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lovingtoy -> help please with CM (3/3/2011 1:07:43 AM)

I got a message from a person unknown to me stating that many users are reporting me as a "dude"
Is there such a place to "report" users, and how would i dispute the claims?
Not sure why people are malicious



Megannn -> RE: help please with CM (3/3/2011 1:13:50 AM)

I just received the same message. Im not sure why though



Termyn8or -> RE: help please with CM (3/3/2011 1:18:05 AM)

Tell them to go fuck off. Case closed.

T^T



subtlebutterfly -> RE: help please with CM (3/3/2011 1:19:33 AM)

I got it too few weeks ago, from a hidden account..that no longer exists. Go figure.
It's a BS.



Megannn -> RE: help please with CM (3/3/2011 1:20:58 AM)

Its just some creep trying to get girls on cam. Report the message.



Termyn8or -> RE: help please with CM (3/3/2011 1:23:40 AM)

Look, your phone rings doesn't it ? And when it does it is not always someone you know or want to know.

What is so hard to understand here ?

T^T



WyldHrt -> RE: help please with CM (3/3/2011 1:35:03 AM)

I assume that you just hid your profile, as no one can message you on the other side when your profile is hidden unless you post on the forums.

That said, this is a common ploy to get new folks upset and anxious to 'dispute' the 'claims'.

Relax, no one is talking about you, reporting you, or anything else (blacklisting of any kind is verboten here). What you have is some HNG idiot playing mind games in order to score nekkid pics or maybe a strip on cam session as 'proof' that you are female.
Tell whoever it is to fuck off and block him.



NocturnalStalker -> RE: help please with CM (3/3/2011 4:13:34 AM)

....

So what about that webcam show?



DarkSteven -> RE: help please with CM (3/3/2011 4:20:10 AM)

First off, welcome to collarme!

Unfortunately, my girlfriend Wyld is right. There are idiots here. Report, block, delete, move on.

That said, now that you're in the forums, stick around a bit and chat with us.



Lockit -> RE: help please with CM (3/3/2011 8:26:57 AM)

It isn't rare to see someone with profile journals saying something to the effect that someone says they are a minor, that they are being talked about and reported and they defend themselves or try to prove themselves. Sometimes I will drop them an email and let them know that these guys that do this are all talk and trying to get them riled up so that they have manipulated a stressful situation that sometimes gets a lil chicky on cam proving herself. If not, they get to watch her express her distress. Pay off!

Look inside yourself and ask... why would some stranger making such claims upset me? There is your answer. Not in what to do about it outside yourself. You can't get 'had' if your response is such that it would be like swatting a fly away from you. You just saw a modern day bully... they can't bully you if you don't let them. Swat and move on...



lovingtoy -> RE: help please with CM (3/3/2011 10:01:35 AM)

Thank you so much.  I really appreciate everyone's support.  I did hide my profile.  Thank you again everyone.  I have been reading posts for quite some time.  My next one will be an introduction of sorts....

lisa



stellauk -> RE: help please with CM (3/3/2011 11:44:23 AM)

I wouldn't worry about it. You know how it is with some people, they live their lives to serve as a horrible warning to everyone else.



ashjor911 -> RE: help please with CM (3/3/2011 12:07:32 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Termyn8or

Look, your phone rings doesn't it ? And when it does it is not always someone you know or want to know.

What is so hard to understand here ?

T^T


100 % agreed



Lockit -> RE: help please with CM (3/3/2011 3:37:28 PM)

Okay, now I am getting email from a kinky board member, saying I look underage and if I don't put out, he's going to report me. First I would like to recommend eye glasses for this beloved poster. I do commend him on his taste of course, but after that... yes I am laughing my ass off and am wondering why we couldn't say laughing my tummy off. That would work better for me. I'd like to keep my ass.

Cookies I will provide darling poster... but I am not putting out! (Well, unless you move here. My conditions have not changed!) [:D]

Gotcha! No hiding in email dear! We must be a good example! [:D]

(I know I am going to pay dearly for this one. That's okay, I already pulled a Lucy today... only cost me one set of cabinets! Beat that you cookie monster!) [;)]



DarkSteven -> RE: help please with CM (3/3/2011 6:54:27 PM)

I dunno. You run the risk of infuriating said poster by implying that you can buy him off with cookies.  Plus he may have some cred with the admins.  If I were you, I would seriously reconsider not putting out.

That's from a completely disinterested, detached perspective, of course.



Termyn8or -> RE: help please with CM (3/3/2011 10:08:02 PM)

"Okay, now I am getting email from a kinky board member, saying I look underage and if I don't put out, he's going to report me."

Save that mail. It is prima facie evidence of "importuning" I think and is a federal case most likely. You have black mail :-).  It might not be importuning, I forgot the exact definition right now, but if he THINKS you are underage and propositions you for sex he is already guilty. And if he doesn't live in the same state as you, it is a federal case.

But trying blackmail is contraincidated in this instance, since you would have to use a court to subpeona the eveidence, it will also show your offer. That offer would constitute blackmail.

But then if you ever get really pissed offf,,, you have ammo.

T^T



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