Dom Wondering??? (3/20/2011 7:44:59 PM)
Etiquette says that an unsolicited electronic mail need not be answered. Actually, a no reply is your answer. They read your mail. They looked at your profile. They have NO interest. If they reply back with the no thanks that you seem to need, then they risk the chance that you will write back demanding to know why....or just sending an insult. You need to grow a thicker skin while seeking online. So it is not a matter of being polite or rude. It is just rejection of what you have to offer, plain and simple. Don't take it personally. Just move on.

Arpig -> RE: Near Dallas Dom Wondering??? (3/20/2011 8:08:01 PM)
A whiney introduction after 1 week...way to make an impression dude.

Delilya -> RE: Near Dallas Dom Wondering??? (3/20/2011 10:02:47 PM)
Good luck

kissheels -> RE: Near Dallas Dom Wondering??? (3/21/2011 1:52:27 AM)
Good Luck with that!!!

mushroomchicken -> RE: Near Dallas Dom Wondering??? (3/21/2011 6:59:14 AM)
You have more pictures of another woman on your profile then you do of you. Will this woman in your pictures be part of the relationship you are looking for? That would be my impression. I am speaking for myself here, but I have NO DESIRE to see some woman sucking you off. It is very unappealing and an instant turn off. Your profile is fine, but very generic. Make it more unique, talk a bit about you. Those would be my comments on why you are likely getting no replies.

DarkSteven -> RE: Near Dallas Dom Wondering??? (3/21/2011 7:06:28 AM)
Fella, your profile makes it very clear that you're looking for nothing other than play sessions. Which is fine, but women get a LOT of those offers. When you say " I have sent messages to subs who have read my messages and looked at my profile but have not responded to my message.", what does that mean? It sounds like you're sending messages to subs, who then read your profile and decide not to answer, and then you get pissed when they don't respond to a follow-up message. Dude, if they read your message and then your profile and don't respond, then they've checked you out and are not interested.

ashjor911 -> RE: Near Dallas Dom Wondering??? (3/21/2011 8:30:09 AM)
Welcpme To CM

daintydimples -> RE: Near Dallas Dom Wondering??? (3/21/2011 9:15:32 AM)
As already stated, your profile needs some serious help. Do some searches on profile writing and how to attract females on CM. Your pics are a major detraction for anyone looking for more than a play partner. (Dallas is a big city, there should be plenty of local groups you can attend to find temporary partners if that is what floats your boat.) I see newish doms with pics like yours up who want to show that they are "real" (i.e. have tied someone up before). That's great and all, except the pics are so generic, you could have gotten them from anywhere. We don't know it's you, b/c we don't know you. Your profile makes it clear you are looking for a young hottie, yet you are whining you did not find one here in a week. Get out into the real world of munches and play parties and maybe you'll get a reality check.

kdsusa7894 -> RE: Near Dallas Dom Wondering??? (3/21/2011 4:09:18 PM)
^^^ What DarkSteven said.

OohAahMrs -> RE: Near Dallas Dom Wondering??? (3/22/2011 8:57:47 AM)
It must be the shock of actually getting some response from a Mistress, other than; "give me all your money, you loser!"

tiggerspoohbear -> RE: Near Dallas Dom Wondering??? (3/22/2011 9:05:13 PM)
Well, I guess a welcome to CM is in order. Just a question, but do you think a submissive is going to be impressed that you have other naked women in your pics? Do they even know you've put them on your profile? Even with their faces obscured? I sure as hell wouldn't trust you within 50 ft of a camera. But then that's just me. If you sent me a message, look at your profile first, see the pics then delete the message. And if someone looks at you forum posts, this is what they're going to see. Someone who whines about not getting replies. You've received some good advice from other posters already, I suggest you take it before you proceed. Good luck.

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